Condoms keep going missing, but it seems impossible that he's cheating!
Q. Well, here I am again -- the saga of the missing condoms continues. I wrote a few weeks ago about a collection of condoms in my boyfriend's closet, that have been disappearing. Many of you and some of my guy friends stated that my boyfriend may be ...
A. 18 October 2007: I love this site and the fact I have all of you to talk to. It's nice to be able to get good advice, to vent and to know I'm not alone. As far as my daughter goes, you all are making me think here. She's 15, but hasn't even had a boyfriend yet. Her ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or am I overreacting??
Q. Ugh! I feel I am going crazy and I need some advice from you all -- regarding cheating. First of all I'd like to state that I am pregnant and since becomming pregnant I've not been my usual self, so I feel I can not see clearly at times. Anyhoo, ...
A. 2 October 2007: Okay, guys, I'll chill :) Thank you so much for all your advice ... I feel much better just hearing what others had to say. I guess I should try to have more trust and faith in my man ... it's just hard to trust sometimes. I almost feel bad for ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or am I overreacting??
Q. Ugh! I feel I am going crazy and I need some advice from you all -- regarding cheating. First of all I'd like to state that I am pregnant and since becomming pregnant I've not been my usual self, so I feel I can not see clearly at times. Anyhoo, ...
A. 2 October 2007: Hi guys! Thanks for all your advice ... I feel a little better; however, I'm still wondering what happened to the condom and why it just so happened to disappear the same day he was on yahoo for two hours, talking in his sleep ... oh, and did I ... (read in full...)
I've started having a really smelly vaginal discharge.
Q. Sorry this is really embarrassing and gross. I've started having a really smelly vaginal discharge. I'm not menstruating at the moment. It's quite embarrassing, sometimes I think other peopel might be able to smell it. What could it be??? I am ...
A. 5 August 2007: It could be BV, Tric or yeast. BV is just a bacterial infection that smells fishy. Tric; however, is usually sexually transmited and also smells fishy. Yeast smells more like beer or uncooked bread and usually itches and looks like cottage cheese, ... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over this or should I leave?
Q. Hi I am 33 and have been married 11 years, we have two children and I am pregnant with our third child soon. I have found out that my husband who is the same age as me has had an affair with an 18 year old girl 'K' who worked a a telephone operator ...
A. 3 August 2007: I'm 31 and having my third child as well. I've finally settled down again after staying single and raising my other two kids on my own. If you leave him, will you have help and support from family or friends? Would you have anyone to stay with while ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I might get pregnant, are my chances high?
Q. My last period was July 11, 2007. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on July 18, 22, 23, and on the 27. I'm scared I might get pregnant, are my chances high?...
A. 3 August 2007: I will be honest ... yes, your chances are high. The dates you named were very likely the dates you ovulated. Most women ovulate (when your egg is ready to be fertalized) 8 to 12 days after the first day of their period. However, you will take ... (read in full...)
Was she lying to me about never having anal sex before?
Q. She says shes never had anal sex before, but when we tried it there was no difficulty getting it in. Is she telling the truth or lying? will i b able 2 trust her if she is lying plz help me...
A. 1 August 2007: She'd have to have had A LOT of anal sex for her to be ... how do I say this? Um, loose? As far as I know, even after tons of anal sex, problems like that don't arise 'til old age. And if it makes you feel any better, my man and I have plenty of ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but still want to have sex... Advice?
Q. What are the best and comfortable positons when having sex during pregnancy?...
A. 1 August 2007: Well, I'm six months along and the most comfy for me has been the spooning position. Ya know, where he enters you from the back while you both are on your sides. The other positions we use that work well, are too hard to explain, lol. So, I'd try ... (read in full...)
Why would my fiance want to leave me for his ex?
Q. My fiance and his ex-girlfriends shares a son together. things are awesome between us, maybe fought twice in 3 years. He was with his ex for 10 years and they fought almost everyday. we are 3 months from getting married. His ex confessed to him ...
A. 1 August 2007: Oh my gosh! Girl, I'm sorry, but I don't think anyone can answer questions like this. I've had this happen to me before many years ago and I still don't understand. I'm sorry to say this, but you really should reconsider your feelings for a man like ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend won't get rid of his porn collection. Should I find someone else?
