feel like I'm drifting away from my friend - how do I reach out?
Q. Hi everyone, This is really getting me down. I am in college and am awkward, painfully quiet, and bad at interacting with people. Now I feel like I'm drifting away from one of my friends, and don't know how to change this. I met this friend ju...
A. 14 November 2012: guys are kinda dumb at times he has probably be wondering what he has done to upset you and the comment about you liking him in the past was his way of breaking the ice - dont lose what could be a good friendship over what happend - you will feel ... (read in full...)
I'm an intelligent woman losing her wits over a crush on my professor!
Q. Adult Woman Crush on Professor, This is extremely distracting to me. I have not been able to fully focus in class, I got my first B+ in a class that is an easy A+ (due to the fact I was more concerned how I looked prior to class than going over ...
A. 14 November 2012: I would say calm it right down ! Hard i know but the last thing you want to do is make yourself desperate/over keen etc. I think as your lecturer he has a code of conduct and will know not to make a move on you it certainly wouldnt look good to ... (read in full...)
How old were you the first time you had sex? How was it?
Q. Hello I'm curious to know in what age you had first time sex(intercourse), and how was it?...
A. 14 November 2012: I was 17 and did it because i wanted to find out what it was like, and i remember thinking 'is this what all the fuss is about'
It wasn't with anyone special, he was one of those guys who used to say 'if you were my girlfriend you'd have sex with... (read in full...)
Ladies, What do you think of my poem?
Q. I'm really interested in getting your opinion(s) on this poem. It's for a lady who I am really close to , but we are not officially a couple. I already wrote her a love letter and she keeps bringing up the fact that she reads it again and again. I'm ...
A. 30 May 2012: yes it is beautiful but letter and poem aside what is stopping you two from going on an actual date ?? is she shy - does she have committments?? what you are doing s so romantic but you have to be happy too - can you not ring or write to her and ask ... (read in full...)
My friend preferred to hang out with her sister and cancelled on me and now I feel left out
Q. Well first of all I should let you know I have depression issues, social anxiety and am soo paranoid and self conscious. I have this close friend who is funny enough, exactly like me in these areas, but the thing is she has a family of a mum, dad ...
A. 19 February 2012: well i had depression and anxiety and i always worried about whether people liked me or if they liked someone else better than me - i'm in my 30's now and couldnt give a hoot so it will pass eventually, firstly brothers are rubbish but you'll become ... (read in full...)
I cant believe my B/f has been talking to this girl behind my back, even though he promised he would have nothing to do with her
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and at the start of our relationship, he was receiving texts from a girl he used to fancy before we got together (the same girl that actually delayed us getting together). Igot upset when I found ...
A. 19 February 2012: you are bound to be upset you feel he has decieved you.. the good thing is they were innocent messages, he obviously values her freindship but i would wonder where those innocent messages would lead... she obviosuly likes him - i honestly think it ... (read in full...)
Three is a crowd!!
Q. Hey everyone I have a very complicated problem. There is this girl that I have relly liked for a long time and I'm kinda sure she likes me too. The only reason I haven't asked her out yet is each time im about to I freak out to much about her saying ...
A. 19 February 2012: it must be nice to have so many hot girls around ! there was obviously a connection with the making out girl and if you can talk to her easier and dot feel uncomfortable in her company then shes the way to go, i've been out with hot guys and because ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend unexpectedly broke up with me because "relationship ran its course"
Q. My exboyfriend (25 years old) of 2 years unexpectedly broke up with me (23 years old) recently over the phone and I am completely devastated. I met him when I moved across the country 2 years ago for graduate school and things were great. I wa...
A. 19 February 2012: he obviously couldnt handle the distance, perhaps it was a moment of madness and frustration for him, maybe hes thinking the same - can you ask to meet up for closure when you get back after all 2 years is a hell of a long time i think hes owes you ... (read in full...)
How can I get my crush's attention without going up to him?
Q. So im a quiet shy girl yet I'm friendly. I want to get my crush attention without going up to him. We text but I am always the one to start the conversation. I have church tomorrow and want him to want to talk to me in person. What can I do?...
A. 19 February 2012: how about discussing a film you want to watch and ask him to go to see it with you? Or if youre too shy to speak to him, text him and ask him, he cant see you go red or embarassed via a text??... (read in full...)
I don't want a baby right now, but it seems like my body is screaming at me to have one
Q. I'm 16. I'm in a stable relationship with a guy who I adore (don't care how immature this sounds- he makes me the happiest I've ever felt and treats me like a princess). Ever since meeting him, I've become so broody. Like, I can't stop looki...
A. 17 February 2012: finish school and be a midwife a fanatastic career with babies galore aim for that do more babysitting and that should satisfy your baby cravings ! You a very young and yes its nice to be 'loved up' but there is so much time for all that do not get ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is lazy in bed and doesn't start sex
Q. So there are plenty of other forums and questions just like this but none with exactly my issues... My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly 1 year. She is my fifth sexually, I am her 3rd-ish. My problem is that she is extremely lazy d...
