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... Send *uiet.Kisses a private message | | | *uiet.Kisses's profile:Im a 19 year old born and bred Canadian with a strong French and German heritage. Currently going to University to become an Engineer specializing in oil and gas reserviors.
My relationship status is single and dating. Like mos here Ive had my fair share of relationship problems. I was in a physically abusive relationship to a drug addict on and off for 5 years and will always wear permenant scars as a reminder of my past. Also like most here Ive been far from innocent when it comes to between the sheets, as I havent been virgin territory since I was 16 but Im not here to kiss and tell.
Im a fellow member of ugly duckling syndrome, I wasnt anyones idea of beautiful until after High School. Now, Im very comfortable with my body and I believe my best attributes are my long legs and blue eyes. Nobody should be ashamed of their body or looks, we are al different....the trick is taking something about yourself you love and enhancing it.
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What exactly is it that girls look for in a guy?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and I was wondering what do most girls look for in a guy??? So this is mainly for girls but guys can answer too I guess and I'm not asking this so I can get a girl but I just want to know....
A. 18 March 2009: Every girl is different. Personally I look for someone I can count on and someone who can be my best friend and make me laugh.... (read in full...)
Do you think I'll lose weight on this particular diet? Opinions needed please.
Q. hey, I am starting a new diet where I eat a different amount of calories each day, ranging from 100 cals to 500 cals, and I do one and a half hours on the treadmill each day fast walking. I was just wondering, do you think I will lose weight if I ...
A. 24 February 2009: You will lose weight but ony because your body is being starved. If you want to slim down and still be healthy then try taking multi-viatmins and taking in lots of fibre and protein. I think if you work out and take care of your body then you dont ... (read in full...)
Why are so many men afraid of commitment?
Q. Why do men (and women too I guess) fear settling down with one person?...
A. 24 February 2009: Because your mind automatcally goes to this is it, this is the last person I am EVER going to be with. Sometimes it is a fear of getting hurt too, nobody likes rejection so some avoid the possibility of it ever happening period. Others might worry ... (read in full...)
Any tips so that he lasts longer than one minute?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, and have fooled around a lot before that. He never seems to last long... At all. Is there any tips that could help him control himself so he's not done in one minute?...
A. 24 February 2009: If round one is disappointing then give him some recovery time and see if he is up for round two. Control will come with practice and age, besides not too many people out there will complain about a series of romps. Practice makes perfect and on a ... (read in full...)
How do I seduce him?
Q. I am 25 years old, and im interested in a 50 year old man. After spending time with him for the past couple of months(as friends), I've found that the feeling is mutual. He mentioned that the age difference is the only barrier, so I feel he won't ...
A. 24 February 2009: Go for basic seduction moves: Cuddling on a couch, Absentmindly run your fingers along his back or thigh. No matter what the situation there are spots on a mans body that are hot spots when touched properly....along the rib cage, spine, thighs, ... (read in full...)
It feels like we're moving too fast, but it feels natural. Should I slow down?
Q. I met a guy last year. I wasn't really interested in him. But he continued to pursue me. Finally I gave him a chance. But after a week or two I called it quits for no reason. A month down the line, I decide to call him. Of course he cursed me out. ...
A. 24 February 2009: Do what feels natural too you. You never learn without testing the waters and being afraid IS normal, when you play with fire there is always a risk of being burned but youll never know unless you give yourself a chance to fall in love. Take things ... (read in full...)
Virgin & he's too big!
Q. ok so im a virgin and have been with my nonvirgin boyfriend for a while now. i want to give him my virginity and we have tried having sex FIVE times now and have yet to make it work. im am a rather short girl and weigh 103 therfore im smaller than ...
A. 24 February 2009: You need to relax more, if your muscles are tense then its going to be a lot harder for you. Try having him start slowly and just breathe, clear your mind a little. The key to accepting a size that big is being relaxed and making sure those muscles ... (read in full...)
What's the best penis size?
Q. What is the best penis size? because im like at 7 inches and my penis is 5"thick so i want to know if ill be hurting my gf or not pleasuring her...
A. 24 February 2009: Size honestly doesnt matter too much, her body should adjust accordinly but if your worried about hurting her then introduce a lot of foreplay. The less friction there is, the smoother the ride will be.... (read in full...)
What words can be used to describe a guy?
Q. I suppose this is a bit wierd, but you know how guys get so many words to describe a girl? such as beautiful, gorgeous, stunning, ect.. what words can be used to describe a guy? I mean, I think handsome is a little old fashioned, but do guys like ...
A. 24 February 2009: Gorgeous, sexy, handsome, good looking, sweetheart, stud........ (read in full...)
He says he wants me to stop texting him for "a while..." How long is a while?
Q. Met a guy on online dating site... we got together, and then he kept blowing me out, about a month ago. I started texting again last week, and he said he really wanted to see me, and seemed really into me again, but on Thu, he wasn't able to s...
A. 24 February 2009: Something about that doesnt sound right to me. If someone was really into you then they would at least provide a valid reason for wanting the calls and texts to stop. It takes two to make things work and you certinly shouldnt be the one at his beck ... (read in full...)
