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*ellye
writes:my other half is telling me my sex drive is too high and i need to find a way to slow it down. can anyone give me advice?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 March 2010):
So you have decided you want to kill off your sex drive rather than be yourself?
Fair enough, your life.
Try going on the pill, that can kill it.
I still think a vibrator will help too.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, nellye +, writes (8 March 2010):
nellye is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok people what im saying is if i dont my make love after 2 days i get VERY mad. THE QUESTION IS how do you slow down a sex drive. PS my other half is a great guy and i have never went over 3 days. we do make love I just need it more than him
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): Yeah, I agree. Differences in sex drive that are huge is called sexual incompatibility. Unless your relationship is new, you have been without sex for a long time and are just trying to catch up, then it may taper off on it's own. Just saying, I don't know what the whole story is here...but you can't really change your natural sex drive, it is what it is. You either have to be satisfied with less sex than you like and take care of yourself, or find a partner who is more like you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): I agree with Emily, your's isn't too high, it is what it is, The problem you do have is that that you don't match, I don't think you need to find a way to slow it down. That isn't going to make you happy in the long run.
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reader, themisses +, writes (8 March 2010):
You can't kill ur sex drive. If u want it u want it. The question is.. Is ur partners sex drive too slow? If it doesn't match urs u should find a way to talk it through. Depriving urself is only going to make u resent them for it.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 March 2010):
Yours is not too high. It just happens to be higher than his.
There is no such thing as normal.
You either have to buy a vibrator, or find a man who can keep up with you.
It's a shame this one is not willing to at least try, and instead tries to make you think it's your fault.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Yea, find a sexier guy who can keep up!
Seriously, it's not your fault - it's not his, you're just mis-matched when it comes to being sexually satisfied. Don't let him browbeat you into thinking YOU have a problem. It's his way of dealing with being unable to continue at your pace. Try telling him HE needs to up HIS game!
Good luck.
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