Is it fair to request that he deletes his ex-girlfriend's phone number?
Q. My fiancee has an ex that he shares a long history with. They were off and on for years and he cheated on one of his girlfriends twice with her as well. It was about 5 years ago, and the girl he cheated on was crazy and he wasn't in love with her. ...
A. 30 November 2010: Anonymous,
I know that he would know I have looked in his address book. I would be honest that I looked. In my opinion, if there is something you want to be kept private, you don't leave it lying around in full view.
My reason for looking ... (read in full...)
Is it fair to request that he deletes his ex-girlfriend's phone number?
Q. My fiancee has an ex that he shares a long history with. They were off and on for years and he cheated on one of his girlfriends twice with her as well. It was about 5 years ago, and the girl he cheated on was crazy and he wasn't in love with her. ...
A. 30 November 2010: Cerberus,
Thanks for your answer. I guess my problem with this is that I think she could be a temptation for him. I'm not saying he would act on this, but what if we were going through a rough time and he wanted to talk to her. What if he want... (read in full...)
His first love is his Playstation... then me!!!
Q. He doesn't seem to want to be with me any more. He would rather spend time snuggled up with his playstation controller than with me. He takes it so seriously as well, swearing and getting mad at the game - it almost makes me jealous as he never ...
A. 16 June 2010: Maybe you need to take off for awhile with the baby and go visit relatives or friends a week or two. Let him start missing you. I also would not wait on him hand and foot. I am not saying you are doing this, but I would not.
Other than tha... (read in full...)
My fiance wants a threesome!
Q. My fiance wants a threesome, with another female. I'm a little uneasy about it, but I said I'd agree as long as I also got a threesome with another male. This way it would be fair. Now, I am bisexual. My fiance, we'll call him Bob for the sake of ...
A. 16 June 2010: You go, girl! You don't want to start off on a bad foot. If he keeps watching threesomes in porn, however, the fantasy will not go away for him. But hopefully he won't bring it up again. ... (read in full...)
Okay I like her... how do I ask her out???
Q. hey i have been hanging out with this girl for some time and I think she likes me. the problem is that I am an extremly shy person with a bad history on asking people out. should i just come out and ask her or could i do it with a note in the bottom ...
A. 16 June 2010: Practice in the mirror a few times first and do not give her a necklace. Ask her straight up. For example, if you want to take her out to dinner, say, "hey ---, if you're not busy Saturday night, would you like to go out to dinner?" Simple as ... (read in full...)
How can I make him happy???
Q. Please Help me!! I feel unloved and alone in my marriage....let me start with some backround....please read everything and help me..i dont know what to do....ok..... well let me start by saying im 19, but married last year to a forign 14-15 year old...
A. 16 June 2010: Have you tried to talk to him about this? You need to communicate for a successful relationship.... (read in full...)
I have lost myself.......
Q. I have lost myself. I have been married for nearly 14 years. When I met my wife I was confident, full of vision and energy. I was positive, upbeat, hilariously funny. I had faith, I had a zeal for life I had friends. Flash forward to today and ...
A. 16 June 2010: You cannot wait for someone to rescue you. By seeing a professional, you can take control of your life back... and regain your happiness.... (read in full...)
My ex is abusive! Should I do what I think is best for not only my child, but myself?
Q. I feel so helpless and hopeless right now. I am currently separated from my ex for two years now. We've been together 13 years and married for 6 years. We have one 6 year old lil girl. My dilemma is I feel my ex has been verbally abusing me to the ...
A. 16 June 2010: I don't think it is the best thing for your daughter to be around a father that verbally abuses her mother. Eventually, she will see this abuse, if she has not already. Six year olds have big ears and are very receptive to their surroundings. ... (read in full...)
Why do men enjoy penetrating a girl's mouth so deeply?
Q. Hi! Does anyone know why when you are giving your boyfriend a blowjob they want you to get their penis as far in your mouth as you can? I don't quite understand it, and hopefully I'm not the only person that has run into this. Thanks ...
A. 16 June 2010: Ooops! I meant to say in my previous post that a nice guy will NOT push your head down or try to gag you. Sorry about that. ... (read in full...)
My fiance wants a threesome!
Q. My fiance wants a threesome, with another female. I'm a little uneasy about it, but I said I'd agree as long as I also got a threesome with another male. This way it would be fair. Now, I am bisexual. My fiance, we'll call him Bob for the sake of ...
