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... Send *tellaforstar a private message | | | *tellaforstar's profile:hello to all you agony aunts and uncles. Love this site for when i need a bit of an outside perspective on things when everything gets too much. I'm 19 going on 20, Scottish and study at uni in Dundee. My course is English and History and i am soon to be in third year where things get tricky. I work part time in a local pub which is a great job so no complaints there. I also have a lovely boyfriend of a year and a bit and although we have had more than our fair share of problems, we are strong now and very much in love. Other than that i live with my boyfriend but have my own flat which i avoid at all costs due to two wicked witches who disguise themselves as my flatmates lol. Moving out in July though so life isn't too bad. |
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Is this classed as rape?
Q. if a male is 17 and a female is 15 and they have sex and get pregnant, is it rape?...
A. 10 April 2010: In Britain this is statutory rape but it is doubtful that any charges would be brought because the age gap is so small. It is unofficially decided that the law is only implemented to protect the vulnerable from abuse. However, sadly the number of ... (read in full...)
Does porn improve bj technique
Q. Ok this one is mostly for the guys.. I was wondering if watching people in porn (i don't just mean pornstars but "amateurs" too) give oral is a good place to pick up tips. What do you think? Would you encourage your gf to copy some of the more por...
A. 10 April 2010: thanks for your help everyone. We have been together for over a year now and i have no problem giving him an orgasm through oral and am not shy. I know what he likes but i would say that the technical things like speed, depth (lol) and rhythm i ... (read in full...)
Sorry... wrong hole!
Q. Me and my GF were having sex last night and I slipped in to the wrong hole. Well she winced at first but didn't yell or object too strongly, so I rolled with the punches and continued in her rear. I thought it was great and she seemed to enjoy it ...
A. 4 April 2010: It can happen by accident. When a person is aroused they are hopefully relaxed and anyway, sometimes you have to do a little maneuvering in certain positions to get things going and accidents do happen...... (read in full...)
Is a 7.5 year age difference a big deal?
Q. Is a 7.5 year age difference a big deal? I met a guy who is currently 26 (27 in December) and I'm about to turn 19 in less than a week. He's a very, very nice guy and a bit shy... I was actually introduced to him by one of my best friends who is 2...
A. 4 April 2010: Not at all. The problem some relationships have in the long run when one person is older is finding things in common but if you were introduced through a mutual friend you clearly have some things in common straight away. And anyway, 27 is still ... (read in full...)
I want him to 'want' to please me, not do things just coz I ask.
Q. My boyfriend is always asking of things he can do to keep me happy, and one day I told him i'd like it if he kissed me on my neck. He said he would, then he kept asking why, and saying that we should just kiss on the lips. /: I only wanted to do it...
A. 4 April 2010: Maybe he just doesn't understand why you like it so much and doubts that it is any better than kissing on the lips which he knows how to do and is comfortable with? Try doing it to him so he feels what you feel and then ask him if he likes it. Then ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gaga for Gaga!
Q. Hi folks. This is a bit of a silly one but how do i get my stupid boyfriend from bringing up Lady Gaga every day? I had no problem with her apart from the idiotic and attention seeking things she does but obviously it doesn't affect me so it was ...
A. 4 April 2010: lol i think you have put a lot of effort into pleasing your bf and i am pretty sure it won't go unnoticed. Have fun :) Not sure he'll be paying much attention to those nails tho ;)... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gaga for Gaga!
Q. Hi folks. This is a bit of a silly one but how do i get my stupid boyfriend from bringing up Lady Gaga every day? I had no problem with her apart from the idiotic and attention seeking things she does but obviously it doesn't affect me so it was ...
A. 4 April 2010: i have to say that my boyfriend would laugh his ass off if i ever dressed like lady gaga in or outside the bedroom. ultimately i think we can all agree that anyone who sits down to dinner in a Chinese restaurant in a see through plastic dress and a ... (read in full...)
Flatmate trouble!
Q. Hi guys, just would like some advice as to what to do regarding my selfish flatmates. I signed a lease for a flat with two girls last June but things didnt really go well and i didnt feel welcome in my own home. I basically moved in with my ...
A. 4 April 2010: oh and it is not like renting a house blah blah blah.. i pay my rent every month so you are incorrect. I disagree with paying the big bills for things that i didn't use. Not even in a petty way bit i didn't live there so the energy used was used ... (read in full...)
Flatmate trouble!
Q. Hi guys, just would like some advice as to what to do regarding my selfish flatmates. I signed a lease for a flat with two girls last June but things didnt really go well and i didnt feel welcome in my own home. I basically moved in with my ...
A. 4 April 2010: why on earth would i with my part time job pay for the high bills these girls are racking up?? Thanks for your opinion but don't worry i will be ignoring your crappy anonymous advice. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gaga for Gaga!
Q. Hi folks. This is a bit of a silly one but how do i get my stupid boyfriend from bringing up Lady Gaga every day? I had no problem with her apart from the idiotic and attention seeking things she does but obviously it doesn't affect me so it was ...
A. 1 April 2010: lol loving the advice. I think i am going to have fun with this one. You won't catch me dressing up as that headcase for anyone though i'm afraid. I am very open minded when it comes to my boyfriend but i just dont want him thinking of someone else ... (read in full...)
Flatmate trouble!
Q. Hi guys, just would like some advice as to what to do regarding my selfish flatmates. I signed a lease for a flat with two girls last June but things didnt really go well and i didnt feel welcome in my own home. I basically moved in with my ...
A. 1 April 2010: thanks for the advice! Fortunately, the lease ends in July so i have no problems getting out i just wondered whether it was right that i refuse to pay for their utilities under the circumstances. I have decided to tell them where to stick it ... (read in full...)
