His porn addiction is making me insecure
Q. hi i feel for all the women who have gone though this. why cant men understand it makes you question yourself has a person. I am not against porn but it hurts more then ever knowing he relieves himself to other women. he says its not the person its ...
A. 7 August 2010: Oh no! Please don't give up on LIFE for this turd of a guy! If you must give up on love for a while,that's o.k but life? No!
It's very insensitive that he doesn't take into consideration your past hurts.You need to take good care of yourself... (read in full...)
He enjoys anal... but I hate it!
Q. Right okay so im 18 seeing a guy for 6 months who's 27. We've recently began getting serious and he said he loves me the other day which felt nice and natural so i replied. That isnt the problem.. theres certain things within our relationship that ...
A. 1 August 2010: What if YOU wanted to give him anal sex and he didn't enjoy it? Please be careful as anal sex is very risky.You have better chances of getting infected with HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases. If you use a condom, it's easier to break ... (read in full...)
How do I get through to an uncaring boyfriend?
Q. I have been with my boy almost 3 years now. In the beginning everything was amazing, i fell deeply in love with him and we couldn't take our hands off each other. At the time we both felt like we had truly found the one. After probably 18 mont...
A. 28 July 2010: Zayla80 said it all: Don't reward a man for bad behavior. And yes, the books she suggested are a great read for a woman like you who has become co-dependent.
I can only imagine how hurt you are. I think we can all relate to being madly crazy in... (read in full...)
Why does he keep playing with my emotions?
Q. My husband left 2 months ago ... We just had a baby who is now 6 months. He moved out got his own place... And since the day he left he hasent stopped calling atleast everyother day and kissing me... He's said he is sorry but hasent really ...
A. 27 July 2010: Change your phone number.
This way, you won't be waiting for his call and he will have to man up and knock at your door if he wants to see you.
The red flag for me is the disinterest in his child and the lack of apologies.
It must be very... (read in full...)
She became distance and wouldn't even hug me everytime we tried to rebuild our relationship. I still want a future with her
Q. I need help. I dated my girlfriend for a year and a half, and it didn't take me that long to realize she was the one. On top of that, she would always talk about "when we got married" and how I was "too good to be true." Needless to say, she was ...
A. 25 July 2010: From what you're saying, she doesn't sound like she really wants you away from her. I understand that the "push/pull" situation hurts you and makes you feel manipulated. It sounds unhealthy but she is not in a healthy emotional place. I am wo... (read in full...)
I am involved with a married man but he's my soul mate!
Q. i really need help i meet him in high school as he was my teacher i was 16 and he was 24 we get so closed as he gave me private lessons with my 2 sisters but there was nothing going between us (i mean emmotions) we used to meet only in groups h...
A. 19 July 2010: Please do not lose your virginity to a married man! He is not available: He is married.If he really wanted to be with you, he would divorce his wife, THEN and only then, he would start a romantic relationship with you. That's the honorable way ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 18 July 2010: Having to sell your body at 14 to survive is a horrible predicament to be in.
Your poor wife must have been devastatingly alone. I don't hear any compassion on your part for that terrible time in her life.
It seems like this woman needs all ... (read in full...)
Do most girls shave down there? And how do you do it anyway?
Q. do most girls shave down there? do guys like shaved or hairy or trimmed? how do you shave it, dont the hairs get caught in the shaver?...
A. 18 July 2010: I use Philips Bikini Perfect system. It's not cheap but in the end, much cheaper than waxing. You can use it in the shower, so it's very convenient.It has a shaver and an epilator that removes hair by the root ( not the most pleasurable thing, but ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and I was pregnant...
Q. my partner of 4 and a half years has been cheating on me for the past 6 months. the worst thing about it was i was pregnant with his daughter at the time. the affair ended a few weeks ago but i dont know if i can move on. i feel so betrayed and ...
A. 18 July 2010: How awful!
It's understandable to feel betrayed and hurt in your situation.
A few weeks is not much to process all those feelings and you have the right to take all the time you need to figure things out.
Have you discussed why he was... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by saying 'enough is enough'?
Q. i been with my boyfriend for 4years now.. we decided to move in 2gether wen i was 6mnths pregnant and the problem started wen i gave birth. he'd take all the money and gamble it and leave us with nothing for the whole week .. we both dont work s...
A. 18 July 2010: Good on you to invest in your future!
You have give lots of chances to that guy, and now you are giving yourself and your daughter the chances you deserve.
Time and energy invested in an education and bettering oneself are a winning bet.
... (read in full...)
Stuck in an abusive relationship for the sake of my kids
Q. Dear Cupid i am in big problem with my marraige, very unhappy and uncomfortable. I have been married for 11 years and have 2 little boys aged 28 months and 14 months old. we have always had our differences and rarely we could agree to a disagree...
A. 15 July 2010: The title of your post says it all: you are stuck in an abusive relationship for the sake of your kids. For the sake of your kids, wouldn't it make sense you got out of an abusive relationship? Is your husband abusive to your kids. I hope to ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by saying 'enough is enough'?
Q. i been with my boyfriend for 4years now.. we decided to move in 2gether wen i was 6mnths pregnant and the problem started wen i gave birth. he'd take all the money and gamble it and leave us with nothing for the whole week .. we both dont work s...
A. 15 July 2010: How much of a father is he to your daughter now? He is gambling on her future. This is so wrong and so immature. You shouldn't let your desire to have both parents raise your daughter cloud your judgement. Is there any way you could have t... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 15 July 2010: It's not so much the porn watching as the lying that is troubling. I am curious to know if this is the only problem in your relationship, or just the tip of the iceberg. If this is the only major problem, it might be worth working out. I... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he's become distant!
Q. I met a boy in Montana about two weeks ago. We hung out a few times while I was there and we had an instant connection. I have never felt so comfortable around a guy in my entire life. He kept telling me how much he wished i lived in Montana, and ...
A. 15 July 2010: How wonderful to be an open slate and have all those choices in front of you! I hope you enjoy this freedom and all the possibilities of joy and fulfillment that are on your path. It seems that you really enjoy Montana,maybe that is the key to th... (read in full...)
He said to be patient... but this sounds crappy, doesn't it?
Q. Ok...I'm 45 and the guy I've been dating for almost three months is 34. I've invited him to meet friends...my family..but he always backs off. Today we talked and he said that three months is way too early. We only see each other about once a ...
A. 12 July 2010: I understand the fact he doesn't want to meet with your family after 3 months of dating. I find that too early myself. The red flag for me is that he didn't give you anything for your birthday. Also, I would like to point out that if you wo... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he's become distant!
Q. I met a boy in Montana about two weeks ago. We hung out a few times while I was there and we had an instant connection. I have never felt so comfortable around a guy in my entire life. He kept telling me how much he wished i lived in Montana, and ...
A. 12 July 2010: What if you stop texting him altogether?
Maybe,it will make him want you more. Men want what they can't have.
If you are too available and devoted, he might get sick of your neediness. You are already making plans to go to school in Montan... (read in full...)
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