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writes:I have a friend. Last week our playful wrestling got the best of us and we ended up having a quickie, because we were in a public place and in danger of getting caught... It was really nice and there has been no awkwardness, since the incident. But also no repeat performance. The thing is I have liked my friend for a long time but 6 weeks ago I gave up waiting for him to like me back "in that way" so I have been dating (no sex tho) nice random guys. FYI, he was a virgin before hookup, not me. I see my friend maybe 3-4 times a week always during the day, alone or with a group of friends. Please guys tell me what is going thru his mind!?!? I've noticed subtle changes in my friend's behavior. He gets annoyed if I get texts while we hang out, he calls or texts me on his day off to gossip, and then ask if I miss him, he is more affectionate, cheeky kiss and hug hello/ goodbye. He is a bit rude to my dates, but yet he hasn't asked me out!! I have never been a shy girl but now I am turning into one and can't seem to ask him out. I am afraid to make a move. He used to flirt with other girls all the time, nowadays he is just friendly to them. The other day I pointed out a hot girl to him, and he said "yeah but not my type..." then proceeded to tell me he likes tall blondes with a nice ass. I am short brunette with a nice ass.
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reader, tmariee +, writes (24 July 2010):
aww this is so cute(:
duhh he's into you silly. he lost his virginity to you so of course he gnna be a little jealous.. ask him out just go up to him and say hey i liked the sex maybe we can try it again some time..jokingly of course u dnt want him to think its all u want! but ya yall will work out!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 July 2010):
 He likes you, but is intimidated by you. You're going to need to take the lead in this. Tell him you're feeling something more for him and would like to give it a try. I sincerely doubt he'll object.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (16 July 2010):
 Tell him you had a great time, and say your finding you like him a lot more after that and see him in a more romantic frame of mind.. Then ask if he wants to grab a coffee or go out for a drink...
Having sex in the open with your buddy, that shows your no prude. He still treats you as a friend, so I don't think he'll turn away if you ask him for a date.. If he says no, then laugh and say "too bad, but it's good that we'll be friends" and forget all about it.
He's your friend, he's not treated you badly after sex, and I doubt he'll treat you badly if you make a move to change the relationship to a more romantic committed one...
Give it a try, doubt you loose your friend...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 July 2010):
 How about YOU ask him out? TELL him you would like a repeat performance or 100...?
Of couse he doesn't like your dates. He may be a little shy, but I DO think he likes you.
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