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writes: ive been with my partner for about 2 months now,he lives far from me and i only see him on weekends.we have great sex and that is alright but we don't seem to have much in common or much to talk about we haven't really bonded emotionally.im really shy but because im really falling for him i want to be able to open up to him and for him to do the same but i find having just a normal conversation really hard. how can i do this and how can i make conversation flow easier...he could be the one and i really want this to last
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006): Have you tried asking what activities he's interested in? Does he like sports? Reading? If so, you could ask about the kinds of sports he likes (or books he's read) and if he has a favorite football star, or coach, for instance. What I'm suggesting is try to get him to talk about himself.
You can also tell him something about things you like doing. Ask him to tell you about the kind of work he does and whether he likes it. I'm not saying to give him the third degree, or sound as if you're cross-examining him!
You could also see if he'd like to go to the movies, or go bowling, or rock concert and see what he says.
Good luck!
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reader, susu  +, writes (29 June 2006):
Hi, you never mentioned if u actually have conversations when u meet up or is it just great sex?
to be truthful if this relationship was based on just sex then it is going to be a bit difficult to change that... difficult but not impossible.
for example whilst having sex whisper in his ear your fantasies and ask what his are?
if capable try t fulfil them. and let him know what your about ask him what he is about try to make every touch pass your heart first and smother it with a bit of love.
B sure he will feel it
Good luck hon
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