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writes:My girl friend told me recently that she had sexual intercourse with a guy before we met. Now stay with me - she explains it like this. He did not ask her to have set, he laid down on her and did it for a few minutes. She said that she had broke her heiman in a bike accident when she was 7. So, when he went in she said she felt nothing at all - could not even tell he was inside. It was over quick, and he growned so that was how she could tell he was in at all. She wares tampons, and saw no change. They break up - I came along, and I dont consider myself that large - 7 inches is about average. When we did it for the 1st time she said she could feel every inch of me, and started feeling pleasure, even having her hips move involuntarily, etc. She also said her tampons did not fit as well anymore. Not I may be crazy, but I am wondering if this was just an emotional thing where she was more attracted to me mentally - or was this a physical difference - not sure she was penetrated. Maybe me wonder if she was a virgin - or what to hell to make of this --- is she just trying to make me feel special - or if this is true what do you make of it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question:-0 Jezze - I guess the emotional / bonding piece of this NOT HAPPENING is likley more important to understand that the old ---- oh sh&% she was almost a virgin, but she is not
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reader, stellaforstar  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Good for you. I say, stop thinking and start f*cking ;)
Seriously... just show her what she's been missing, why worry about anything before.
But, i agree with AperfectSchism, you're probably just relatively bigger than your predecessor.
Happy humping xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you - a womens perspective on this is great - and I appreciate your sharing.
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reader, AperfectSchism +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Have you ever thought of the fact that maybe her ex has a smaller member than you? That might be why she couldn't feel it as well.
Here's an example. I was dating a man whom had about an 8" (he was my first) and I could feel everything (like your girl told you.) Then I broke up with him, went with another guy... but he was much smaller; I could barely feel him.
So if that makes you feel any better, it could just be as you said: a mental/emotional plus physical thing, and that's exactly why she said "you're the King" lol.
I hope this helped a bit. :)
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