Q. Another porn question. My boyfriend of 16 months has thousand of porn pics/clips. He says that it was from the years he was single, however all the material he has makes me wonder how long everyday he would look at it and get off to it. When we ...
A. 31 July 2007: Why would you leave him? Do you think you will find a man who doesn't look at porn? Personally, I'd be more concerned if he was talking to other women online. Women need to understand that porn is about sex ... not usually about how attractive the ... (read in full...)
Does porn bother you?
Q. Hi everyone I would just like to ask for several minutes of your time to ask for your opinion on the folllowing. It MAY affect women more than men (as already confirmed. How do you all feel about your partner (male/or female, again it may...
A. 27 July 2007: As long as porn isn't causing problems in my relationship, it doesn't bother me. As long as my man desires me over porn, I'm happy! I found a huge stash of porn in my man's side of the closet and it turned me on to know he's such a sexual person. ... (read in full...)
We've been together a year and I'm too shy to talk about sex, any tips ?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for over a year, our relationship is great but when we talk about our sex life i get shy. this is a bit of a problem because i would like us to try sumthing different altho i dont know what. can anyone help me? ...
A. 27 July 2007: It's normal for you to be shy, you're still young! I didn't truly open up when it came to sex until I was in my late twenties. But if you want to learn how to open up to him sexually, educate yourself on the topic of sex. You're probably shy because ... (read in full...)
Hes cheating with me, but wants to wait for his relationship to end naturally, How can I feel more at ease about this ??
Q. About three months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up, and a man that I had known and loved for five years (but never pursued it or said anything to anyone as he is attached and 18 years older) kissed me. Since then we have been seeing each othe...
A. 27 July 2007: I was in your exact same shoes on and off for four years, and now I live with the guy and we're having a baby. And so far I'm the happiest I've ever been! However, my situation is one in a million and I agree that this will end in tears. BUT if you ... (read in full...)
Topless pic of his ex, on his mobile.
Q. Ive been with my bf for a while now and we are just in the process of buying a house. I have a few trust issues in general with everyone. He has a bit of a past which everyone does but i went through his mobile knowing that he in the past has done ...
A. 25 July 2007: OMG! I'm sorry, but dump him! Men like that really don't care if they lose their partner or not ... they have no respect for their sagnificant other! If you want to talk to him about it, go ahead ... but in my opinion, he doesn't deserve it at all. ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if he is cheating.
Q. I have been married for a little over a year, my husband and I fight constantly. I think he is cheating but I am not sure. I found a few phone numbers but nothing that confirms he has dated or had sex with another women. He has outside children...
A. 25 July 2007: My advice to you: if you can't trust him, get on with your life. There is so much more to life than spending your life struggling to trust your partner. When you're eighty years old, do you want to look back at your life with nothing but regret? ... (read in full...)
My manly man likes to see she-male porn! Is this a common fetish for men?
Q. My husband of five years is looking at shemales. He's always had a healthy sexual appetite. However, he has been less interested in me lately and has been acting suspicious so I started monitering his computer. He looks at craig's list everyday, ...
A. 21 July 2007: The mind is very complicated and humans are deep, black bottomless pits of emotion. Think about the things you've done when alone or the things you've thought about ... things you'd never talk about with anyone ... things you might be ashamed of. I ... (read in full...)
I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn.
Q. Okay, so I found my boyfriend's collection of porn. We've been dating on and off for five years and just moved in together. I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn. He's never shown any signs of being gay or ...
A. 10 July 2007: Well, it was actually a stash of porn in our closet ... his side of the closet. I'm glad he doesn't surf the net for porn, but I'm concerned that he has saved this gay porn throughout the years.... (read in full...)
I told my bf that I started thinking he was being unfaithful and it led to an argument! Now he's been avoiding me a bit. How do I get our relationship back on track?
Q. I met my boyfriend about 2 years ago online. Our relationship has been going well but soon I started to think he was cheating on me. Then just yesterday told him about it and the next thing you know we were in a bit of an argument. Now he has been ...
A. 9 July 2007: My guy and me very rarely have arguments, so when we first had our first one, it took a week or so to get back to normal. Unless you feel he is really unfaithful and you have proof to back it up, I'd just act as if everything was the way it was ... (read in full...)
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