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writes:iam middle aged 18months ago a friend said he love me and was going to do something about it his job stopped him at the time he didit want me to care at the time but i did so prtented not to so giv ehim time still not made a move hiding behind work should i tell him i care/ Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 Hmmmmm.......do you know what it was about his job that stopped him from taking it further?
Do you work in the same place? Because if you do, when two coworkers get romantically involved and perhaps things don't work out well between them your jobs can suffer - and that means you will also.
Did he say he loved you in response to something you said to him? i.e., had you indicated you have feelings for this man?
If so, and if he still hasn't tried to become closer to you, the chances are that he's probably thought better of it.
I suppose you COULD say something to him, BUT, please, keep in mind that could be a very embarrassing, awkward conversation for both of you!
I'm sorry to have to put it like this......only, 18 months of you waiting and hoping, without anything further from him.....
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reader, OscarsMummyReturns +, writes (14 February 2012):
you only live once so yes or your will always wonder what if... does he work away a lot, is his job stressful?? he needs a break, you can be his fun outlet - invite him round cook him dinner, help him de-stress.. text him, write to him or ring him... tell him how you feel sooner rather than later - however if he still hides behind his job then you may have to let this one go, you shouldnt have to come second to a guys job xx
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