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... Send *helley-jade a private message | | | *helley-jade's profile:Hello everybody. my name is Shelley im 19 years old. I no im only young but i have always loved helping people through good and bad times. I always give pretty much good advice but hardly take it myself. i have helped alot of people through-out the years mostly friends and family. Now i want to spread my help around the country or world.
I live in UK lovely place to be.
I do not like bullies, child abuse, animal abuse, or even adult abuse. i do not believe in men hitting women. Or people that think theie better then everyone because they have a better job. You should treat people the same no matter what their lifestyles or race is.
I am in a very good relationship at the moment, which is good news because i have been in a few horrible and stickey ones where i have been cheated on.
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My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. Am I just being sensitive?
Q. My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. She obviously recognises me when she sees me of course. Yet she says that she can remember what my brothers look like! Does this mean anything? or am I just bei...
A. 16 February 2007: HMmm? how long have you been together?
she should remember what you look like.
It dont really mean a thing when she remembers some one talk to her... (read in full...)
My uncle is touching me inappropriately and offering me money! What should I do?
Q. Hello. My uncle has been touching me up around the chest area and i don't know what to do. He also keeps texting and asking to see me and offering me money. My Ex-Boyfriend has given me a few choices as follows. - Tell police. - ...
A. 22 January 2007: This is sexual abuse. Keep any evidence you have. If you have camera phone set it up so you can catch him doing stuff to you and talking to you the more proof you have the better.
This man is wrong once you think you have enough proof turn to the ... (read in full...)
We brke up..how do I make him regret what he did? What should I do?
Q. well my boyfriend and i have recently broke up, he dumped me on aim!..we were fighting because he was wid a girl and lied about it..then he is on the phone wid one of my best friends like ervynight and she the first one he i/ms...and now her and her ...
A. 21 January 2007: the best advice i can give you is forget your ex he is not worth your time at all.
Try not to get involved at the moment because you might do it for the wrong reasons in trying to get you boyfriend jealous. So go out with the girls and have a bit ... (read in full...)
He stares at me a lot..so how do I know if he really likes me?
Q. hey, i need some help! there is this guy, he is in my class but we don't talk toghther but there is eye contact between us! when i walk for example to throw soemthing in the garbage as coming back to my seat i notice him looking at me! so i need ...
A. 21 January 2007: Start of easy ask you parents if its ok for you to have a little party invited your friends and casualy ask hm.
if your parents so say no get a group of you to cinema, ice skating bowling and just again pluck up the courage to ask him.
Whats... (read in full...)
He's moving and I will miss him so much! How do I cope?
Q. theres 4 of us and we are all great friends. one of them said that he is leaving to move some where else. that means we wont be able to see each other no more. all of us were really good friends but me and him are closer. what should i do sinc...
A. 21 January 2007: Yes it's hard when a friend moves away. You have to remember he will be making new friends so should you.
Yes i think you should get to know the others well, you never know they could be you next best friend.... (read in full...)
He's an internet junkie - how can they be cured?
Q. my husband is an internet junkie and its going to split us up helllp please...
A. 21 January 2007: Well you can always tell him for 1 week give up the compers, and in return you give up one thing you love for 1 week and instead of staying in go out join afew clubs, or just go out for a nice romantic meal... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant on her period?
Q. Well me and my girl have been together for 18 months and last week on friday 3 days before her period was over i had decided to have unprotected sex with her and wanted to know if you can get preganant while on your period?...
A. 21 January 2007: Your girlfriend can get pregnant at any time.
Unprotected sex is not good way to go about things.
Remember unprotected sex is dangerous, HIV,STI's.
Think about the concerquences... (read in full...)
When my bf goeas away I get really upset and cry. I'm so emotional. He doesn't know about this. What should I do?
Q. Hi all Im in a great relationship with my bf but have a prob i just cant get my head around Previously he had to travel with work a lot and id see him once a week then not for 3 weeks I found this hard to cope with but things dont seem any be...
A. 18 January 2007: Your feeling sad because your thinking about him not being there with you.
Instead of just thinking about not seeing him go out with friends have fun. Just have few nights out go to a few concerts or get creepy movies to watch with your mates and ... (read in full...)
My husband died almost 2 years ago and I've become very close to his brother... would this be right?
Q. my husband husband died almost two yrs ago my brother in law and I have become good friends He thinks it's wierd to even think our relationship could go any futher. (what would family think...friends think..ect. ) I have know problem ( hopeless ...
A. 17 January 2007: You feel close to him perhaps because he reminds you alot of your late husband.
Do not worry about what other people might say. If you two both want this then you shoud go for it.
Remember your husband would want you to be happy.... (read in full...)
He told me loved me but now he's acting really strange. Should I wait and see if he goes back to normal?
