Girlfriend slept with friend before she was "my girlfriend"
Q. I have been seeing this girl for about 4 months, and the relationship has been mostly great. She is athletic, caring, friendly, very attractive and has a great personality. I have a high level of trust in her and I know she thinks I am attractive, ...
A. 26 June 2009: Would it change anything if you hadnt slept with her that night?
You two didnt meet up a week late because you didnt want too, you both did want too! there was clearly a connection and still is so i wouldnt worry about the past...
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Molested by my father: How do I explain to my mother that I can't let them have my kids at weekends?
Q. Ever since I was 4 years old I remember being molested by my father. Even he will admit that he would touch me and get turned on since I was a baby. When I turned 12 he started having sex with me. I didnt tell anyone because I believe in aweird ...
A. 6 May 2009: I take it your mum doesnt know?
She will be so upset to hear what he was doing - yes - but that was out of her control. But this is in your control! So tell her - or at least your father you dont want him there when they stay.
Else you will... (read in full...)
Caught between two guys
Q. ok here would be my problem, i've been dating this guy for a week.. and now im starting to think this is just a friend kind of thing. and i don't wanna hurt him because i'm afraid that he'll be mad and that he won't wanna be just friends afterwards. ...
A. 6 May 2009: If he likes you he wont mind just being friends!! Be honest.
And do you only think you want to be friends because you like this other guy? and what are your chances with him - does he feel the same?
I wouldnt want to blow him off because of a... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom my brother's taking drugs???
Q. I NEED HELP!!! This has really nothing to do with relationships, but my mom asked me to find out whether or not my older brother is doing drugs(he is). She is worried about him and wants to know what's going on. Now I told her that's unfair to ask m...
A. 6 May 2009: Yes youre brother could potentially be mad at you for telling her - to start with at least. But she is your mother and his, could you imagine how worried she is.
If something did happen and you kept the problem from her in the first plac... (read in full...)
I feel way guilty...should I be?
Q. So i have been dating this guy for a year now, (we'll call him todd) which has been total bliss, except for this past month we have had a lot fights, resulting in us breaking up. i love him and care for him dearly, although i fear our relationship ...
A. 6 May 2009: I wouldnt feel guilty as it sounds like he has does the same as he is seeing other girls....
Zack is probably confusing the matter! you need time to adjust to the fact you broken up. If this zack is interested in you, for more than a hook up he wi... (read in full...)
Does he fancy me or what he just looking out for me because I was drunk?
Q. I have liked this guy for over 7 months now and im really confused! He is acting like he fancys me (he gives me loadz of eye contact and always touches me)but he always says that he dont. We were both out on sunday night with a group of friends when ...
A. 6 May 2009: Just apologise for that night... Say you really appreciate it and how he looks out for you
I wouldnt mention that you heard things from your friends though. He will come to you when and if he wants too! Hope it works out ok for you ... (read in full...)
What is this and what does this mean?
Q. Whenever I remember something that I did with my boyfriend, I get this sort of warm feeling in my chest. What is this and what does this mean? ...
A. 6 May 2009: I get this
My head does the same for a split second too! I get it when i panic too...
I think its like a rush, and i spose for you you must like him a lot! :)... (read in full...)
Help! I think my husband is cheating!
Q. Help! I think my husband is cheating! He has been texting someone and when i found out he claimed it was a joke he and some other guys on his job were doing to a new guy at work. The text was "gd mor baby i miss you call me", i don't know what ...
A. 16 March 2009: Ring the number!
If you dont want them to know its you - do it witheld you can atleast hear if its a woman answering.
If you quiz him on it and it turns out is faithful he will lose trust that you dont trust him. He wouldve removed evidence... (read in full...)
Does he actually want a relationship?
Q. I am currently dating my friend's roomate. We got together last weekend but have known each other for about 2 months. Even though we were both drinking, we were fully aware of what was going on. We started kissing and he pressed himself up against ...
A. 16 March 2009: Just wait it out
if he likes you, and you like him. it will become clear! theres no rush if its mutual. dont feel at all to take things further youve got to do more than your makeout sessions.... (read in full...)
Moral Dilemma - should I have an affair with a married man?
Q. I've been thinking about having an affair with a 50 year old married man. He has made it very clear to me that he is married, has children and is not going to leave his family. I honestly do not care because I'm not looking for a relationship with ...
A. 16 March 2009: Seriously? I wouldnt even consider it - definate no.
If its no strings, find a single man, there is n good will come from this.
Imagine if this was your father! if you had found out - and betrayal to your poor mum... (read in full...)
How could she be friends with the girl who cheated with her boyfriend?
Q. Okay so my best friend in the world has had the worst luck. Her boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend. And I'm the one who supported her who was with her when she cryied and no she's friends with that bitch agin. How how is that possible it ...
A. 15 March 2009: My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend, we are not friends anymore, made me realise she obviously wasnt that good of a friend - she didnt even apologise to m Your friend however obviously still sees the good in her, if or when it happens ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of my g/f's best friend keeps coming on to me!
Q. I'm 22 and my girlfriend's 21. Me and my girlfriend often socialise with her best friend (who's 23) and her fiance (he's 24). For the past few weeks, whenever my girlfriend and her best friend go the bathroom if we're out anywhere, her fi...
A. 15 March 2009: Make it clear you arent bisexual. you probably should tell your girlfriend - if that is who she is marrying - she should know. no one likes to be the bearer of bad news!!!!but you cant really just sit on this. she will know more what to do about the ... (read in full...)
My friend and my b/f don't get along and now he's refusing to see me
Q. hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now.. him and my friend don't get on at all, they really hate each other and are always at each others necks..! on friday at school we were sat in the hall talking and my friend came and sat ...
A. 15 March 2009: It is probably jealousy....of each other as they both want you too themselves
Its sad that they cant get on but he seems to be very immature about it!!!maybe try and get your friend to speak to him - clear the air. especially if he carries ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to stop this feeling
Q. i have fancied tis boy since october 2008... i feel more and more strongly about him everyday... i dnt noe wat to do... in primary skl i fancied tis boy since the day we started at reception till a few days into yr 7... we went to different ...
A. 15 March 2009: If you have his number or email chat to him more, (or ask for it) give him yours possibly that would show if hes interested for what he does with it.
You dont need to tell someone you like them, make the effort, or more effort, he will figure... (read in full...)
How can I make her happy again?
Q. ok, me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 3 months. and for about the first 2 months we were smiling, kissing, laughing ALL the time. but now we dont really do that as much. she doesnt seem that happy anymore, and i really want her to be ...
A. 15 March 2009: She wouldnt be with you now if she wasnt happy, it may not be as exciting as at first, but if she was bored or uninterested she would have made this clear and wouldnt have stayed with you!
she must like you for you, or maybe its on its way to pass... (read in full...)
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