My boyfriend puts his friends ahead of me and its making me feel unimportant
Q. My boyfriend is a relly nice guy and a good frend. He's 26 and I'm 23 and we been seeing each othr for 2y. He has lots of close frends who he sees alot, guys and girls. He's quiet a popular guy where as Im way more reservd with only a few close ...
A. 27 January 2016: He sounds like he likes to be active and interested in doing lots of things. His friends obviously are all into the same things of mutual interest. That's okay now you've come along. Join in the activities that you'll enjoy, put up with some things ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my boyfriend's gaming female friend
Q. My bf follows a lot of cosplayers/models on social media. A lot of the time, he usually has a picture of one set as his phone or computer background, which he changes pretty regularly. This never really bothered me until now. One of the things he...
A. 27 January 2016: He needs to take her picture off his phone. He's bringing her into the real world. He shouldn't be giving her money. Ask him to put your pic on the phone. If he doesn't, then you can put a pic of a hunk on your phone. I would seriously tho only ... (read in full...)
I'm trampolining with my crush! What should I wear that'll impress him, but is still comfortable?
Q. Hey everyone. So, on Saturday, I'm going out with this group of people, (including my crush). And we're going trampolining...And so basically, I just wanted some help on what I should wear. I mean, I know it's not a date, but I want to look good, ...
A. 27 January 2016: Or shorts and a nice top, you could always take a skirt to change into afterwards if you want to be more dressy... (read in full...)
Is he being insensitive or really think of not wanting to meet so he plays this *game*?
Q. So Ive been in a relationship with my BF for 7 months. He likes to call me by 30+ pet names and at one point started playing a game where I should say my real name is not my name or he will count strikes and skip meeting days we meet up on. He even ...
A. 27 January 2016: Who does he think he is? Mr.Grey I presume. How on earth do you put up with him. It's not what normal loving couples do. I won't tell you to dump him, you already know what you must do. Good luck , hope this helps... (read in full...)
Should I leave my depressed first love?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just under 2 years and I love him to the moon and back. He has severe depression and I feel it's rubbed off on me. I don't go out, I feel so bad about myself, I can't be bothered to get out of bed and I feel ...
A. 27 January 2016: Sounds like you are just fitting into a little box of his making. He's had the life, the kid and now the x is dictating to him. I wouldn't be suprised
if he's not still seeing her in some capacity for her to emotionally blackmail him with the kid.... (read in full...)
Why is it that every man I am with just wants to use me for sex?
Q. Hello, I am constantly being used for sex no matter how hard I try not to be. I thought I learned my lesson the first time, back in highschool when I had my first boyfriend. we did not have sex nor did we do anything below the waist, not even if ...
A. 27 January 2016: If you go out with men then yes they want sex, it's inevitable. You could try saying no, and you could try saying that you are having a break from boyfriends and relationships. The gueniune people will respect you and hang about as friends and not ... (read in full...)
Why has he no backbone?
Q. I have left my husband as he has a bad shame problem. His uncle bully's him non stop and shames him about me. He has been jealous of our relationship since we got together and try's to split us up as he wanted me to be his girlfriend but I did not ...
A. 27 January 2016: You've left him now. Move on with your life and try to get away from the uncle if he starts bothering you. If hubby wants you back make some conditions and see if you can both move away from the bad influences that have been destroying you. Good ... (read in full...)
I only get to see my boyfriend on the weekends and this is supposed to go on for 6 months. I don't think I can handle it
Q. My boyfriend has recently started his job working down in London, which means he's working away all week and I only get to see him on weekends. I'm finding it really difficult. At first I thought it would make the time we have together more special ...
A. 27 January 2016: If you think this is the guy for you then you should hold on. Six months won't be so bad if you use the time on your own wisely. Get some friends or family round for a get together. Spruce the house up a bit to make it more your home as well, ... (read in full...)
I feel like I give and get nothing back ....
Q. In a new relationship, she hasn't, introduce, me to her grown up son, who lives in the same town, or her two girlfriends,going on six months, am, I a secret, don't get to see each other alot, it almost sounds, like her an one of her girlfriend, is ...
A. 27 January 2016: It could be that she wants to make sure you are a keeper before she introduces you to her son and other friends. It's early days. Concentrate on getting to know her and if it's meant to be and gueniune then everything will take shape naturally. She ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend lie all the time?
Q. Hi, used to ask for help around here 5 or so years ago, and back again to ask for more help! I have 2 questions really, 1st one- Why does my boyfriend lie? He doesn't go out and then lie about where he's been as if he's been out with a girl and...
A. 27 January 2016: Some people lie, they can't help themselves. He may not ever stop. How can you truly get to know someone when they are not themselves with you. It's like he's a different persona. I wouldn't have a baby with him. How can a child grow up to be honest ... (read in full...)
He's kissed me. Separately he's been cold too. What do his actions indicate?
Q. There is this guy on my college course and I really like him. We are quite close to each other and he knows I like someone in our class. The problem is he's kissed me a few times and flirts with me and then he can be really cold to me. I don't know ...
A. 27 January 2016: He's kissing you then going cold. Stop kissing him, find out if he has feelings for you, otherwise it may lead to more serious things like sex then going cold on you. Be careful. Try not to kiss him anymore unless you know what his true intentions ... (read in full...)
The relationship is rocky and I don't quite know what to do
Q. I don't even know where to start... I don't know what to do anymore. Basically me and my partner of a year and a half now are on very rocky times, if you ask him he would probably tell you it's entirely my fault, but as usual only about 20% of his s...
A. 27 January 2016: You've not known each other that long really. This sounds like he is there until he finds someone else to take him on. Young love is supposed to be exciting. You are both too young to be miserable. Give it to him straight, have that heart to heart, ... (read in full...)
Am I just a "hopeful idiot?"
Q. I am a 54 Year Old Man in good shape and I believe I am considered attractive. I had the good fortune to meet an amazing woman 2 and a half years ago through work. She is a waitress and she is 32 years old. I have made a point to keep in contact ...
A. 27 January 2016: Well she definately likes you by the sound of it. You will gain more respect if you let her know you will make contact with her again when your divorce is finalised and see how the land lies then. Good luck. Hope this helps... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself from mentally dating him and getting worked up about it?
Q. Since starting her new job, my friend has been telling me that I’m well suited to one of her colleagues. Although I've never met him, she's also told me that he fancies me - based on what she’s told him about me and photos he’s seen. All this has ...
A. 27 January 2016: It's obvious that she has used you as a chat up line for herself to get to know him. It's her that fancies him really. Sounds like you are the scapegoat to me. Let them get on with it and try to look in other directions for yourself. Let her know ... (read in full...)
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