A. 17 February 2012: she shouldnt just expect you to initiate and do all the work, its asthough she is enjoying the control - is she naturally bosy or do you take charge outside the bedroom.. it seems you are so young to be stuck in a sexual rut, why not invest in porn ... (read in full...)
Do I meet him and let him help me financially to be with him?
Q. I have no idea how to start, i really have a big dilemma. I recently took a break from college due to some family problems. In this time i have had a lot of spare time on my hands so of course i overkilled the internet. It is at that time that i...
A. 17 February 2012: if you really are soulmates then he should know you inside and out so he should know your situation unless you have been hiding things from him ? If your family are concerned that you met on the internet there is no way they would let you go to a ... (read in full...)
We hung out together, nothing happened and now he's totally ignoring me
Q. There's this guy who is 3 years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a senior. I REALLY like him and he's known that I like him and we're like literally best friends. He called me beautiful and even asked me to chill alone with him. We were at my ...
A. 17 February 2012: life too short... show him how mature you are, go striaght up to him ask if he is okay and have you done something to upset him, i think he'll be tongue tied - you could say 'oh its just youve gone quiet and was actually enjoying hanging out with ... (read in full...)
We hung out together, nothing happened and now he's totally ignoring me
Q. There's this guy who is 3 years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a senior. I REALLY like him and he's known that I like him and we're like literally best friends. He called me beautiful and even asked me to chill alone with him. We were at my ...
A. 15 February 2012: ignore him back, there is no excuse for his behaviour.. i also think he thrives on the attention, maybe girls his own age think hes childish.. if it was me i would go up to him and ask is he okay and have you done something to upset him - see what ... (read in full...)
How do I end this conflict at school?
Q. Er.. hello there. well, my problem is this: this guy in my school is by known by everyone and has like 850 friends on fb. he also hangs around with the really cool girls in our year.i'm in love with him but hate that i love him so i be mean to him ...
A. 15 February 2012: it seems because you are cool with him and not faling al over him it makes you interesting, men always want what they cant get.. if you do like him play it cool, dont get into any silly games just be friendly with him and his friends act like there ... (read in full...)
I know he just sees me as a friend so how do I move on?
Q. Okay so I been having the biggest crush on this guy who might be so perfect for me. But the problem is I have done the chasing all this time always text him first, invite him out tried getting to know him. I see this going no where I see no sign of ...
A. 15 February 2012: i too am in the same situation its sooo frustrating i just want to shout 'i love you now come and kiss me you fool !'maybe you have to lay your feelings on the line - just once - then the cat is out of the bag and he can deal with it how he likes, ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my ex tomorrow and don't know what to say to her
Q. Hi, so my ex is my bestfriend and we broke up months ago, but nothing in our relationship changed, except intimacy. I still spent everyday with her, until recently when she moved in october but I was staying at her house week by week coming home ...
A. 15 February 2012: i think she has moved on, the fact that you spend every day together but nothing intimate happend says a lot to me... she loves your company maybe you were a safety net for her?? He is not purposely coming between you, she has chosen him as her ... (read in full...)
Did I do/tell him the right thing or did I scare him away?
Q. I was dating a guy I really liked, we both had the same family values, had similar upbringing, had a lot of things in common and always had so much fun when we were together. I haven't liked someone so much in such a long time. Only thing I did not ...
A. 14 February 2012: at 32 he should have the courage to talk to you on the telephone, i cant see how this could ever transform into a full bown 'real' relationship where you go for meals and the cinema etc..it seems he is out for what he can get he is calling the shots ... (read in full...)
He's still hiding behind work. Should I tell him I still care?
Q. iam middle aged 18months ago a friend said he love me and was going to do something about it his job stopped him at the time he didit want me to care at the time but i did so prtented not to so giv ehim time still not made a move hiding behind work ...
A. 14 February 2012: you only live once so yes or your will always wonder what if... does he work away a lot, is his job stressful?? he needs a break, you can be his fun outlet - invite him round cook him dinner, help him de-stress.. text him, write to him or ring ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't anyone ever like me?
Q. Okay so valentines this year has me thinking. I never had a boyfriend ever. The guys I always like never like me they always see me as their bestfriend. I am a smart girl, I'm chubby but I look good, I sing,have a nice personality,nice style I'm ...
A. 14 February 2012: believe me i would rather be someone who the lads want to have a laugh with than some boring hot girl with no personality, at school i was ugly no one wanted to know me everyone fancied my friends, so i got funny, got a personality no one cared what ... (read in full...)
Confusion between current and ex boy friend
Q. Hi all, Im in a very terrible situation.Let me come to the point.My ex hurt me so badly that i decided to break up with him and he also accepted it and we were not in contact for almost 6 months.In the mean time,one of my colleagues loved...
A. 14 February 2012: Hello,
I would wonder what your ex was doing for 6 months? Maybe it took him 6 months to realise what he had lost, i dont know i would always say never get back with an ex boyfriend but that is what i have just done
Ask yourself if your ex was n... (read in full...)
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