Is it better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all?
Q. Is it really better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all? If so, why does it hurt so bad....
A. 27 September 2007: hmmmm, hi there, tough one kind of....but in spite of that i have a pin up in my room which says "its better to have loved and lost than to live with the psycho the rest of your life"
when u love someone its benificial for you it builds you in t... (read in full...)
I'm 25-she's 18 and I like her! Am I creepy for wanting to date someone much younger?
Q. Hello My name is Trent and I'm 25 years old. I have a good friend named Emily who is 18 years old, and this problem is about her. We met two years ago when I was 23 and she was 16. We were both working at the same pizza place and became frie...
A. 6 May 2007: absolutely not, you are not a creep, my ex whom i was in a realtionship for rather a long time was 26 when we met and i was 19 , its natural for men to like younger girls and for girls to like mature older guys. ur still in your twenties and she ... (read in full...)
Putting your soul first
Q. Love, arguably the most widely discussed and pondered subject in all the world, seems to be the greatest mystery to us as humans. Love makes us feel alive. It makes us feel whole inside. It gives us purpose. It fuels our hopes and dreams. It ...
A. 4 May 2007: hi there i agree with you love is the most discussed subject people talk about, yet love can not be classed as one thing for each perosn explains love in the way he see's it. i once described love like meat, you can have it raw boiled, fried, ... (read in full...)
What are the phone rules when planning a date together ?
Q. I met this nice guy, he asked me out for dinner and we have not gone yet.He calls me sometimes and I don't want to scare him away,so i am not sure how much I should call him if at all etc. Can you tell me some phone rules? ...
A. 2 May 2007: has he mentioned the dinner again yet or not? when he does call what do you talk about? if you want to contact him try text instead... (read in full...)
When girls giggle at you when you first have a conversation with them, does that mean they fancy you?
Q. When girls giggle at you when you first have a conversation with them, does that mean they fancy you?...
A. 2 May 2007: giggling can mean alot of things, if she is with her friends it may be that they know she likes you and are giggling it may even be a joke between them. if she is giggling when u are alone there may be a chance that she does like you but is shy. b... (read in full...)
In porn the guy's cum is pure white, but mine is kinda white but has a definite hint of yellow in it.
Q. In porn the guy's cum is pure white, but mine is kinda white but has a definite hint of yellow in it. Is this normal?...
A. 2 May 2007: hi there, the colour of cum is affected by the foods you eat just like the taste. load up on lots of fruit especially bannanas!... (read in full...)
We are long distance and have alot of phone sex, is that all he wants from me ?
Q. phone sex can it be away to show you love each other from a distantce ? i mean me and my man have been doing it for a while we are a way for the time being and i feel that its good because masterbation is healty but also because its better than no ...
A. 2 May 2007: im glad things are going well, best of luck
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We are long distance and have alot of phone sex, is that all he wants from me ?
Q. phone sex can it be away to show you love each other from a distantce ? i mean me and my man have been doing it for a while we are a way for the time being and i feel that its good because masterbation is healty but also because its better than no ...
A. 2 May 2007: hi, ive been in the same situatation, probably for the best our realtionship ended. but to stick to the point of phone sex. it was ok but it frustrated me because i could not be bext to him really and i felt as i i was living a lie. all i can say is ... (read in full...)
Does anyone else here find long distance relationships really hard and depressing??
Q. Does anyone else here find long distance relationships really hard?? And depressing?? I usually see my boyfriend once a fortnight, but he couldnt make it this weekend for what I thought was a pretty stupid, unimpressive reason. We were going to go...
A. 30 September 2006: i personally know what u r going through i am in deep deep love and i have already been away from my boyfriend for three months how long we will be apart i dont know. it could be a very long time and how long until i see him i dont know either. even ... (read in full...)
My friend confided that he loved me, but said it to someone else!
Q. Hi! I really like my friend. We've known each other for about a year and he said to my other friend he had grown to love me. The problem is this: friend never told me he said that, so I carried on with my own thing. Now I feel guilty because ...
A. 29 June 2006: sweety how did you find out then?
anyway past is past but history repeats itself and u seem to have another chance.
it could b that he left the album open imporpose so u could c ur picture.
And u said he saw u through a tough relationship... (read in full...)
We only seem to have sex in common, how can we get more common interests and a steady flow of converation!?
Q. ive been with my partner for about 2 months now,he lives far from me and i only see him on weekends.we have great sex and that is alright but we don't seem to have much in common or much to talk about we haven't really bonded emotionally.im really ...
A. 29 June 2006: Hi, you never mentioned if u actually have conversations when u meet up or is it just great sex?
to be truthful if this relationship was based on just sex then it is going to be a bit difficult to change that... difficult but not impossible.
for e... (read in full...)