Sleeping with a first date
Q. I went on a date with an incredable guy and we had amazing chemistry, the only trouble is that chemistry also led to us sleeping together. He admitted it had been a while for him (as it had been for myself) and that he didn't think any less of me ...
A. 17 February 2009: Ok, hugh sigh of relief here. I talked to my guy about this and he pretty much the same thing as RCN, sex is a physical act that doesn't necessarily define who I am as a person. He even agreed to a second date saying he's never felt that kind of a ... (read in full...)
Been together 10 years but he said he'll NEVER tie the knot...
Q. I am a 25 year old female. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. We have a 8 year old daughter together. When we first meet we began shopping for wedding rings. He told me he wants me to have the best. Now later down the line he has said ...
A. 17 February 2009: Some men don't feel the need for ceremonies, he might not be into spilling his heart to the world. Now most girls might shake there heads at this suggestion but maybe suggest getting married down at city hall, nothing big just making it official. It ... (read in full...)
I want to pleasure my girlfriend but not have intercourse yet
Q. I'm 15 (she's 15 too) and from USA and i'm in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months, And i don't really wanna have sex in such a young age but i really wanna pleasure her? What do i do? do i ask or just do it? thanks...
A. 17 February 2009: The best advice here is only that you shouldn't do something you don't feel ready for or are unsure of. She should respect you decision and if you don't want to confront her with this then try avoiding any situation where sexual contact might come ... (read in full...)
My mom won't listen to me!
Q. I wanna ask what should u when your mum won't listen to u.She just won't listen!! Although she always says " u hav ypur freedom to do anything u want,I won't say a word" But whenever I had made a decision which she dislikes.....she started to use ...
A. 17 February 2009: The "You have your freedom line" is one of my moms favorite lines to use too. I've come to interpret it to mean that yes I may have my freedom however that freedom doesn't include anything that she doesn't like or something she would disaprove of. ... (read in full...)
Should I hold on to her? Even if our relationship time is limited?
Q. I just need advice. Ok, so here's what's going on. I'm pretty much in my first real relationship, the girl I'm going with is great. But recently, she told me she plans on keeping her virginity until she's married which is a bit of a bummer because...
A. 17 February 2009: Leaving someone because they aren't ready to have sex is a low blow for anyone but if your reasons for leaving are because you don't think a long distance relationship would work out then you should talk to her and get both sides of things before ... (read in full...)
I feel so inferior to all these porn stars and celebrities, what to do to raise my self esteem?
Q. I have a very stupid problem. I hate myself. More specifically, I hate my body. I feel so inferior to porn stars or celebrities. Whenever I see a scantily clad woman I feel so, so ugly and unsexy. I will never be pretty or attractive. I just don't ...
A. 17 February 2009: One of the best tricks I've come across that instantly increase my confidence and makes me feel incredaly sexy is High Heels. Seriously, a good heel can take up to 5 pounds off your look because the straighten your posture but they also make your ... (read in full...)
Should I suggest moving in together?
Q. Should I suggest moving in together? I have been dating a very kind dependable guy for about a year. He and I get along very well. I love him but am not in love with him yet. I have no desire to marry him until I am sure that he is the one an...
A. 17 February 2009: If you can see yourself possibly marrying this guy someday then it is best to try living together first because frankly if you can't live together your going to have a problem. Try bringing up the fact that you aren't too happy where you are and ... (read in full...)
My friends are trying to set me up with a girl, but she is "fast". I know the are trying to help but...
Q. I have a problem, well here it is guys, My friends have been basically sick of seeing me alone without a girlfriend for so long. And have decided to try to hook me up with a girl. Well from what they have told me and my one friend who i really trust ...
A. 12 February 2009: From the sounds of it you aren't too interested in this particular girl or too comfortable with the idea of dating her, maybe ask if your friends know anyone else? ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and do not want children. Do I abort it or put it up for adoption?
Q. My birthday was two days ago, and for my present I found out that I am pregnant. For many people this would be fabulous news! And I really do want children, however due to finances, we really cannot afford to have a baby just yet. We were using ...
A. 12 February 2009: There are many people out there who would love to adopt your baby and it also gives you plenty of time to decide if its something you want to go through with, unfortunately with abortion thats not a luxury you'd be given. Adoption can also be ... (read in full...)
Where's the love when I have the flu? After two years he "hasn't decided" how he feels about me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore. Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him beca...
A. 12 February 2009: If after two years he does not n=know how he feels about you then he never will and it isn't fair for him to keep you on a line like this. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who wants you, not someone who only wants you when its ... (read in full...)
1st time--which position is best?
Q. I have a question.When losing your virginity,is it better for the female to be on top or the male ?.Bearing in mind, we are both virgins.Any other tips would be great too.I've thought of us having the light off and just having candle light,and ...
A. 12 February 2009: Missionary is probably the easiest for your first time but sometimes the best way to have sex is to just let is happen without plans (although do use precautions like condoms). Personally, I lost mine standing which was a little more work then most ... (read in full...)
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