Q. hey. Im eighteen and I've had a crush on my best friend for the last four years. Hes the kind of guy who can get any girl he wants, and be confident without seeming arrogant. He was out of town for half of last year, then in October he told me ...
A. 17 January 2007: This is hard. Its sounds as though he may be missing a female role in he's life. Going away and knowing that he has you to come back to.
Ask him what he really thinks about your 'relationship'. See where it is heading. ... (read in full...)
Tips needed-to tell me what to watch for, when a guy likes me!
Q. heyz..i need sometips..u know i'm in the stage just learning about relationships with guys n stuff.well to cut to the chase..how can u know if a guy likes u ..some body languages? u look at him, sometimes see him looking back..what shud i do?? ...
A. 17 January 2007: You can never really tell when a guy likes you. There are so many different ways, some play hard to get. But if he's looking at you deep in your eyes hold contact with hes eyes for a few seconds then slighty look at the table or if your with a ... (read in full...)
She has told be she has cancer and I think she's lying! How do I deal with this?
Q. I have been in this relationship a year now and we both love each other very much. The thing is I think she has lied to me about somthing big. She has told be she has a serious cancer and it is fatal she wont give me any specific detail on it, but ...
A. 17 January 2007: Ask her if its ok to go to the doctors with her. Tell her your very worried and would like to get some details on what she has.
If and only if she has not get cancer and she is lying do not go off the rails ask her in a calm voice why she lied... (read in full...)
He dumped me! How do I get past all the anger and start to respect myself again?
Q. My exboyfriend of 2 years and I have been broken up for 9 months and I still cannot get over him. He completely broke my heart and has destroyed my self esteem. How do I get past all the anger and start to respect myself again? ...
A. 17 January 2007: Hunny go shopping treat yourself to a little something. Go out on a girlies night, Get all dressed up, put bit of make up on.
Let yourself go. Start afresh
Dont let a man drag you down hunny.
Good luck and all my wishes... (read in full...)
We have problems ...all due to her friends! Any advice?
Q. im in a lesbian relationship,which has been very rocky since it started,we both completely love each other,but we have so any problems,we have been together very on and off about 19 months,im very insecure about her really good friends which are her ...
A. 17 January 2007: Some people love each other but just can not live with one another.
You say you have cheated, To be honest do you really love her?
Maybe you should stay apart for a few days let things calm down.
Then see how you really feel. Things will soon be... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and want to have sex but i'm scared of getting pregnant!
Q. Im 14, and my boyfriend and i want to have sex both were both scared that i will get pregnant so what should i do?...
A. 17 January 2007: To be honest it sounds like you are not 100% ready. Wait a little bit longer. Remember if someone finds out your boyfriend could get in big trouble as the law states you have to be 16 years old. Even with concent its all concidered rape.
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Confused, scared and alone... lied to a bunch of friends that I was no longer a virgin when I am!
Q. Recently I lied to a bunch of my friends about being a virgin. I know its childish and inmature of me to do, but when I was confronted with the question flashes of rejection from every girl I've ever liked dating back into gradeschool flashed in ...
A. 16 January 2007: most people do it, to look god to their friends. But honetly girls/guys have more respect for virgins. Coming clean is the hardest part. Just let things die down for a while. Please dont look so hard to lose your vaginity. Some people throw it away ... (read in full...)
Accidently sent a text to my bf that was intended for my ex! Now my bf is mad! What can I do about this?
Q. ok so on friday night i was watching tv and fell asleep on the sofa, i woke up 2 hours later and saw i had 3 text messages - two from my boyfriend and one from my ex just saying hello how are you really. i replied to my ex's message first just ...
A. 16 January 2007: Your boyfriend probley feels betrayed, knowing that hes partner still keeps in contact with her ex. Has your boyfriend had a previous relantionship where he's ex has gone back to her ex. Maybe thats why he is so mad because he thinks he is going to ... (read in full...)
My partner shows me no love or affection
Q. my partner does not show me any love or affection or tells me that i am important. this has been going on for around 18 months now and he knows how i feel but he tells me its alll in my head. i have asked if we can go to relationship coulcelling but ...
A. 16 January 2007: Your partner may not know how to show he's feelings maybe he lost someone that was close to him Maybe he can not show you he's love because he's scared he'll lose you. Show him how much you really love him, maybe leave him little notes on the side ... (read in full...)
How can I be less shy and more confident around girls... ?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know how can a boy who is shy get more comfortable around girls without going red and speak clearly, as it am shy and not confident around girls and plus the fact that every girl and sometime the boys say im ugly and ...
A. 16 January 2007: To not be so shy you have to be confident. You need to feel comfortable in the clothes you wear, pretty much how you hold yourself. Take one step at a time, walk round the clothes shops try loads of stuff on to see what you feel comfy in. Also try ... (read in full...)
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