Should I continue with this relationship? Or break up with him?
Q. Hello Aunts! I'm not sure if I'm in the right relationship. My bf and I have been dating for two years now. Sometimes I feel I love him very much while sometimes I feel I don't love him that much to get married to him. I broke up with him about a ...
A. 28 April 2016: Thanks so much. I appreciate your honest advices. ... (read in full...)
My B/f said, "'not to sound rude but you have a lot of stretch marks baby maybe you should do something about them"
Q. I've been with a man for almost a year and only recently been sexually active with him. He recently made a comment 'not to sound rude but you have a lot of stretch marks baby maybe you should do something about them' I told them they are all ...
A. 26 August 2015: I think it's ok for your bf to tell you if he's not comfortable with something. Not being able to communicate well usually breaks relationships. He might have no idea how much this would bother you. I think you should just explain to him that ... (read in full...)
I really love the new guy but how do I break up with the current guy?
Q. Hello! I'm confused of what to do. I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for almost a year now. I met a new guy recently through a male friend. This new guy has really been nice to me. He said he wants us to get into a relationship but I told h...
A. 25 January 2015: Thanks.
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Could there be a problem later on with us being the same age?
Q. Hi all,need some advice please...i and my boyfriend are 19.infact i'm a month older than him.my question is;could there be any disadvantage(s) of us being same age.we also have plans of getting married in a couple of years time....
A. 8 September 2011: Thank you very much.really like your answers.God bless u all.... (read in full...)
Could there be a problem later on with us being the same age?
Q. Hi all,need some advice please...i and my boyfriend are 19.infact i'm a month older than him.my question is;could there be any disadvantage(s) of us being same age.we also have plans of getting married in a couple of years time....
A. 7 September 2011: @ Lola1.what i mean is that most people say it better for the guy to be older than the girl in a relationship.now that my case is different,i only want to know if there wont be any problem along the line as a result of this.... (read in full...)
Is he having sex with her to get her money?
Q. am a girl of 25 years and have dated my guy for almost 5yrs now and it looks as if am not having money now aday so he's chasing a girl that has money....but i ask him about it and he said..his trying to get that girl's money for as to get marry..so ...
A. 7 September 2011: I think he's being trickky.you shouldn't be in support of this.let him know you don't like the idea and if you still notice him around the girl,i would advice you to leave him.good luck.... (read in full...)
How do I confront him about the texts I found on his phone?
Q. please can you help me, i checked my partner of 2 years phone and found a lot of girls numbers and some very sexy texts, which he has replied to, i am heartbroken ,how can cofront him when i had to put his pin number in to get in his phone ,i feel ...
A. 7 September 2011: I think u should question him about this.also make him know he cant fool everyone at the same time.move on and never go back to him cos he will continue lying to u.take care.... (read in full...)
Sick of being second best......
Q. How do I deal with being second best? I'm second best when it comes to everything. My partner has a better ex. She was prettier and cooler and they only broke up because she cheated. He would never have left her had she not. I'm also second best...
A. 5 September 2011: angelDlite has said it all.in addition to what she has said,i think you need to build on your self esteem,try and think positive about yourself and most of all be yourself at all times never try to be like someone else.its best to be natural. ... (read in full...)
Should I confront his mother or just try and grow up right away?
Q. so me and my boyfriend have been daiting for almost 2 years and we have had sex only once. the other day we were going to again but the night before he told me that his mom didn't want it to happen because she found me immature. she doesnt want it ...
A. 5 September 2011: Yeah, i agree with chigirl.your bf should'nt have told you this.he should know it would hurt you or probably give you a wrong impression about his mom.i think that's a litle immature of him.i guess your boyfriend should have a mind of his own and ... (read in full...)
My mom is having an affair with her married boss!
Q. Hi readers, I'm typing this, hoping to seek great advice from anybody/everybody. I am 19yrs. old, living with my little brother and mother. My parents are separated. My father does not live with us, although he does live fairly close to us. M...
A. 5 September 2011: This is so pathetic.i can imagine how you feel.i think you have to be very patient about this situation so that you dont take the wrong step.first, walk up to her and tell her you know about all her tricks,and that you are not happy knowing that she ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for us to not have sex for the 4-5 years before we get married?
Q. Hi! Here's my problem.i and my bf have been dating for 8 months now and we have not had sex with each other.i'm a virgin but he is not.we agreed not to have sex until we are married which could be in 4-5 years time.we only only have make out ...
A. 31 August 2011: Thank you all.i really appreciate your invaluable answers.God bless u. As for those who feel d relationship period is too long,it actually because of our educational pursuit and our parents will never give consent to our marriage if we dont ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you be put off by a 21 year old virgin?
Q. hi there! im 21 years old. i'm a university student. basically i am still a virgin and never had a boyfriend. its not that i don't get asked out. im a normal girl, love going out and having a good time. but i guess i just haven't met a guy i...
A. 30 July 2011: Hi!I dont think any reasonable guy should be put off about your virginity but rather be happy and glad to have you as a gf.i really admire you for this.am 19 and still a virgin and i dont plan losing it to any man now until am married or find ... (read in full...)
How do I feel better about myself?
Q. Hi, Im never satisfied with my looks, and feel ugly all the time. Some people say im pretty but I never believe them. Im not very popular or outgoing, im very shy. How do I feel better about myself?...
A. 30 July 2011: Hi dearie,i think u have to be positive about yourself.for the fact that you are alive and able body is worth being satisfied with in life.i'll suggests that you wear a litle make-up if u dont used to,may be this is can brighten up ur face.also,u ... (read in full...)
Have I missed my chance to ask her out and does she see us as just friends?
Q. Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my probl...
A. 28 July 2011: Hello! I dnt think you have missed your chance of asking her out.you can still ask her out since she has'nt mentioned that she already has another bf.and as for what she thinks of you.she could be seeing you guys as just friends because you have ... (read in full...)
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