My 16-year-old son wants to marry his girlfriend... soon.
Q. I am concerned about my 16 year old son who has expressed the desire to marry his girlfriend soon. What problems will he face if he marries now? Thanks, Janet...
A. 20 September 2005: personally it isnt something i would want my own son to do at this age, but yet i cant help feeling isnt it better than him fooling around with her only? by the way if he is sixteen how old is she? isnt your son at school or studying?
maybe he need... (read in full...)
The battle between my culture and my education makes it hard to interact with women!
Q. Dear Cupid, My values and traditions are making me negative about myself. I am 22 yrs. old guy and have been brought up in a society where there is a strict boundary between men and women. Men and Women cannot be friends or talk honestly unless ...
A. 15 September 2005: ok ease up a bit, where do you come from? and what kind of culture is that i know of no culture or religion which degrades women be it christian jew or islam, and even if it a religion like hindu or something like that arent there meant to be hindu ... (read in full...)
We argue and fight over stupid stuff, even though we love each other!
Q. Okay, me and this boy have been together for a long time. I know he loves me, and he knows that I love him, but we argue over the stupidest stuff ever and it gets us into a huge fight. We always say, well maybe we should break up, it's for the ...
A. 13 September 2005: maybe you are just a little bit too close? sometimes when you love someone you think ( and it does seem right, it isnt though) that you should spend all your time together and do everything together and tell each other everything. thats wrong maybe ... (read in full...)
What can I do about unwanted erections?
Q. I get erections all the time and it gets bothersome when we are just hugging. What can I do to calm things down?...
A. 13 September 2005: whats so bothersome about that if i was your girfriend i would be happy to know that you enjoyed being with me, why the hell hide your felings? ... (read in full...)
We're both straight and we don't have gay feelings for each other... but I feel almost "lovestruck" about him!
Q. I am a 20 year old single straight guy and am confused about my friendship with my (male) best-friend. We always have a good laugh together, enjoy each others' company, share problems etc. etc, and I feel like I can speak openly with him about ...
A. 13 September 2005: hey, friendships at our age can be a difficult thing, we may sometimes have problems with our family at school at work and then that special friend pops up and makes things alright again. i for instance have been in a situation where i like to hug ... (read in full...)
The boy I like was hugging a girl I hate!
Q. Dear Cupid, There's this boy I like. He was in my class last year. All my friends say he likes me. Last year he flirted with me a lot. Last year I was in 8th grade. I saw him hugging another girl who I hate.Did he forget about me? ...
A. 11 September 2005: darling, let boys be boys if you hate someone not everyone you like must hate that person thats a fact you have to face and if he likes you he'll show you so. be relaxed around him show him that you like him ( hint dont throw urself at him) and if ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and I keep arguing with my mum...
Q. I am 12 and having problems with my mum. We argue all the time and I am getting depressed! There must be one of you out there who has gone through the same thing as I am now! Please just give me some advice on what to do....
A. 11 September 2005: hi honey im 19 and i still argue with my mum its natural and we are both hot tempered if u get what i mean its meant to be a part of growing up so your normal and so is your mum try to loosen up a bit and like the other replier said dont fight over ... (read in full...)
It's so lonely at school since my former friends started spreading rumours about me...
Q. Dear Agony Aunts I am a sixteen year old girl in my last year at school. About 6 months ago, my friendship with 4 other girls finished over an argument, which was my fault, I do admit. However, it was not a big deal yet it still caused these gir...
A. 11 September 2005: some friends should be kicked , cos they are not really friends. what i hate about friends is the fact that u do one thing wron and they are down on you. honey they r not really friends. they are girls who drool over popularity and they are ... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to let any guys get close, because I'm sure they'll see my flaws!
Q. Can anyone help me? I am a 27 year old female - virgin. Not by any religous choice but purely because the fact of letting someone that close to me terrifies me (I feel sick, start shaking - like real fear!). On the outside I am fairly outgoing, ...
A. 11 September 2005: hey, when i was 12 i used to know this man called gary and he used to work on this fruit and veg stand and i used to help him voluntary. in the winter i would moan that it was cold and i wanted to go home. do you know what he would say to me he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he'll call, then he doesn't, says he'll write, but doesn't do that, either!
Q. I need help. The guy I am interested in is 21 and I am 16. He tells me he loves me and I can talk to him for hours but I don't know if he is lying to me because he told me he would me write me but he didnt write or when he tells me he would call me ...
A. 11 September 2005: hi, sweetie i think you need to take it easy a bit and slow down. ask yourself a few questions.
1- do i really love him
2- if he loves me wouldnt he answer my calls
and then ask yourself another question is he busy? are you phoning him constant... (read in full...)
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