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*halley
writes:Hi all,need some advice please...i and my boyfriend are 19.infact i'm a month older than him.my question is;could there be any disadvantage(s) of us being same age.we also have plans of getting married in a couple of years time. Reply to this Question
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reader, shalley +, writes (8 September 2011):
shalley is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you very much.really like your answers.God bless u all.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (7 September 2011):
 Why would there be a disadvantage with the ages? Age doesn't matter, but level of maturity, wanting the same things, having the same values, all those things matter.
Age only matters if it prevents you from having what you want. If you want a child then it wouldn't be advised to date a 40 year old woman as she is not likely to be able to give you a family, or a 40 year old man for that matter as he'll be quite old when the child grows up. And if you want to move in with your partner it is difficult if he's 16 and still lives at home and has no real job/education/financial means.
Other than things like that, why would age matter?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (7 September 2011):
 Can't think of any--my wife is a few weeks older than I am and that just let's me tease her about "robbing the craddle"
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reader, shalley +, writes (7 September 2011):
shalley is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ Lola1.what i mean is that most people say it better for the guy to be older than the girl in a relationship.now that my case is different,i only want to know if there wont be any problem along the line as a result of this.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (7 September 2011):
 Why would there be? What kind of disadvantages are you concerned about?
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