I don't want my ex back... I just want him to acknowledge that I was a good woman!
Q. For the past year I have been dating a man, 19 years my senior. He was overseas for almost 20 years and decided to come back home, giving an impression that he was wealthy and had his own business. It later transpired he is broke and lives his ...
A. 7 June 2005: Hey there Look, you need to realise a fundamental truth here. He was not a nice person, whereas you were. Whether he acknowledges that or not is his problem. Why would you need his vindication? You've been tolerant towards a man who sound... (read in full...)
My online guy isn't over his ex... but I want him to know that I'm The One for him!
Q. I met this great guy on-line and he has been very upfront and honest with me. He and his ex-girl just broke up 3 months ago. However he states he has not gotten over her and is pretty obsessed with her, and yet he tells me I am 310 times better than ...
A. 7 June 2005: Hey there, Well from what I can see he means a lot to you, and he seems to think highly of you too. Unfortunatley, the old rule 'don't make anyone do what they're not ready for' comes into play once again here. I don't think that you have mu... (read in full...)
We kissed on the first date... but then he SMS'd me to say he regretted it!
Q. Hi there, About two weeks ago my brother-in-law introduced me to this guy he used to work with. He had given him my phone number and he called me on a Sunday evening, we chatted for about an hour and he asked me on a date the following Saturd...
A. 7 June 2005: Hey, Is it possible, just possible, that this man might have some form of...dare I say it...moral code? Despite what some women may have you believe, some of us have them. Possibly he if furious at himself for kissing you so soon. Some guys m... (read in full...)
He's made comments I haven't responded to yet. But what do his emails mean?
Q. Hi, there's a lot of chemistry between myself and a guy I used to work with. He once said to me- 'I feel like I connect with you.' Year later, he emailed me (in response to one of my emails) and wrote ' I think about you on many levels'. Six months ...
A. 7 June 2005: Is it just me or is this kinda obvious? 'I think about you on many levels?' Well there's not much that could mean. I would take it to mean that he thinks of you as a friend, and probably as a potential partner. Why else would he say 'many'? ... (read in full...)
Is the difference between his 16 years and my 14 as big as it feels?
Q. I have been going out with this really great guy for about two months now and it has been really great but I feel as if he is just going out with me for something I can't give him...but we have a 2 year difference. like I am 14 and not experienced ...
A. 6 June 2005: Hey there! Ok, I'm going to take a different slant to that other reply. There is a bit of a difference between 14 and 16. Think about it. There's a big difference between a 13 year old and a 19 year old, yeah? And there not much difference betwe... (read in full...)
I don't want to break my boyfriend's heart, but I'm not sure if I should be with him or other boys...
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and I've been going out with this boy for 6 weeks and he loves me so much it would break his heart if I left him. I don't wanna but when I'm around other boys I always wanna be with them, and then when I'm with him I wish I never thought ...
A. 6 June 2005: Hey missy! Ok, you've got a very valid question here. To stay with your boyfriend or not... I'm not quite sure about one thing in your question. You say that when you're with him you wish you never thought that. Do you mean that you still enjoy... (read in full...)
Dating is harder than it needs to be, because I don't like small talk...
Q. I don't like making small talk and more often than not can't think of things to say. This is making dating hard. Any suggestions?...
A. 6 June 2005: Hey mate, Small talk sucks, doesn't it? Some cynics say that small talk is what people use to fool the opposite sex into thinking that they're desirable. It's inane and formulaic, but, unfortunately it's necessary. However, small talk ca... (read in full...)
If I tell my friend I love her, it might be a big shock, so should I tell all, or not?
Q. I'm deeply in love with one of my really good friends and I intend to tell her but I don't know if she'll be freaked out if I tell her I love her. So do you think I should tell her I love her or should I just tell her I feel really strongly?...
A. 6 June 2005: Oh my god, hang on a second! Don't rush anything!!! Telling her that you love her will totally freak her out, and possibly damage your friendship. I speak from experience here. Slow way down here. Logically, the basis for love comes from no... (read in full...)
She's a special girl to me, but she's a virgin... and wants to stay that way!
Q. I used to be a guy that dates lots of girls till I met this girl. We have been dating for a while now and I really love her. But she is a virgin and has refused to make love to me. I have tried to be faithful but I am at my ends. What do I do? ...
A. 6 June 2005: Hey mate, Well, firstly, I wouldn't agree with Lucy, I think she got the wrong end of the stick. You didn't mean you were seriously considering cheating, right? Right??? Cause cheating is a bit of a no-no... This is a classic conflict of ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my science teacher... and he's engaged.
Q. I'm confused on how to act next with this problem. I'm 14 and have recently fallen in love with my science teacher who is roughly ten years older than me, also he has a fiance. This is honestly the first guy I have ever felt totally in love with ...
A. 6 June 2005: Hey there! Ok I can speak from experience here. In first year we had an absolutely gorgeous form teacher called Miss McCarthy. She was about 26, funny and really nice to me. Needless to say, I fell totally and utterly in love. I'd spend nights fan... (read in full...)
I haven't told Mum yet that my boyfriend is 33...
Q. My question is whether to tell my mum I'm seeing an older guy. I'm 17 and I've been seeing a 33 year old for 11 months. My mum thinks he 20 as I haven't had the courage to tell her the truth... I'm scared what her reaction will be and I really don't ...
A. 6 June 2005: Hey there, Well it sounds like you're in a bit of a sticky situation! I actually haven't had any experience with this sort of problem before, and I think that others here might be better at answering it than me, prehaps Bev, but anyway I'll give you... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant on your first time?
Q. Can you get pregnant the first time you have sex, and you have sex without using contraception? I'm still a virgin but I worry about these things all the time. Please help. ...
A. 4 June 2005: Hey there, The answer here is a resounding yes: you can indeed get pregnant on your first time. Biomechanically, when a woman commences her menstrual cycles in puberty, she is ready to have kids. It makes no difference whether you are 'intact' or ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of just lying there during sex. I want to know how to make it better for him!
Q. I am a 15yr old girl and I've had sex before and all but I still don't know what to do. I just lay there not doing any thing it was good and all but I want to know what way to move and how to pleasure a lad....
A. 4 June 2005: Hey there, Alright, firstly, you really need to think about having sex at so young an age. I know I'm probably sounding like your mother here, but it is a fairly big thing. I don't know you, and you may be of above average maturity for your age, but... (read in full...)
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