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*lowerbud
writes:im in a lesbian relationship,which has been very rocky since it started,we both completely love each other,but we have so any problems,we have been together very on and off about 19 months,im very insecure about her really good friends which are her exs thats the main thing we mostly argue about,they dont like me at all because of how much ive hurt my gf,but there faults on both sides i blame my gf for not sticking up for me to em,she cant see my point of view she only sees the fact her friends protect her,but i feel no 1 protects me,ive cheated twice and left her recently for another woman,im not making any excuses up because i was totally out of order,i just feel so rejected and unloved when it comes to her friends,ive tried so hard to except the sitution but it really eats me up,we have split up so many times over this same subject,we want to be together but dont know how to be,please help.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Her friends are trying to protect her. That's only natural. I'm sure you'd try to protect a friend from someone who repeatedly cheated on them too. Why not have a dinner party and invite all the friends and tell them that you know you've made mistakes in your relationship but you feel that you've made a fresh start with your girlfriend now and you'd really like to become friends with them too since you're all so important to your girlfriend and you think it's important that you get on. I can't see how they could say no to that!
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reader, Shelley-jade +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Some people love each other but just can not live with one another.
You say you have cheated, To be honest do you really love her?
Maybe you should stay apart for a few days let things calm down.
Then see how you really feel. Things will soon become clear in no time.
Best wishes.
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