Will I ever be accepting of his porn usage?
Q. First of all, I don’t want answers to my post or comments on it from people who are totally against porn. I am not against it, I am just asking for advice and I don’t want advice that I absolutely will not take. I mean no offense, but I see it on ...
A. 29 January 2011: Firstly he sounds like a very lovely guy, he consoled you and didn't get angry which is good and knew what to say to calm you down so in that respect I'd say don't just give up on the relationship. Maybe you could incorporate the porn into your ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend watching porn, says he doesn't care if I break up with him or not
Q. Ok, I recently found out that my boyfriend has been going on this website called [name removed but suggests pictures with no clothes on]... ALL THE TIME!. He wont reply to my texts, he doesn't talk to me, i feel like he has emotionally with...
A. 29 January 2011: It sounds like he wants out of the relationship and he's trying to get you to break up with him, and to be fair it sounds like you could do so much better than essentially a boy with an overactive crotch with an attitude problem. The living ... (read in full...)
Concerned about my boyfriend watching one particular porn star daily!
Q. Hello all, please let me know if I should be concecrned here. I recently found out that my boyfriend looks at porn daily. I also found out that he subscribes to one girl's porn/webcam site so all the porn he has is just of her. I have been feelin...
A. 29 January 2011: I've been in a similar situation except my boyfriend would never have paid. I think that's what I'd most have a problem with because in its own way it is like prostition. You sound lovely so I can't imagine why he would prefer anyone else, however ... (read in full...)
I hit my girlfriend, is it my fault or hers?
Q. im 15 ma girlfriends 14 were in the same year but im not proud of what i did but i need some advice me and my girlfriend were arguing after something that happened at school i kinda said she was flirting with my bestmate because she was hugging him ...
A. 29 January 2011: It's your fault. You're old enough to know what's right and wrong! If I were you I'd seriously think about your behviour and apologise. There's no way that what you did could be seen as her fault, there's no excuse for violence. If she said ... (read in full...)
I can't tolerate porn due to a horrible experience in my past!
Q. My problem is that I hate porn. It dates back to many years ago when I had an awful experience and I have explained this to my partner and how it reminds me of a horrible time in my life which I have sought profession help to overcome. I told him ...
A. 29 January 2011: Firstly I've been through a very similar harrowing experience. Sometimes boyfriends/girlfriends don't consider the impact that their actions have on your feelings especially with regards to porn and "just looking" at other women. Different women ... (read in full...)
Doubting our relationship, but I'm afraid to break up
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and things were great. But lately I've been doubting our relationship. It's just not fun anymore, and he's starting to just annoy me. I would break up with him but some things are holding me back: 1) We ...
A. 1 October 2010: Firstly...your initial reason is mutual friends...that shouldnt matter, friends shouldnt be so fickle as to not bother with either of you, aslong as you can still be civil with eachother. Secondly just because you dont find doesnt mean you should ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to ask her to break her friendship with the guy she slept with?
Q. My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me stating she wasnt happy anymore, we were apart for 2 weeks and got back together again for a night and hooked up and she told me she was still in love with me. But then again less than a week later she ...
A. 1 October 2010: As I see it...you've been in a serious relationship and the other half has completely messed you about and in her confusion really really hurt you without reason. You're the victim here so don't just pander to her needs. If she wants to work things ... (read in full...)
He cheated and got her pregnant; do I give him another chance?
Q. Okay. So me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months. We are very much in love and are the best things that ever happened to each other. The whole 8months of our relationship so far we've been keeping everything faithful and we trust each other. ...
A. 1 October 2010: No matter what he says the trust you had together has been abused and broken...he has no right treating you like that and by the sounds of it there's a lot of pressure on you to solve the situation...you deserve someone who won't even look at ... (read in full...)
I don't classify this as cheating but my boyfriend will!
Q. Okay, Ive been dating a guy for about 2 months and I told him I would never cheat. But recently I was out with friends (1 girl and 2guys) one of the guys is an ex boyfriend. When we were leaving, i hugged him goodbye and I turned to kiss him on ...
A. 1 May 2010: I'm afraid that is cheating. If your boyfriend was out with you on the night out would you have done it? No.
Have you told him about it? Hiding these things never helps, you'll either be racked with guilt for a long time, or you'll be racked with... (read in full...)
Why did wife lie about her past? I have a right to know!
Q. I found out my wife lied to me about how many guys she slept with before me. When the topic first came up when we were dating she told me there was three. I had a very hard time with this because i felt very insecure about myself. At that point i ...
A. 27 April 2010: This is a problem considering you have repeatedly had your trust broken,I'd suggest that she may need some therapy for the lying and hiding especially in a new marriage. However it is a double ended knife, she didnt need to tell you how many she'd ... (read in full...)
I just can't get any affection from my husband!
Q. 'human' Hi can anyone help. I have been married let me think our eldest son is 33, we met at least 5 years before that. he used to take the first step and make love to me and used to be kind with conversation. but over the last 10 years I SAY 1...
A. 27 April 2010: I wish I could write a better answer to this but with your question involving marriage, of a long period I suspect your best taking steps of seeing a counsellor, to try and establish whether or not you're completely happy in this relationship and if ... (read in full...)
Virgos and Pisces?
Q. why do they say Virgo and Pisces are not compatible? Im a Pisces who has the Virgo rising so I'm half Virgo and half Pisces.Im very picky and anti germ freak like a Virgo.but sometimes i can be clutter but most of the time im clean.i day dream a ...
A. 27 April 2010: The thing with birth signs is, its circumstantial, I find that they don't often work for me, I like the idea of horoscopes, but too many times I've had readings done and it's been rubbish. Real life is dependent on more than just zodiac signs. Each ... (read in full...)
Help with a hairy chin
Q. Hi...I need some advice. I recently just discovered that I am growing hairs on my chin!!!!! I keep plucking them, but its really beginning to freak me out and I am petrified that my boyfriend will see them and leave me. Is this normal? or is th...
A. 27 April 2010: Don't panic, when I was about 12 I went swimming with friends, and at that impressionable age one of the boys we were with told us (the girls) we had hairy stomachs, so we all went home and shaved them, ever since then dark hairs grow back and back ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is sweet and caring, but he really ogles other women!
Q. My boyfriend is genuinely sweet and caring, but when it comes to looking at other girls he makes me feel really uncomfortable. The last episode was yesterday when we were on the train and he saw this girl sitting with her boyfriend in a short skirt. ...
A. 27 April 2010: I get so frustrated when people try to justify disgusting behaviour as being engrained in our biological makeup- how much of a cop-out excuse is that?! I'm a 20 year old female and have had my fair share of insecurities, all, i repeat ALL of them ... (read in full...)
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