People think I'm her sugar daddy
Q. I'm 32 and have been dating a girl for 18 months. She is 11 yrs younger then I am and even though its been a year and a half both our families still don't think our relationship will last. I love her. And I hate to say that in the beginning I didn't...
A. 13 May 2014: Long story short just ignore what ur family says, important is how u feel and if you two are focused on making this relationship work, I think you should enjoy it without thinking what is and what is not socially acceptable, everything will fall in ... (read in full...)
Should I be selfish for once or be the good girl?
Q. Hi, I have this problem... I have this friend I've known for two years now and we always kind of liked each other. He's much older than I am and is in a relationship. Because we were such good friends, I know his girlfriend really well now too. Bu...
A. 29 April 2014: All the right things are mostly hard, so don't go for him, if he is cheating on ur friend chances are he will cheat on u. channel ur energies towards someone else, I mean come on there must be a lot of other great guys out there, who are avaialable, ... (read in full...)
Has anyone lost the love of their life? Do I keep fighting? And how do I deal with the thought of her with someone else?
Q. Hi All, Here's my situation that I need advice on: I was dating a girl for around 6 month who I was madly in love with, she was the girl of my dreams, I have never been happier. Then all of a sudden one day she turns round to me and says s...
A. 12 April 2014: Just get busy and distract urself, with time the pain will heal and u will make peace with the fact that you two were not meant to be together. But not necessarily u have to think that all the time that person has spent with u was for no good. ... (read in full...)
I want to study and have a career but I am scared of the changes I have to make!
Q. I have this guy in my life i feel for, he is really a nice guy and lives overseas we have met a couple of times, We talk on phone and he likes me too. I want to marry him but he is unstable financially so he wants me to get independent earn on my ...
A. 12 April 2014: Thanks for an honest perspective... (read in full...)
My first love has moved on, but I can't seem to
Q. Hi... I am a 21 year old girl nursing a broken heart. I've done many stupid things during the past year. And now I wish none of them happened. I wish I could change things but I know there's no point of wishing that, and I can't change life or ...
A. 11 December 2013: make peace with the reality... (read in full...)
Boyfriend had a secret porn blog and we barely have sex anymore. Should I leave him?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. We've been fighting a lot lately. I found out he had a porn blog on tumblr and i got upset I made him chose me or delete it. He deleted it but he's been such an ass. Hes had an attitude...
A. 1 December 2013: Breakup is the right decision!... (read in full...)
Can't attract guys at all! What am I doing wrong?
Q. Okay! This is going to sound so stupid but i'm facing 17 and I hate to admit it but I am clueless about how to attract boys and to flirt with them. I have had two un-sucessful relationships and the only way they cam...
A. 29 November 2013: keep smiling and being happy n contented with yourself... (read in full...)
Are my dating rules really too strict?
Q. Here it goes again:(. My mother just had a conversation with me that I have too many rules when it comes to guys, and that's why I don't have anyone in my life. Some of my friends agree,I am looking for some opinions here. Though I do ha...
A. 27 November 2013: You are kind of like a muslim girl i would say they are brought up with so many rules that in the end picking up a man apart from social disapproval is an ego issue/ Or may be we can say you have a very strong ego you dont want to loosen up the hard ... (read in full...)
I told him I used to have a crush on him and he turned nasty
Q. I have a boyfriend, for starters. And everyone knows about him. I was friends with one of my colleagues and I thought he was a really nice guy. We spent lots of time together and slowly, I developed a huge crush on him. I went totally out of m...
A. 27 November 2013: Look its time this guy needs to be taught a lesson. He has proved that he definitely has a very low mentality. You should not embarrace yourself by tolerating such nasty behaviour and teach him a lesson the next time he tries to humiliate you. ... (read in full...)
The baby is due in 6 days and I feel completely doomed...
Q. Hi Cupids, Long time answerer, first time asker. What brings me to the question board? I'm 6 days away from my due date and I'm freaking out. I've been freaking out pretty much the whole time. It's not my relationship - I've been with hi...
A. 7 November 2013: I think its all part of the future anxiety u have about the change that this baby is going to bring in your life. The more you will live it you ll realize with time that its not as bad as you imagined. Because sometimes our mind just exaggerates the ... (read in full...)
Need advice on a connection I made online that's got messy please.
Q. This may be long but please bear with me I really need some insight from everyone. So I'll start with I'm a 28 y/o lesbian and about four months ago I did the whole online dating profile thing and found a young lady who seemed more or less interest...
A. 5 November 2013: you have to question yourself on why you have allowed it to linger on even when u are not interested sympathy if that is then it should not be at the cost of something u are giving her. and again messing your mind about it is a wastage of time as ... (read in full...)
When a guy says he wont get married as it's just a piece of paper and ring, then says maybe in 5 years, will he ever get married to me or am I fighting a losing battle?
Q. This is for the guys on here if you don't mind helping. When a guy says he wont get married as its just a piece of paper and ring, then says maybe in 5 years, will he ever get married to me or am I fighting a loosing battle? I love him so m...
A. 22 October 2013: I would say you have to look into the reason if its just a piece of paper and a ring then why he is avoiding it, is he being honest about this or he z just avoiding it. If he really loves you then a piece of paper and a ring agreement wont be that ... (read in full...)
How to go about confused situation of my new relationship
Q. I am interested in a guy I have met through a matrimonial site, I have never seen him in person as he lives abroad for work. Since, we have talked on phone and chatted on the internet, I feel like he is very close to the ideal man i imagine ...
A. 21 October 2013: Ok he came and we met and then he told me stories about how his life is messed up and he cannot marry me. But he acted like he did like me and he has some problems so im stuck on him and he is kind of gone now...he sends me wishes on occasions and ... (read in full...)
He's my first, I'm not his. I find myself wishing I'd done more before I met him
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 months. Prior to getting closer, he explained early on that he's had 2 sexual encounters. One was oral (received/given) and the other was actual sex. He doesn't count it as real sex because the girl got on top ...
A. 11 July 2013: no you are not selfish, u just want to feel equally experienced as him. Its strange and its funny but you do feel a little inferiority complex at times when in love, its a heightened feeling for sense of approval. thats what i think, n i think you ... (read in full...)
Anyone ever seen a chick magnet in his 50s?
Q. I am just wondering if anyone else has seen such a thing. There is this guy at work, who is probably about mid 50's. Maybe more. He is more popular than any of us with all the many girls here, including those between 18 and 25. They all lust after ...
A. 11 July 2013: I think its no use being a chick magnet, unless you find a real love in your life... (read in full...)
How to go about confused situation of my new relationship
Q. I am interested in a guy I have met through a matrimonial site, I have never seen him in person as he lives abroad for work. Since, we have talked on phone and chatted on the internet, I feel like he is very close to the ideal man i imagine ...
A. 25 March 2013: May be thats right, that i should not react in this way. But may be its because i miss a relationship in my life the one i can rely on. or may be i am too afraid to start a relationship in real life. I am afraid of meeting up people and may be ... (read in full...)
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