I'm sleeping with my cousin!
Q. after a family party i found myself really drunk and alone with my older and
good looking cousin.
i have always had a crush on him and looked up to him. we get along great
considerring the age difference. we ended going back to his place and ...
A. 11 February 2006: This is incest and that is very sick, there's too much in-breeding in the world as it is, how do you sleep at night?... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter playing "doctors and nurses" with the kid next store... Advice please?
Q. Hi I am 26 years old and have a 7 year old daughter. The other day she had our neighbors son (who is 8) over, and they were playing all afternoon like they frequently do. Well I was doing laundry and as I walked by her room, I heard a moan. I ...
A. 11 February 2006: Make the kids play where you can see them and what they are doing, to be left alone in the bedroom to play is a bad idea and should not have been allowed in the first place. These kids are bored, make sure there is suitable entertainment availabl... (read in full...)
Do I go back to the woman who stabbed me in the chest? I've fallen for her again!
Q. Hi, I meet a girl four years ago and we was going out for the 1st two years and was really happy. I moved in with her and her 10 year old daughter, and my two kids stayed at the weekend.Two years ago on Boxing day we had a party and both got drun...
A. 11 February 2006: This takes the cake! What on earth are you thinking? You must have lost your mind to think of taking this lunatic woman back! And lay -off having drinks with her, she can't handle herself around alcohol. Run like hell and don't lok back, she's a... (read in full...)
Do good girls really finish last???
Q. I asked about whether my partner cared when he went out and didn't come home till 3am in the morning, drunk. I had gone home because of not feeling well and hoped he would be at least a little concerned and come home a little earlier. This didn't ...
A. 11 February 2006: The answer is, yes they do! Putting yourself first is taking care of yourself for your own highest good and not being selfish at all. It shows that you value yourself and you should be with someone who values you just as much, no less!... (read in full...)
How do you know when you have met the right person ?
Q. How do you know when you have met the right person ?...
A. 11 February 2006: The right person is the one you feel good about right there deep inside your gut, the one you can call your best friend in all respects.... (read in full...)
She's my flatmate and I'm falling for her-but she has a bf! What should I do?
Q. My flatmate and I have been living together for almost 3 years and spend a lot of time in each others company, but recently I have started developing feelings for her. Problem is (yep you guessed it!) she has a boyfriend. She has been dating this ...
A. 11 February 2006: A crutch, maybe. A substitute, could be. An in-betweener, filler-upper, most probably!... (read in full...)
I get irritated when he wants to hug me...am I changing my mind about the relationship?
Q. I just got attached for about 4 months and I am starting to feel that I want to have some time to myself. And I sometimes feel irritated if he comes to my room and just want to hug me. I'm not sure if I am starting to change my mind about the ...
A. 11 February 2006: Girl,you need S P A C E ! Tell him! Nicely.... (read in full...)
Is it true that without communciation, a relationship won't work?
Q. I'm currently in a long distance relationship and my boyfiend and I have different oppinions about how much communication is needed in this kind of relationship. So I want to know, am i right in saying that communication is the most important factor ...
A. 11 February 2006: For this to work, COMMUNICATION IS KEY! I mean, without it, you are basically stuffed.... (read in full...)
We are both committed to others...yet there is this attraction
Q. I'm 35 and married for 8 years and have been working in a local factory for a little over a year. I have been working with the same lady (age 42)and we have become very close friends. She is in a 6+ year relationship. Over the past year our ...
A. 11 February 2006: There is nothing to be confused about! YOU ARE A MARRIED MAN! You have no business talikng intimately with this woman, much less, kissing her. Consider what your wife would do if she found out, shame on you!... (read in full...)
He lied to me about the 'name" of the sender on his phone..should I worry about this?
Q. Me and my boy friend have been together for 2 years with a 3 month split in the middle because he is joining the army. Whilst waiting to go in the army he has got a job at a sport shop. Previously i found out that a girl called "julie" fancied him. ...
A. 11 February 2006: You are too kind for this guy. And he lied to you. There is actually no excuse for lying! Another thing, that girl has no business asking for his number! What are her intentions with your boyfriend, is what you must ask. Sort her out!... (read in full...)
We broke up after 5 years! Is it possible to get over someone you really love?
Q. Is it possible to get over someone you really love? My ex broke up with me after 5 years together, saying that because I was his first ever girlfriend, even though he loved me and our relationship was great, the timing was wrong and he needed to be ...
A. 11 February 2006: This guy has used you for 5 years and is now wanting to sow his wild oats, he is a big chancer my girl, don't hang around and hope you will get back together, I mean, why would you even want him back, after he has been screwing around elsewhere?... (read in full...)
Does he care?
Q. Can you tell me if this is the way a caring partner should be. I had been looking forward to going out all week but last night it went wrong. We went to pick up a friend and I felt unwell so we had to get the taxi to take me home. My boyfrien...
A. 11 February 2006: No you are not being unreasonable at all & your boyfriend is being a real jerk!
As for the threats, NEVER put up with crap of this nature!... (read in full...)
How do you know when it's officially "over"?
Q. How do you know when it is officially over ? When you have been through so many ups and downs with a person and you've given it everything because you knew it was worth it. When you've experienced and felt so many excellent feelings with this person ...
A. 11 February 2006: Your boyfriends problem is jealousy, he wants all to himself and is being selfish! At 17 you should not be in such a difficult and deep relationship, anyway.You have many milestones to conquer and what you are wanting now, will not be what you will... (read in full...)
I am torn between my fiancée and my ex-boyfriend
Q.
I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months, 10 of
which we have lived together, and we are getting married next year. He
treats me really well and I know I can trust him 100%.
Recently I saw my ex who I was with for ...
A. 11 February 2006: What are you thinking? You have a damn - near perfect guy in your life who was good enough to accept a marriage proposal from,now he is suddenly not good enough. You must stop thinking with your ovaries and start thinking with your brain, girl!... (read in full...)
I have run out of things to say to my boyfriend
Q.
I have been seeing my current partner for about 18 months now and i am finding making conversation very hard. I think it is putting strain on our relationship!!
Also i am a very jelous person, how do over come this??
...
A. 11 February 2006: If being together is such hard work, there's something wrong!
If you were compatible, you wouldn't be having this problem!... (read in full...)
I am 50 years old and I have a crush on someone who is 21..is this normal?
Q. i have a crush on 21yr old, i'm 50 and married is this normal? ...
A. 11 February 2006: Are you crazy or what?
Do you really think this kid will be sticking around in 10 years when all has "gone south" ?
I mean, you could be his mother , for crying out loud!... (read in full...)
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