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writes: Hi! I really like my friend. We've known each other for about a year and he said to my other friend he had grown to love me. The problem is this: friend never told me he said that, so I carried on with my own thing. Now I feel guilty because I didn't realise and I've changed a lot from the person he knew back then. I'm less innocent and he's seen me go through a bad relationship. He left a photo album open on the couch which I noticed after he left. I didn't know he was looking at it and it was open on a picture of me - could this mean anything? I love him dearly. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, susu  +, writes (29 June 2006):
sweety how did you find out then?
anyway past is past but history repeats itself and u seem to have another chance.
it could b that he left the album open imporpose so u could c ur picture.
And u said he saw u through a tough relationship.
its rather obvious that he cares for you.
whats left to do is subtly show him that u care.
oh and honey, gently does it.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (29 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
You poor thing :o) what a way to find out that someone has feelings for you but the friend who confided in your other friend that he loved you should of just told you in the first place i mean you can't read minds right? i understand that telling someone you love them is a very hard thing to do especially if your good friends cause of that fear of rejection and ruining a good friendship but if you two were close anyway he should of been able to confide in you anyway, i mean he's seen you through some tough times and a tricky relationship that shouldn't cloud his judgement i think his love is unconditional so don't let that worry you ok :o) if i were you sweetie i would sit down with him and have a real heart to heart about this tell him you share the same feelings and want to take things further if he loves you as he said he did he'll respect your honesty and you two will go on to be happy together :o)
I hope my advice was of help to you in this situation :o) and good luck with it. If you ever need a friendly chat of shoulder to cry on or just more advice I'm always here for you
You Take Care X
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (29 June 2006):
 The thing is, this friend thats grown to love you should have said these things to you, not someone else! How are you to have known that he'd grown to love you if he doesnt say anything ? He probably told your other friend in the hope they would tell you, and probably thinks that they did! So as it stands you didnt know anything in the remotest form. So tell him that you now know, and that you think you feel the same way and let him know that all this time you had wondered but didnt know for sure, tell him all your fears, and explain if you had none sooner maybe you could have got together sooner and would he like to make a go of it now... He probably does still feel the same but thinks you knew already and didnt say anymore about it, take the looking at a photo album as a good thing that he is still interested, he just feels that you dont want to know or you would have done something already. So just talk to him, let him know what happend and im sure if hes still interested then you have nothing to worry about. The worst that can happen is that he now doesnt feel the same way, but im pretty sure he does, he just didnt know you were interested and was probably reliant on this other person telling you, and of course that never happend!
Its either that or you sit and wait and do nothing, but what a wait that might be, he doesnt know you like him, but you know he likes you!
Take care x
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