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writes:i am goin out with this boy,but he keeps hitting me and treating me like a pig.wat shall i do?i dunno how to explain 2 my parents with the bruises are HELP wb xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Treating you like a pig, shows that he has not respect for you. But hitting you, means he does not truelly love you and has anger management problems.
Leave him, like NOW!!!!
And ask him to get therapy so that he does not hurt anybody else.
It is hard to be believe that in this day and age, people still need to be told that they should not have to put up with abuse!!!
You may hope he will change, you love him and cannot live without him, he will say sorry and not do it again. DO NOT KID YOURSELF! Take control of your life, he does not deserve you. It will be hard at first but you can do this.
I would tell your parents, they can give you support.
Find someone who can respect you, love you and make you happy. Life is to short to waste time on chauvinist pigs!
Good luck and be strong
Lots of hugs
Angel of Love
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reader, willywombat +, writes (12 February 2007):
 You want the truth?
Tell me your parents address so I can tell them.
Then hopefully they will kick his ass all the way from here to kingdom come.
WHAT ARE YOU DOING GIRL??
Please get some dignity and self esteem back and tell him to take a hike!!
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reader, TakeItOrLeaveIt  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 hEY girl!!
wow!
Let me just ask you something... Why exactly are you with him anyway?
Seriously you are worth a lot more, you deserve someone a lot better than that. He has no respect for you. How dare he????
If he can already start all that stuff now and he knows he can get away with it, then what is stopping him from carrying on in the future. And it'll just keep getting worse cos he knows there are no consequences to his actions.
Dont you want a guy who cares for you and treats you well. You want those butterflies when you with your boyfriend dont you? How can you feel special about a guy like that.
He doesnt deserve him!! Forget about him!!!!!!!! PLEASE for your own sake girl. Things could get worse!
As for your parents. My advice- dont tell them it was him. Maybe they will stop trusting you with the guys you date and they will be very over protective. They could even take charge and then things will get bad.
Dont let there be a reason for your parents to get involved. Break up with him! And like the other girl said. Do it over the phone so that he doesnt try anything cos he most probably will unfortunately.
Seriously love. You can do better than that. Dont let guys walk all over you like that.
Good luck! I know you can do it! :D
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Hun, you tell him to stop the hitting or hit the road.
I have never hit anyone of the opposite sex and there is NO reason for someone to be abusive to their partner.
My son just started a relationship with a girl and she breaks down and cries because she had no idea she could be treated so well. She was treated by her ex as your bf is treating you. DON'T TOLERATED THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOR!
You are worth more than that.
A relationship with the oposite sex should be loving and comfortable. Not abusive in any sense of the word.
Go do the right thing. Doc.
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reader, genie53uk +, writes (11 February 2007):
maybe try talking to him calmly or to a memeber of your family or friends , dont keep this hidden , i did the stupid the mistake of moving in with my bf who did the same thing and it turned worse , you need to tell someone ,
i was ashamed but there is no need to be , do something now before like me you end up in hospital
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Hit him right back already! Why are you going out with him exactly? Next time he offers to take you out, tell him to go to hell. If you act like a doormat, people will just tread all over you (most not as badly as your boyfriend) take a stand and get away from him
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reader, kenny +, writes (11 February 2007):
 If i was you i would drop this guy like a bad habit. Any guy that lays a hand on a woman in just a plain coward, and that is what this guy is a coward.Confide in your parents, tell them the truth, thats what they are there for, they will be glad you did.In the mean time drop this guy and find a bloke that treats you with the respect that you deserve.Good luck x
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reader, Help!Me! +, writes (11 February 2007):
Aww. Your young. 16 - 17. End things with him. Over the phone if you think hes going to become violent.If anything starts then you can phone the police.I hope everything goes well.xx
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