Bullied. Told I'm ugly. Told I'm worthless. I know I am none of that, but getting over it isn't easy
Q. Ok here it is. I am 17 and 18 in november. My problem is i was bullied from ages 8 - 15. I was told i was ugly, i was worthless and that no one wanted me. I used to think this girl was my friend but now resent her. i havent seen her in almost 3 ...
A. 22 July 2008: thank you all so much for your comments. i think just like everyone i have bad days and it ust pops into my head or something reminds me but i feel more confident in myself :D do thank you all... (read in full...)
My friend keeps pushing me over the edge and I don't know if she's worth having as a friend!
Q. I hate to be a backstabber and talk about my so called friend,but I need to.We've been friends since the 2nd grade, not the best of friends. We usually have arguments all the time. She makes fun of the way I talk. She says I talk and act like a ...
A. 17 June 2008: there are no harsh words to this story. Get rid of her(is that harsh?:S) anyway this is a form of bullying and you obviously have other people who like you enough not to make fun of you. A real friend would never go out of her way to hurt you and it ... (read in full...)
Is it cheating? If so, how do I deal with something like this?
Q. I recently did something so stupid, I literally threw-up an hour after it happened. I never, in my wildest dreams, thought I would be the one to do something like this; I think it's down-right wrong and makes someone look and feel insecure about ...
A. 17 June 2008: I dont mean to be but i'm sure this is going to sound harsh. I'm sorry to say but yes i would class that as cheating because its a form of sexual contact and you allowed it to happen so yes i believe it was cheating. But i think you have to tell ... (read in full...)
I'm confused as to what 'oral sex' means!
Q. When people talk about oral sex, what is it really. is it unprotected sex or what? im confused please help!...
A. 17 June 2008: Oral sex is not actual intercourse but say women giving men blowjobs or handjobs or guys "fingering" women. So no its not unprotected sex its sexual contact instead of sexual intercourse... (read in full...)
Am I...genuinely a good guy?
Q. This is gonna be a very long post, so I seek your patience and understanding. Let me provide some background information first. I am 24 this year, moving into the last year of university in a tough course and doing reasonably well. I am the o...
A. 17 June 2008: I honestly see nothing wrong with you at all. There are no bad points they are just you and people will have to accpet that as who you are. Everyone can take time to meet new people and it takes longer to feel relaxed in their company. Whereas me ... (read in full...)
Bullying problem! I need help!
Q. hello, i'm a 14 year old female living in england. I know this page is for love and sex questions but i have a really important one...about bulling. Its a long story but please read. Last friday me and my friend "AM" skived school. Even tho...
A. 16 June 2008: Well to start off i'd like to say well done for talking about it. But lets get to the main point. I think you should tell a teacher or your parents what is going on because then they can decide what is best for your safety. I wass bullied when i was ... (read in full...)
My friend appears very self centered, causing most arguments in our group. What should I do?
Q. Okay so my bestest bud always feels bad for herself, even though she just gets really moody. We are both 15. I have a friend group of four girls at my school and shes constantly bitching to each of us about how she hates her life, and i know that ...
A. 15 June 2008: Ok i was in this exact same situation where she made out her life was bad when the 4 of us were a lot worse off than she was. She was pretty, confident and got lots of guys but in the end she caused a lot of arguments over petty little things and ... (read in full...)
What do girls find attractive in a guy?
Q. what do girls/women find attractive in a guy? I'm going out all day with mates including lots of girls so its my time to shine. Any ideas what girls like? I know being funny is one. Thanks...
A. 15 June 2008: Me personally i find any guy with a sense of humour attractiive. He could be quite confident but shy at times and nice looking but if he has a wicked sense of humour and a good personality and a softie at heart then girls will be falling at your ... (read in full...)
We're not even engaged yet. Am I wasting my time?
Q. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we practically live together. We have done since more or less day one of our relationship. Before we got into a relationship, he was renting a house off his mum but she needed to rent i...
A. 15 June 2008: Wait you say you've only been together 10 months so why do you feel so determined to be engaged. I believe that to know you are with the person you are going to be with for the rest of your life you should wait at least a minimum of 2 years to think ... (read in full...)
What was she trying to tell me?
Q. I found out 6 months ago that a friend of mine that i have known for 3 years, that i have always liked, liked me back. But things have moved slow, due to various reasons. I thought things were just becoming clear, that we were ready to actually ...
A. 15 June 2008: I think, but dont take my word for it, that what she means is that you have been friends for a while and you were probably really close so if anything were to happen she knows how much you like her and it would break your heart and ruin your ... (read in full...)
In new relationship - should I tell my mum?
Q. Hi.I go to a school with both boys and girls but with same sex classes. i have some friends who are boys in my tutor and recently the one i fancied asked me out and i said yes but now i have a bf i cant stop worrying. my parents are overprotective ...
A. 15 June 2008: ok look i honestly think that your mum is just looking out for you as she still sees you as her little girl but remind her that she was once in love and got crushes at school. She can be protective but she cant stop you from seeing him as its your ... (read in full...)
I like my teacher, he found out and now he's constantly watching me!
Q. Well theres this teacher in my school who a I Started to like nearly a year ago and well when a told one of my friends she told him at first I thought it was the worst thing ever but now am glad she did tell him cause ever since then hes been lookin ...
A. 15 June 2008: I suppose a teacher can like a pupil but its against the law to do anything about it and he really shouldnt be acting upon the situation as he is treading in very bad waters. I think that you should maybe steer clear and i know how you feel as i ... (read in full...)
My periods started about a month ago. Should I tell my mother?
Q. about a month ago or something like that i started my peroids and i was a little confused as the colours changed and i wasnt sure wether it was my period or not, but i later found out that it was - i never told my mum because i just couldnt bring ...
A. 15 June 2008: Well i'll tell you i started my periods when i was 12 but i was on holiday in paris with the school. lucky enough my mum packed liners for me. As soon as i got home i told her and she was really helpful and gave me tons of advice. I know feel i can ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and never been kissed or had a bf! Any advice?
Q. Hi, im 20 years old and have never had a boyfriend nor been kissed...I keep telling myself its God's will or that the time will come. Yet I really dont understand. I dont think its my looks since people keep telling me im good looking (and i mean ...
A. 15 June 2008: Ok so i know i'm younger well 17 and i'm 18 in november and like all of you i've never been kissed, not even close. I get attention from random strangers but no one in particular. I feel quite depressed about as i know i'm happy the way i am but i'd ... (read in full...)
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