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His little sister is invading our relationship.

Q.   Okay so my boyfriends sister is coming home from living with friends. She butts in our relationship and is very needy of him. I don't like to share and feel like im competing. She also uses him and he accepts it because that's his younger sister. ...

A.   9 March 2010: Im definately not jealous of her. He has 6 brothers and sisters its just she really urks me. Nobody else is this needy of him. Its like there's a point in life where you don't call ur older brother for every little thing. Even I don't call him for ... (read in full...)

His little sister is invading our relationship.

Q.   Okay so my boyfriends sister is coming home from living with friends. She butts in our relationship and is very needy of him. I don't like to share and feel like im competing. She also uses him and he accepts it because that's his younger sister. ...

A.   9 March 2010: Btw.. Nobody in his family likes her because she's just not a nice girl. She causes drama for everyone and doesn't even have any friends of her own because of how she acts. Also she's older than me but younger than my bf. So its really annoying.. = ... (read in full...)

Help! Should I end it NOW???

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. We've had pretty normal fights and we always make up. Lately I've been asking him where he sees it going and just like a guy he ignores me or says "yeah whatever you want". I know im young but ...

A.   9 March 2010: Im 20 but I've lived with him since 17 so I feel im a bit more mature than other 20 yr olds. How do I explain it all to him( if I do decide to leave)?... (read in full...)

Been with him for 10 years and want to get married...

Q.   I need Help, I have been with My Boyfriend Almost Ten years, and I have hinted to Him For awhile that I want to Get married. He has a son that I just adore and He is know asking his dad why we are not married. I feel that it is Time for us to Get ...

A.   9 March 2010: I agree he should see nothing wrong with a piece of paper that solidifies the relationship..... (read in full...)

Sex drive help needed

Q.   ok people, what im saying is i never go more than 3 days. MY QUESTION IS can you slow down a sex drive?I have a problem i need it every day. Is that normal? PS only with my fiance...

A.   9 March 2010: Wanting to have sex everyday is not a problem. Maybe your fiance is just not as sexual as you. Is this a recent discovery or has he never been on your level?... (read in full...)

My girl won't please me the way I want her to!

Q.   Should I break up with my girl if she won't give me the pleasure I want? She's always making up excuses so as not to do what I want and, just for the record, I always give her whatever she wants, even without her having to ask me for it....

A.   8 March 2010: Maybe there is a reason behind it. Instead of just trying to get her to do it talk to her about why she won't. Tell her it would be nice to experience it. Maybe you're trying in a very forceful way which bothers her. Take her out to dinner and a ... (read in full...)

Sex with my friend's mum!!!

Q.   i want to have sex with my frinds mom and she has a guy. how can i hook up with her? she is about 30-37 and i am 20. help!!!!! her boobs are so hot !! how can i stop this ? I dont want to do it but she looks at me like she wants it to!!! ...

A.   8 March 2010: If she has a guy stay away from her. Especially if you want to keep your friend. Find a girl your age with "hot boobs" and have sex with her if you must. What you do with ur friends mom will have serious consequences. Think before you act. ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong that I do not want my mother to run my life?

Q.   I am a 19 year old female who works a full time job and in college in business management. I have a boyfriend who is 24 whom i have known for five years. I currently live with my mother who had kicked me out at 17 because of an abusive relationship ...

A.   8 March 2010: Moms tend to relive their lives through their daughters. What ur mom really should want is for you to be happy. You can listen to her advice but let her know.. Ultimately the decisions in ur life are up to you. She should know that she raised you ... (read in full...)

Sex drive help!

Q.   my other half is telling me my sex drive is too high and i need to find a way to slow it down. can anyone give me advice?...

A.   8 March 2010: You can't kill ur sex drive. If u want it u want it. The question is.. Is ur partners sex drive too slow? If it doesn't match urs u should find a way to talk it through. Depriving urself is only going to make u resent them for it.... (read in full...)

I am 19, want to get engaged and pregnant but I am afraid of my parents reaction.

Q.   Me and my partner (both 19) have been together for a a year and 2 months we love each other dearly and are mature for our age. We have talked alot throughout our relationship about having a child and also getting engaged. It seems like forever ...

A.   10 February 2010: Go for it.. You guys might struggle a bit at first but if this is what you want you're old enough to know what you're getting into and the sacrifices you may have to make. Good luck = )... (read in full...)

Internet man troubles. I am confused!

