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writes: Hi, I'm 13 and I've been going out with this boy for 6 weeks and he loves me so much it would break his heart if I left him. I don't wanna but when I'm around other boys I always wanna be with them, and then when I'm with him I wish I never thought that. What do I do? Dump him or not??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2006): the same has happened to me. what u have got to do..... is make it up for urself. noone can decide 4 u. tell him tht b calm to him and say it slwoley and he will understand. ok? hope everything goes alright. dont worry!
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reader, kt  +, writes (7 June 2005):
 Hi,Don't worry; I've gone though the same thing.It sounds like you're getting bored of him and you want something new and exciting in your life, or maybe it's just that you love to flirt with boys. You have two choices:1. You can break off the relationship. It's not fair too lead him on. It's better to do it sooner than later, and be flirt with anyone you want without feeling guilty. or2. You can stay with him because you're only having a bit of fun with the other boys.Either way, let him understand how you feel.good luck!!
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reader, Shane +, writes (6 June 2005):
Hey missy!Ok, you've got a very valid question here. To stay with your boyfriend or not...I'm not quite sure about one thing in your question. You say that when you're with him you wish you never thought that. Do you mean that you still enjoy being with him, and that you feel guilty about thinking that? Or do you not really enjoy being with him anymore.If you still like his company, I'd stay with him. You're still growing up sweetie, and it's an exciting stage in your life. So many boys, so many possibilities. But however, at thirteen or thereabouts, they'll all be of around the same maturity. There really won't be a huge difference between them...So if you still like him, stay with him. You probably won't gain anything new by just arbitrarily dumping him for another random guy. But if you've lost interest, maybe you should break up. But as Your Big sis just said, you have to do it gently. You'd want the same if the positions were reversed. Tell him that you still think he's really nice and a good friend, but that you don't quite like him in that way anymore. But tell him that you'd still love to be friends with him. And do afterwards!Best of luck, you'll be fine.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (6 June 2005):
 Pumpkin pie...let him down gently. Let him know that although you care for him, you'd rather just be friends. You might be his first crush or first girlfriend, so tell him nicely. Treat others as you would like to be treated. And in the future, keep your guy friends just that- guy friends. That way you don't have to worry about hurting anyone else's feelings. Take care sweetie!
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