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I was in love with a terminal cancer patient and she passed away...

Q.   I need help with laying old ghosts to rest. I'm 17 years old, a senior in high school and for 4 months, I was engaged to 15 year old girl who had terminal Leukemia and CIPA (she couldn't feel any pain or sensation in her entire body 8 months ago, my ...

A.   22 December 2010: hold your head up you gave happyness to some one who had none. you are a real man. dont give up life will go on. and time will heal you... (read in full...)

How can I help my dad?

Q.   Dear readers, My mother and father divorced when I was 8 years old. He moved across Texas to be with family and ended up with this woman he had known for years before (I met her when I was 2). They got married shortly after my parents divorced...

A.   20 December 2010: you should stay out of it. times are hard on all of us. putting yourself in the middle of this will only add to the drama... (read in full...)

Our relationship is great thus far, but I haven't said those 3 words!

Q.   [Mod note: 2 questions from same poster combined. I'd love some advice, especially from any guys, about my not saying I love you to my boyfriend. We've been going out 4 months. I'd been single 1 year, after splitting up with a guy I'd lived with...

A.   20 December 2010: give it time, whn your ready then tell him you love him. and if your hurt dont have sex. ... (read in full...)

I pretty much ruined his relationship!

Q.   Okay first of all I don't want anyone judging or making rude comments on here. I just need some serious advice. Okay. So last night me and my friends got really drunk at this party. My ex was there.. Well.. I don't even know if I should call him an ...

A.   20 December 2010: from the outside it looks like you only want him cuz he is with a new female. let it go. ... (read in full...)

He doesn't like me yet we came close to having sex

Q.   I need some advice on how to get ovr this guy I really like. He says he doesn't like me, yet we have made out before and was very close to sex. I am tired of feeling hurt around him. I see him at school everday, but next semester he is moving. ...

A.   28 November 2010: stop seeing him. good luck, you are young and have a lot of life ahead of you.... (read in full...)

No trust, controlling or lying by ommission

Q.   I work away from home for long periods of time. Somebody recently told me that my wife cheated, she denies it, but it is plausable. I love my wife and she hasn't really lied to me, the other person has, but i still have doubts. For some reaso...

A.   28 November 2010: im sorry but this is crazy, you both are way over the line. dude be man and keep your hands to yourself. and if i was in your shoes i would nd it with her, there no point with out trust... (read in full...)

How can I be with her when she's carrying another man's child?

Q.   My ex and I were really close, together for 2 yrsa. Lived together...even have a beautiful baby together (1yr old). About 9 months ago we got into a huge fight and I never went back home....she said sorry (as usual) but this time I didn't want to go ...

A.   28 November 2010: one of the greats men i ever knew what my step dad. buck it up bro, that baby will be your kids brother or sister. there are times in life when you have to step up even when you dont want to.... (read in full...)

How do I open up to him?

Q.   I need advice. I'm 17-years-old. I've known this guy since I was in grade 7, and we kind of grew up together. We went out for awhile when I was younger, but we both had a lot of problems (family issues, etc). I love him, I would do anything for him, ...

A.   28 November 2010: simpley tell him!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

Boyfriend sneaking around talking to gay guys when I was pregnant. Is he gay?

Q.   So my relationship is very complicated! I dated this guy for a year and a half and we even had a baby together. The problem is, while I was pregnant and even before he lied a lot. Although he claims he didn't cheat on me I still found messages he ...

A.   28 November 2010: he could be gay and is just not ready to come out. if he has been with anther man and is not grossed out then he is most likey gay. sorry keep your eyes open.... (read in full...)

I'm scared my guy will leave me because of some perfect bimbo!

Q.   Why do I get so jealous over the stupidest things, although i know they prob wont amount to anything i still get nervous that my guy will leave me just like that because of some perfect bimbo. is this normal or am I just a freak? ...

A.   28 November 2010: i would say we all have feelings like that some times, the diff is if you act on them.... (read in full...)

How can I meet my online guy safely?

Q.   The guy im dating lives overseas and im dating him online, we talk for hours everyday and he finally wants me to come see him in england. Im 19 and hes 21 i Know this could potentially be dangerous but i also know that it might not be. so how do i ...

A.   28 November 2010: make him come to you. be safe... (read in full...)

She says she needs time to think. what do I do?

Q.   My girlfriend says she needs space/ time to think. What should I do. What does it mean? ...

A.   28 November 2010: it means give her a day or two. if she says the same thing end it. do be strung along. most of the time this means she wants out, but is not ready to tell you. stay strong bro... (read in full...)

Is this just him realizing he still loves his ex?

Q.   okay im here jus for advice. im 27 and my ex who broke up with me like 3 weeks ago is 28, he has a ex 31 yrs old whom he has 2 kids with and lives with her mom and has no job or education. but neways we just had a baby 7 weeks ago and living ...

A.   28 November 2010: its sad that you have a baby with such a loser. do you and that baby a big fav and go back too your family. dont give him the choise to come back to you. that would be no good for you and you baby. good luck ... (read in full...)

I want to stop being rude!!!!!!!!!!!!

Q.   ok, so here is the deal im gettin married in less than 30 days. lets call her miss bee, well miss bee and i have been together going on 10 years. i love her deeply, we have two sons and have been together since high school. ok so my ? i have been ...

A.   28 November 2010: denim, that was lots of help. janniepeg, i will start to practice my breathing i think that will help with the control. bettyboop this is a new thing with me. many people have told us how they wished to be as close as miss bee and i. odds she will ... (read in full...)

What can I do to stay occupied while he's in jail?

Q.   My man went into jail today for 30 days. I have no clue what to do to keep my mind occupied. We did just start dating but we hit it off really well and we are really into each other. I am trying to think of things to do so i wont regret doing ...

A.   23 November 2010: you dont need a man who is in jail... (read in full...)

I can decide what gift to get boyfriend for Christmas!

Q.   HELP ME!! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and i have no idea of what to get him for christmas. He loves to read but I dont want to get him a book because i dont know if he's already read it or even if he's heard of it. He ...

A.   23 November 2010: dont put to much stock into this gift make it short and sweet. like take him to a movie or a football game.... (read in full...)

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