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writes:In a new relationship, she hasn't, introduce, me to her grown up son, who lives in the same town, or her two girlfriends,going on six months, am, I a secret, don't get to see each other alot, it almost sounds, like her an one of her girlfriend, is more then just girlfriends.I am about ready to walk away, I feel like I give, an nothing back, am I her little boy toy Reply to this Question
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reader, Petina57  +, writes (27 January 2016):
 It could be that she wants to make sure you are a keeper before she introduces you to her son and other friends. It's early days. Concentrate on getting to know her and if it's meant to be and gueniune then everything will take shape naturally. She may have gone down this road before and doesn't want to upset the apple cart. Like she is being cautious. Good luck. Hope this helps
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (9 January 2016):
 Six months is a short time in the scheme of things, and there could be a wide variety of reasons for the things that appear to be concerning you, for example, she may prefer to take things slowly, her adult son might not be interested in meeting a man his mother goes out with sometimes and so on.
Your snide comment about the relationship between her and one of her girlfriends does you no justice, and simply makes you sound jealous.
There is also the possibility you and she want different things from this relationship, its possible you may want more of her attention and time to be focussed on you where she may want the freedom to have a relationship with a man as well as maintaining her friendships with her girlfriends.
I suggest its time for a good open conversation between the two of you, to make sure you both want the same things and where any concerns you both may have can be aired and dealt with between you.
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