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| Latest articles: An update on my life and how much things have changed after the death of a close relative
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5 May 2014: After months and months of disappearing from DearCupid, I decided to post an update on my life as it stands right now. As mentioned before, my uncle was struggling with the final stages of lung cancer. We lost him last year on the 23rd of July. I ...
Life is short! Enjoy it and don't have regrets!
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29 March 2013: My uncle was recently diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer. It wasn't until this enormous wake up call that I realized how valuable life truly is. So many people, including myself, are merely existing on this Earth...just doing everything they can to ...
The Magic called Love!
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24 December 2011: Love...what a small word for something so immense. In love, our hearts defy our minds. Perhaps that is our flaw: trying to control something that is so tumultous. It is impossible to control who we fall in love with. Our hearts, for whatever reason, ...
Be gay, if it's who you are...
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23 December 2011: Something that continues to grate on my nerves is the hatred I see directed at gays. People, in general, tend to support individualism...encourage to be yourselves. But, unfortunately, they often have a limit to that support. When it comes to ...
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An update on my life and how much things have changed after the death of a close relative
Q. After months and months of disappearing from DearCupid, I decided to post an update on my life as it stands right now. As mentioned before, my uncle was struggling with the final stages of lung cancer. We lost him last year on the 23rd of July. I ...
A. 24 September 2014: Thank you for your reply and insight.... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm in the right relationship. How do you know?
Q. How do you know if you're in the right relationship? Is there really a "right" relationship, or is it all about finding someone who is "mostly" what you want and then working really hard at the relationship to make it last? I'm not trying to ch...
A. 20 August 2013: I hear your struggles, friend. To answer one of your questions, relationships are what you believe them to be. They are different for everyone and affect them in numerous ways. It is obvious that you are unsure about this relationship since you have ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to save this relationship? Or is it completely over and I have no chance in hell of being with her?
Q. I have recently broke up with my girlfriend. It happened yesterday to be exact. We've been together for a couple of months and I'm really in love with her. She told me that she loved me too and that she was in love with me but yesterday she sa...
A. 20 August 2013: First of all, I am sorry that you have found yourself in this type of situation. Times like these are challenging and confusing.
Now, there is always a chance to salvage/fix things...but you must decide what you want...and whether or not you want... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my girlfriend thinks I'm too innocent to talk dirty
Q. Me and my girlfriend have done some light petting and have decided to try oral next time we hang out. She's gone that far with other guys where I have not. We were talking about how we didn't dirty talk over text and she said it was because I was so ...
A. 20 August 2013: Let's see...I am unsure of what exactly the problem is here. Are you sorry for being a more of a "sweet, gentleman-type"? If I were in your shoes, I would be very proud of that! Each relationship has different boundaries. It is your duty, as well as ... (read in full...)
Life is short! Enjoy it and don't have regrets!
Q. My uncle was recently diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer. It wasn't until this enormous wake up call that I realized how valuable life truly is. So many people, including myself, are merely existing on this Earth...just doing everything they can to ...
A. 1 April 2013: Thanks you all so much for taking the time to read and write about my post. God bless YOU all!... (read in full...)
How can I make new friends? I'm very shy.
Q. This may sounds stupid, but how do you make friends? I'm getting quite jealous how inactive I've become and just sitting in all the time watching tv whilst my girlfriend is having the time of her life with her friends near enough every night. I...
A. 29 March 2013: For starters, have some confidence and self respect! :) People deserve the chance to get to know you! You can meet new people anywhere. Explore your neighborhood, go to a fun outing with a group of your friends (and their partners) and have them ... (read in full...)
Virgin, BF cannot get it up. Help
Q. First off: I am a virgin, I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile and we started fooling around the other night and /tried/ to have sex but..... He could not get it in with and without the condom on. We tried missionary and doggy and it just ...
A. 29 March 2013: Sounds like a very uncomfortable and inconvenient situation! I apologize that you two are struggling with this. It sounds like he might have some circulation issues. I wouldn't worry about the pacemaker so much, because it is set to keep his heart ... (read in full...)
I don't like men, but people want me to find one and get married!
Q. well, here is the thing. i know i am bisexual, more close to lesbian than straight, and i'm totally ok with myself. but from my family, my brother knows, my father might know(he might have seen me with a girl) and my mom is completely homophobic, ...
A. 9 January 2012: You may want to consider having a serious conversation with your family about this. Granted, by the sounds of it, it'd be devastating. But, it can also bring you closer. Families do tend to criticize you, but that is just assurance that they care. I ... (read in full...)
Please offer suggestions to help me please my wife in bed.
Q. I have been married to my wife for 9 years and in that time I have only been able to make her orgasm during sex a handful of times. She doesn't feel comfortable with oral (giving or receiving). I can make her cum by rubbing her clit, but she sa...
A. 9 January 2012: You might try again asking her what worked so well with her past lover. Orgasms are accomplished with sexual stimulation...AND often with a good connection between a couple. May I ask if there's anything troubling about your relationship besides ... (read in full...)
Can't break up even though I know its best. Advice?
Q. I am coming here for help in a really hard time and need support/advice. My boyfriend and I have dated for 2 1/2 years and i found out he lied twice about going out to the bar and then went a third time and got a girls number there asking her...
A. 8 December 2011: This dilemma is actually quite common. To break up with someone, YOU have to want to. His actions aren't really showing you that he cares about you, and I believe that everyone deserves better than that. Stand up for yourself and get your closests ... (read in full...)
Should I fret about my girlfriend violated my butt-hole?
Q. My girlfriend and I met a few months ago. We started having sex the third time we met (she initiated). First I thought to myself "great, no more boring lengthy dating". The first few times were like normal sex (I led and she followed) but since then ...
A. 8 December 2011: Well, for starters, there are other ways the could dominate if she preferred to and you were okay with it. If this act of hers is bothering you so much, I would recommend telling her, and asking her not to do it anymore. Instead, have some other ... (read in full...)
When dating, does age really matter??
Q. Hello everyone, I am a 26 yr old female who is considering dating a very nice mature 37 yr old male. He is divorced with two older children and I am a mature 26 yr old looking to settle down with a mature man. I have never dated anyone more than 2 ...
A. 7 December 2011: One of the best pieces of advice that I've ever received is that "age is just a number". I, too, prefer the more mature people. That is merely a personal preference. Also, age doesn't matter quite as much as you continue to age. If you and he are ... (read in full...)
It bothers me. I am not imagining it. Why do people have the need to stare?
Q. Why do people have the need to stare? Not just take a quick look or glance, but flat out stare. I see people doing this all the time when I'm out in public, particularly to me. Now you might think this is just all in my mind and that I'm imag...
A. 7 December 2011: Hmmm...this is quite peculiar. Do you happen to have a low self esteem? (if you don't mind my asking) I think a person tends to notice looks/stares more if they aren't very confident. Perhaps they've seen you somewhere, or maybe you've made eye ... (read in full...)
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