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writes:Well theres this teacher in my school who a I Started to like nearly a year ago and well when a told one of my friends she told him at first I thought it was the worst thing ever but now am glad she did tell him cause ever since then hes been lookin at me and watchin me and asking about me but I just cannot believe that he feels the same a mean hes a teacher a mean is it possible that a teacher likes a student a just dont know what to do someone help me please !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): i believe that you should test him a bit like if you see him in a room with people, watch if he's looking at you, and count how many times you catch him doing this, and if you feel like you have started to "love" him then just play the "i find you interesting" card, if you try other tests and its confirmed he feels a little for you then still wait. but be careful because he can just use you for fun while playing with your mind or his thoughts could be more towards the criminal sort
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reader, Emi:3  +, writes (16 June 2008):
hes a lot older than you and think about this clearly. hes a teacher sweetie a teacher. that isnt really a healthy releationship to build.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): if he is interested then considering the age gap he is a pervert - do you really want to be involved with a pervert?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): However much I'd be tempted in your situation to go after 'it', I wouldn't encourage it in a right mind. It'll get you both into lots of trouble, particularly the teacher.He's far more mature, been through a lot more and probably wants more out of you.I'd suggest you leave it and try and get over him by using his obsessive behaviour as a negative. That way you can both live happily without the stress of anything else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): Ignore it he probably asks about you to make you embarrassed. I really really do not think that he'd seriously contemplate starting an extra-curricular relationship with you, and you shouldn't either.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (15 June 2008):
 May I ask who he has been asking about you with? I find that a little puzzling because a predatory teacher I imagine would not want a bunch of girls to know that he plans on committing a crime. And as someone who has taught in an all girls school I have never seen igossip being passed around a group of people quicker than in a school - if he asked some of your friends about you the whole school would know about it in 10 seconds flat. That would be stupid wouldnt it - you honestly think he would be comfortable with his fellow teachers knowing he is chasing after an underage girl? I can hear the clinking of the handcuffs in the distance.
So maybe you are exagerrating things a little. You have a crush on a teacher and nothing will come of it, if it does be prepared for a very upsetting period of your life. Your parents will want to prosecute him , he will go to jail and you will be humiliated.
Keep your little crushes to your friends and yourself you dont want the principal calling your parents into his/her office telling them you are going to have to be removed from the school. No school wants its male teachers to be scared off by silly young girls with crushes.
If on the small chance he is sizing you up, tell your parents immediately as he is a genuine predator who wants to take advantage of an underage girl and he needs to be put away - when you hopefully grow up you will understand this.
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (15 June 2008):
 This sort of thing happens all the time, best case senario, teacher relises their mistake, so do you and nothing comes of it. Worst case is that you become intimate, someone finds out, you have to change schools because of the humiliation and the teacher loses his job and won';t get any recomendations from the school.
It hard and difficault but you should ignore it, maybe, if you like, find someone your age, you can always know a teacher well, but you should avoid being alone with him for too long, because in awkard times people have a habit of blurting out secrets and telling him you fancy him WILL MAKE YOU FEEL THAT YOU SHOULD FANCY WHEN REALLY YOU DON'T ACTUALLY KNOW!
I like lots of my teachers and hate lots aswell, I have a very sexy art teacher but I know he has a girlfriend and I wouldn't let myself be interested even if he didn't. I joke about it with my friends, like my friend (the cow!) was listing all the boys I've ever liked to this random boy in my class, so I, not to be mean, listed out all the boys she hates., saying she fancies them and said "she also has the hots for Mr. S!" and it sounds so rediculas that I never really thought about him again in the same light.
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reader, Phoenix-Rose +, writes (15 June 2008):
I suppose a teacher can like a pupil but its against the law to do anything about it and he really shouldnt be acting upon the situation as he is treading in very bad waters. I think that you should maybe steer clear and i know how you feel as i fancied my teacher like mad but got over him and fancied someone my own age
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