A. 16 June 2010: BunnyTee is right. This is all about your boyfriend...and his selfishness, I might add.... (read in full...)
He didn't come to bed... what's going on???
Q. my boyfriend has always come to bed with me every night and of course in my past relationhips, i have been accustomed to this. last night (after we have been having a lot of problems/fights), he didn't want to come to bed at all. he had to work this ...
A. 16 June 2010: I think it is smothering him to expect him to come to bed at the same time as you every night. What do you need him for? It sounds like you are too dependent on him and probably pushing him away. Men need more space than women.
One more thi... (read in full...)
I have lost myself.......
Q. I have lost myself. I have been married for nearly 14 years. When I met my wife I was confident, full of vision and energy. I was positive, upbeat, hilariously funny. I had faith, I had a zeal for life I had friends. Flash forward to today and ...
A. 16 June 2010: It sounds like you are suffering from major depression. I think the best thing you can do is to find a good referral for a counselor and make an appointment as soon as possible.
It happens to everyone at one time or another in their life whe... (read in full...)
Why do parents get so crazy about sexual stuff with us teens?
Q. Why do parents get so crazy about sexual stuff with us teens? If we are protected then let us learn and realize the real world of a relationship. I think if the parent lets the kids do stuff it gives the kid responsibilty and helps them realize what ...
A. 16 June 2010: They get crazy about it because if you screw up and get pregnant, you are not the one who will be raising that baby. Your mama and daddy will be doing all the work...and they will be the ones paying for all of it because you are way too young to ... (read in full...)
Wasting time?
Q. I've been engaged for almost 3 years. I'm always the one keeping the conversation, affection, etc. going. When I stop and sit back and just watch and pay attention to what he does, nothing happens. He never has anything to talk about. It's now a ...
A. 16 June 2010: Tell him exactly what you need from him for the relationship to work. If he doesn't give it, then you need to break it off.
It sounds like you do too much and he has no motivation for the thrill of the chase.... (read in full...)
Me and girlfriend are on a break.. concerned.
Q. Alright.. I'm male. 14. Been in a relationship for a year and a half. I'm abit freaked out because.. well with everything. My girlfriend and me have usually been great.. you know happy couple, she's always been the random (abit childish) but happy ...
A. 16 June 2010: You both have a lot of growing up to do and many changes lie ahead. I think a break would do you both good and it sounds like you need it.
And if your feelings go, there will be someone else. When one door closes, another one opens.... (read in full...)
Does he only want to be friends with benefits again?
Q. Ok so i got a text from my ex bf and he wants to get together again to hang out...We are friends at this point. anyway the last time we hung out it was like friends with benefits... what-ever its great sex! So the last contact we had was that i told ...
A. 16 June 2010: You are playing with fire with your emotions. He is using you for sex and that is it. You are the one who will get hurt here.... (read in full...)
His first love is his Playstation... then me!!!
Q. He doesn't seem to want to be with me any more. He would rather spend time snuggled up with his playstation controller than with me. He takes it so seriously as well, swearing and getting mad at the game - it almost makes me jealous as he never ...
A. 16 June 2010: You can sit down and have a conversation with him. It's called "open communication". And if he still acts the same way, don't stick around.... (read in full...)
Sex isn't such a big deal... right???
Q. When sex pops up in a conversation why is it that I am not such a big fan about it as my friends? I haven't done it yet and i'm 18 years old. I just chose not to have it and i'm fine with it. But i have a boyfriend and i would like to have sex but ...
A. 16 June 2010: Don't base your life on your friends' lives. Continue to be yourself. Nothing seems wrong in your relationship. Your bf is comfy. You know what they say...if it ain't broke, don't fix it.... (read in full...)
My fiance wants a threesome!
Q. My fiance wants a threesome, with another female. I'm a little uneasy about it, but I said I'd agree as long as I also got a threesome with another male. This way it would be fair. Now, I am bisexual. My fiance, we'll call him Bob for the sake of ...
A. 16 June 2010: You are asking for trouble if you do a threesome. One never knows what lies ahead.
And OMG! You are still a teen as well. Why be engaged if you just wanna screw other people? ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't love me!
Q. Please Help me!! I feel unloved and alone in my marriage....let me start with some backround....please read everything and help me..i dont know what to do....ok..... well let me start by saying im 19, but married last year to a forign 14-15 year old...
A. 16 June 2010: Anyone can start over, and you are only 19! Why do you think you do not have a choice? Have you discussed your feelings with him, or asked him why he's been so mean?
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