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writes:I have been in this relationship a year now and we both love each other very much. The thing is I think she has lied to me about somthing big. She has told be she has a serious cancer and it is fatal she wont give me any specific detail on it, but I think it isnt true at all.Should I beleive Her!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): I know this situation isnt the same but I have a very good friend lie to me about having a physical illness.
Anyway I found her out & after awhile managed to get to the bottom of why she'd being lieing.
She explained to be she was feeling really down.
Turns out she had depreshon & she was covering it up with trying to be physical ill.
So just remember even if shedosent have cancer she may still be ill & still need your support.
All the best
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
 There must be more to it other than she won't give you specific details for why you don't trust her. The above noters have given good advice but whatever you do be very careful about confronting her without more proof than what you currently have.
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reader, Catlova +, writes (17 January 2007):
i think that she should see a doctor to prove to you and herself whether she really has cancer or not. If she is lying, she is probably trying to get you to feel sorry for her. If you totally can't trust her, I say it is time to move on.
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reader, Shelley-jade +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Ask her if its ok to go to the doctors with her. Tell her your very worried and would like to get some details on what she has.
If and only if she has not get cancer and she is lying do not go off the rails ask her in a calm voice why she lied.
Good luck.x.x
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