Sorry... wrong hole!
Q. Me and my GF were having sex last night and I slipped in to the wrong hole. Well she winced at first but didn't yell or object too strongly, so I rolled with the punches and continued in her rear. I thought it was great and she seemed to enjoy it ...
A. 1 April 2010: Ok, this one is so much more common than you'd think. Especially when drunk lol. It has happened to me and to quite a few of my girlfriends. It hurts and gives the girl a bit of a fright but if it was a genuine mistake and you weren't being a perve ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend touring admitted he cheated on his ex and now I'm afraid he'll cheat on me!
Q. my boyfriend is in a band and is currently on tour, he calls/texts me everyday to see how iam and tells me how his day goes. in his previous relationship of 6 years, he cheated on his ex twice. he only told me this a few days before he left on ...
A. 1 April 2010: I have to say you are not being unreasonable. His past behavior, and the fact that he is out of your sights would be enough to make even the most secure person question things. His facebook chat is, in my opinion, nothing at all to be worried about. ... (read in full...)
Will he realise he loves me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. I know for sure that i love him, i never question that. But recently he told me he doesnt think he loves me. He said he's trying to. The way he acts around me makes me think he does, spending ...
A. 6 May 2009: Aw darling that's so sad. I feel so bad for you to be in this situation. I know it's hard, and he clearly does love you on some level if he's so concerned about you, but i think it would be pointless to continue a relationship when one person has ... (read in full...)
Stuck on what I should do...
Q. Right i got a really BIG problem, I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago, and i still cant get over him, we wasnt together for long but he still meant a lot to me, he didnt really act normal for 3 weeks, and now his al back to normal he ...
A. 6 May 2009: Some people might tell you "all's fair in love and war". But seriously, war isn't fun. Especially not with the ones you love. All the way chicks before d*cks it would be wrong to go there. And it's not fair on your friend that everyone knows whats ... (read in full...)
How many sleeping partner have you had
Q. Hi im doing a survey about how many sleeping partners (vaginal or anal) you or anyone you know, GF/BF etc, has had? Plz also state how sure you are of yours and your partners number! Plz be honest as there's no need to lie because you can just put...
A. 29 March 2009: Just one perfect man for me ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend bisexual?
Q. Ok, so last night by boyfriend was not sober and I went to his house this morning. I went into his bathroom and I saw a dildo on his shower, I didn't want to say anything about it cause I didn't want to embarrass him. I walked out of the bathroom ...
A. 29 January 2009: Hmmm that's a wierd one. You should confront him about the dildo. And the missing lube. But it might not neccessarily mean he's bisexual. The dildo could be the remnaints of a previous relationship - as gross as that is for you to think about. And ... (read in full...)
No armpit hair
Q. im 14 and i don't have any armpit hair should i be concerned because all my friends have it even the ones younger than me have it. I do't even have a single hair....
A. 29 January 2009: Aw i really wouldn't worry about it. You've got plenty time to start sprouting them yet. If it's the ladies you're worried about then don't. I don't know a single 14 year old girl who lists armpit hair as a requirment for their man. In fact, i ... (read in full...)
Help me choose the best vibrator!!!
Q. Hello cupids, This may seem a silly question but I'm looking to invest in a vibrator. I have not used one before and have been looking at the Ann Summers website but there is such a variety I don't know where to start. Could anyone give me some ...
A. 29 January 2009: Depends what you're looking for really. A bullet is good for burning the old clitorus, but if you maybe want a bit of variety i'd say a rabbit. Good because if you just want the clit done you can use the poor little rabbits face, then you can ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend not a virgin - but what can I make of this sex act?
Q. My girl friend told me recently that she had sexual intercourse with a guy before we met. Now stay with me - she explains it like this. He did not ask her to have set, he laid down on her and did it for a few minutes. She said that she had broke ...
A. 29 January 2009: Good for you. I say, stop thinking and start f*cking ;)
Seriously... just show her what she's been missing, why worry about anything before.
But, i agree with AperfectSchism, you're probably just relatively bigger than your predecessor.... (read in full...)
How can I be more assertive and not feel jealous of these other girls?
Q. I love my boyfriend, but we are in a forbidden love, so at school we are together all the time, but deny it when people ask. He is a popular senior at school and he spends some time kind of flirting with other girls and especially the hot ones!!! ...
A. 15 January 2009: Ok, first, you're chest size has absolutely NOTHING to do with how attractive you are!! Seriously girl, get that one out of your head QUICK because it's not true.
Your boyfriend loves your body, which is good, but most important is for you to lear... (read in full...)
I heard my sis's guy say he'd like a threesome with her and me
Q. Ok im confused not quite sure where to start. I got a phone call yesterday im in adelaide and its 5:30am now, my sister was arguing with her boyfriend. Not mine to get involved. I know that but its actually something he supposedly said to her. He ...
A. 15 January 2009: Hmm... i don't know about that.
True, everyone has fantasies and they should not be judged on them, but there's something very sleazy about him telling a mate that. You can't base how trustworthy he is based on this, but i wouldn't think some... (read in full...)
How to give my man a mind blowing experience with me on top, all answers will be appreciated!
Q. Hey im a 17 and ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over a year. We both lost our virginty to each other and i was the first person he had ever done anything sexually with. Heres the part that will most probally shock alot of ...
A. 10 January 2009: Confidence is key. Make sure you've got a good rhythm established with him, for example when hes thrusting up you sit back down. Also, my boyfriend particularly likes when you give a good side view or when you sit back and give him a good view of ... (read in full...)
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