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... Send *urplewasabi a private message | | | *urplewasabi's profile:(: I'm just a girl looking to go to university and study English Literature, Creative Writing and Linguistics. I don't have a sexual preference, nor a religious one. I'm rather critical of the world I find myself living in, and constantly wish I had been born to see Cash and Dylan play together in their prime. I feel as though I'm rather mature for my age and have been able to step outside my own situations in order to evaluate them; thanks to this I've always found myself oddly at ease helping other people, whether they be friends or strangers.
I'm single, and plan to be for a long time. I have possibly strange views on many things; relationships aren't for me, cheating doesn't bother me (at my age!), marriage is a certain no for the forseeable future, etc. However I don't let my own opinions affect my judgements with other peoples' situations, so rest assured I am unbiased ! I will also be posting my own issues up now and then.
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Why oh why don't they like me?
Q. At lot of girls i know at school don't like me and call me names like 'you're weird, go away'. But the thing is they don't even know me, just my name. Why don't they like me? I play for the school A team in football, I'm one of the top 10 athletes ...
A. 23 September 2010: With such limited information it's impossible for us to tell you why the girls 'don't like you'. Remember that things such as those you have mentioned - being an athlete, hanging around with the cool kids - they should not decide whether or not ... (read in full...)
I want out... but I need some encouragement!
Q. My story is i have been in a relationship for over two years. I live with him and he is a great person. But, for the last year i would say i have been thinking of leaving him. But, i don't do it. I don't have the guts to do it. I almost left him ...
A. 22 September 2010: Tell your best friend! Chances are she will want to help you, and be your moral support if your partner gets aggressive (is this likely?) - and moral support is obviously what you need right now!
There is NO true valid reason for ANYONE to stay... (read in full...)
The old male "friend"!
Q. Today i came home early from class and overheard my wife and one of her friends discussing a guy "friend" she has. She has told me many times that they were always just friends and that was it, well today she was talking about how he told her he was ...
A. 23 March 2010: I think you should trust your wife to tell you the truth. If you truly love her you will listen to her when she says this friend is not who she wants. As said, keep reminding yourself that it is YOU that she chose ! Make sure you don't push her away ... (read in full...)
How can you be completely sure someone loves you?
Q. Hi. I just wanna know, how can you be completely sure that somebody loves you? Because I love my girlfriend with all of my heart, and I am sure she does too. I just want to be completely sure. Is her kissing me back enough to know? ...
A. 23 March 2010: Unfortunately you never can. You just have to rely on the trust in your love for your girlfriend to reassure you of her own feelings for you.
Really, her kissing you back isn't 'proof' that she loves you because there is no proof. Love isn't some... (read in full...)
I feel I need porn but I feel guilty about watching it.
Q. I'm a straight girl and I like porn. My boyfriend does not. He never looks at porn but he said it's okay if I do. But I kind of feel like I need porn and I also feel guilty about it. I mean I really like my boyfriend and I'm definately turned on by ...
A. 23 March 2010: I don't think you should feel guilty at all - porn is there to stimulate fantasies that are out of reach, and whether this is in yaoi form, hentai form, etc, it's nothing to be guilty about ! Please don't beat yourself up about this; it's a personal ... (read in full...)
She won't talk to me!
Q. How do i get my girlfriend to talk about us, our relationship, her feelings, her feelings toward me. Every time i want to a have a talk about us, she looks away, or she goes quiet, or tries to change the subject, or finds something to distract her, ...
A. 23 March 2010: I thought for a while about this one, and tried to really put myself in your girlfriend's shoes. It's a difficult question. I think there are several things you could attempt - it's good that you have the confidence to ask her directly, that's ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if she's a lesbian?
Q. Im a lesbian.I discovered i was a lesbian when i was 13.im 18 now.I have fallen for this woman.i think she is about 32.I want to know how do you to tell if a woman is a lesbian.I know how to tell if a girl is a lesbain but not a woman. I applied...
A. 23 March 2010: Unfortunately there's no way to tell. xD People can't really carry around badges that indicate their sexual preferences after all.
The best thing I think you could do is talk to her. Maybe ask her about some items in the shop. You could slip in a... (read in full...)
Is this normal after a break up?
Q. My sister broke up with her boyfriend because he was cheating and so I've been spending all my time with her. She's really upset and has been crying a lot so I've just being telling her I love her and taking care of her. The last couple of nights ...
A. 23 March 2010: You're a safe presence to your sister, no doubt; she can rely on you not to hurt her and not to judge her. (: It's an amazing relationship ! If it does make you uncomfortable then just either ask her to resist, or encourage her further to sleep in ... (read in full...)
Orgasm help?
Q. When I give myself orgasms after a few seconds It feels really good nd I strt twitching nd I have to stop. Y?.....
A. 23 March 2010: How are you giving yourself this orgasm ? When I rub my clitoris directly, I'm too sensitive and can't keep it up for long; when I do reach the point of the orgasm I never actually stimulate the clitoris nub directly, instead I rub the area just ... (read in full...)
Are we both idiots for staying in an abusive relationship?
Q. Ok, so I'm gonna summarise this a bit. Both I and my bf of 5 years are difficult people. We're both sensitive, emotional, highly-strung and easily hurt. He was abused by his mother, and I've been bullied for years. We have an awesome relationship, ...
A. 23 March 2010: Definitely consider going to anger management together, as suggested. This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all, and you could be threatened with more serious abuse in the future as your relationship develops. It's common, as you might ... (read in full...)
Is the potential for a relationship here?
Q. Alright. This, I'm sure is probably a common (ish?) situation. I'm seventeen. I look older than I am, (around early twenties, so I've been told), so that might explain a little bit of this situation. At my job, there's a guy, he's married and about ...
A. 23 March 2010: Honestly, I'm the same age and I've thought about the same thing ! I'm in almost exactly the same situation. I, personally, will not act on it - a mixture of the guy being a brother of an old friend of mine, and just because I'm really not ready ... (read in full...)
Advice on irregular periods?
Q. i have a really important question to ask i'm 18 and i am sexually activate anyways, on the 10th of Demember my period came usual, it was due next on jan 9th but it didnt come till jan 28th (yea all tht time i was scared i was preggy), but it came ...
A. 23 March 2010: I have the same problem, at just a year younger than you. I've talked to my GP about it a long time ago and, if I recall correctly, he merely said it can be a mixture of things - hormones, stress and diet primarily. I think the most prominent being ... (read in full...)
What can I do to be able to be affectionate with the one I like.
Q. Since the age of 9 until the age of 14 one of my neighbors would force me to kiss him and he would rub my legs. He does not do it any more but now I cannot allow guys to touch me or I become anxious. It bothers me because I would like to be ...
A. 22 March 2010: I have no experience with this situation myself, but I have had issues with being uncomfortable and insecure with guys even when I want to be with them physically.
I know it might be hard, but you could consider, after making sure you're with the ... (read in full...)
I want to shower my girlfriend with gifts, but is it too much if we are on the rocks?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are sort of on the rocks- it nearly ended last week but i've booked a surprise holiday to Vienna for our first year anniversary tomorrow and although she doesn't know where we're going she's agreed to come and we'll hopefully ...
A. 3 November 2009: It's the little things you probably have to focus on, not the big things such as holidays and jewels! Thing such as noticing her more, talking intently about her day, just looking at her and appreciating her presence with you and in your life; all ... (read in full...)
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