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writes:Hi. I just wanna know, how can you be completely sure that somebody loves you? Because I love my girlfriend with all of my heart, and I am sure she does too. I just want to be completely sure. Is her kissing me back enough to know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Hi. It takes time to really find out if someone loves you or not. If they are always there for you when you need them. They never lie to you and you know you can trust them 100% because they never let you down. They are kind and thoughtful towards you and never say hurtful things to you. If they think about you alot and want to be with you when ever they can. All those things prove they love you. All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay, to danny, yeah, a lot of those things are basically the same. And yeah i get paranoid that i might lose her a lot, but i never ask her like u still love me? or anythin like that. And to say to purplewasabi, mmhmm. i say that i love her and she says it back every time haha. and i don't really think it's ever too early to think about true love, with the execption of when you're still in the "cootie" stage haha. and i might be 15 but i think it's never too early.
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reader, purplewasabi  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Unfortunately you never can. You just have to rely on the trust in your love for your girlfriend to reassure you of her own feelings for you.
Really, her kissing you back isn't 'proof' that she loves you because there is no proof. Love isn't something you can demonstrate and even with words it's difficult to make clear. Remember that she might be as worried as you are that she you don't love her - so make sure you remind her whenever you can !(:
Also, at such a young age I would just say you shouldn't worry about true love, you should just have fun with whatever you're lucky enough to have!
Best of luck and happy loving.
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reader, Danny4361 +, writes (23 March 2010):
Hi. I just wanna know, how can you be completely sure that somebody loves you? Because I love my girlfriend with all of my heart, and I am sure she does too. I just want to be completely sure. Is her kissing me back enough to know?
Her kissing you back will never be enough to know
the questions you want to be asking youself are, when you say i love you (if you do) does she say it back? after you finish kissing does she smile? can she go a day without talking to you? if you don't text her by a certen time will she text you making sure your ok? if there all yes then she does love you (except about the going a day without talking) :)
but if your unsure ask her but DO NOT ask her after every argument or every time you get paranoid if she speaks to another boy, you will lose her just like i lost mine so be carefull
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