Q.   Hi I have been talking to a guy on the internet for 4 months getting on really well. Text me xmas and new year's eve then suddenly went quiet. Text him and he told me he was just really stressed and didn't have time for anything other than work, I ...

A.   7 February 2010: If he's only an internet guy and he's retreating after 4 months don't even bother. Forget about it and move on. You don't need that or have time for dumb games.... (read in full...)

She is starting to get naggy...

Q.   Im going out with my girlfriend now for about 2 months.. But Im confused.. I think shes starting to get naggy.. To be honest I cant put up with that.. I dont know weather to break up or not.. If we do Ill get all the blame and probaly get a name ...

A.   7 February 2010: If its only been two months and she's naggy maybe that's not the right girl for you. It sounds to me like she needs more than you're ready or wanting to give. Just tell her that you're starting to think you guys want different things but you want to ... (read in full...)

I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.

Q.   For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...

A.   6 February 2010: If you've been married for 10 years you can't expect her to change over night. Answer me this how is ur relationship outside of the bedroom??? Besides trying to shove things inside of her have you asked her what she would enjoy? Some women I know ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is taking another girl to the prom

Q.   My boyfriend is a year above me, so i can't go to his prom. He's told me that he's taking another girl and I really really don't like it. I've told him but he keeps reassuring me that it's 'not a real date' but I still don't want him to. He knows I ...

A.   6 February 2010: He doesn't need to bring a date. They can just go to the dance. If they're friends they can enjoy the night together and tell him it would be nice if he brought you to dinner before or after or make a special date with you.... (read in full...)

I can't stop feeling jealous

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and everythings been fine until he signd up to facebook and now I'm obsessed with checking his posts and everything he writes on his female friends walls. Last week he went out for a work do with men and wome...

A.   6 February 2010: Thts not his girlfriend he shouldn't worry about her. If he's in a commited relationship with you..tell him to take down his facebook. Tell him its causing problems in your relationship and if he only goes on it every now and then he doesn't need ... (read in full...)

Can I trust my girlfriend?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend almost 14 months, she attracts a massive amount of attention from other males, a wee while ago she left herself logged into a social networking site, and when i realised she was still logged in i took a little look in ...

A.   6 February 2010: If she wanted to be with that guy she would. I agree that maybe he's just an old friend. Maybe he wants something more but she doesn't. Maybe she set you up. Maybe she wanted to see if you would read her emails. Stop snooping and make your ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be the overbearing mother but I can't have her having sex with a guy that can't commit to her!

Q.   Aunts I need your help. My daughter is 18 yrs old, when she was 16 she met Ryan and they dated for 6 months and she got pregnant. Ryan was very supportive during the pregnancy but once my granddaughter was born he was inmature, spending a lot o...

A.   6 February 2010: Tell her that you understand why she is attached to him but to think of if he cares about her. As the mother you can tell her who not to have in her room. But if you're not always around she's going to do what she wants. Also bring her to her ob/gyn ... (read in full...)

I want to make sure I am prepared but what size condoms should I buy

Q.   I was always told that in situations, not to rely on the guy to always have condoms. And I'm with it, being independent and what not. But I have a question. Since all guys are different, like when I compare my ex to the guy I was recently with, they ...

A.   6 February 2010: Don't listen to the guy!As a girl I will be honest.If u get one of each it will look make you look like a easy girl. Any guy who sees them is going to think you had different sexual partners who liked diff condoms. Get one set of something that ... (read in full...)

Why wouldnt my b/f give us another chance if we ever broke up?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Me and my fiance have only been together for about 1 1/2 or 2 years. Of course we have our ups/downs like every body else. But, he says that if we ever break-up he will never come back to me.He said if we break up for any reason at all. ...

A.   6 February 2010: Well for me im in the same situation. If he says tht he means it. He probably thinks if you break up your going to mess around with someone else or that's happened to him before. Also it could just be that if u break up then there should be no ... (read in full...)

I don't understand him, or is the problem me?

Q.   hi guys hope u can help bit of a long story but here we go. ive been with my partner 7 years and we have one son together (4 years old). we deeply love each other but the problem is his family. im a very straight forward person and spea...

A.   6 February 2010: Just stay away from his family as much as possible. As for your son they are going to have to explain to him when he gets older why they acted the way they did.just be nice to his parents especially his mom. They have some kind of influence = P... (read in full...)

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