Where should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?
Q. Hello Cupid I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. This is the first serious relationship for both of us. Sadly the feelings aren't the same for me and so I've decided to end the relationship. I live far away from anywhere so breakin...
A. 26 September 2012: Thankyou all alot for answering. And I finally got the answer to a question I haven't even asked myself yet - why am I still with him? The answer is - out of pity. I know him and that he will be very upset, but if I can't imagine the rest of my life ... (read in full...)
Where should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?
Q. Hello Cupid I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. This is the first serious relationship for both of us. Sadly the feelings aren't the same for me and so I've decided to end the relationship. I live far away from anywhere so breakin...
A. 22 September 2012: The problem of breaking up at either of our places is we live nearly 5 hours of driving apart. So not very nice to send him off for that in lonelyness. Maybe I could write a letter first for myself and put things down how I want them to be said in ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about the age difference!
Q. My long distance boyfriend is 18, and im 15. Im still nervous about meeting him and how he will react when seeing me, but not as much now. My mom sorta aproved so far. And i have not told my dad because he dont like me even thinking about boys :/ ...
A. 2 September 2012: Has your dad specifically told you that he doesn't want to know anything about you and boys? If not then maybe its not that bad. I thought my mum thought the same when I was 15 but it turned out that she was completely cool about it. Ofcourse my ... (read in full...)
He hasn't contacted me but has 'liked' some of my pics!
Q. Hi All, Two weeks ago I went out clubbing with my girlfriends. This guy immediately caught my eye, he was exactly my kind of guy looks like russell brand (I have a thing for guys with long hair)anyway he comes up to me, starts chatting, totally...
A. 2 September 2012: Not to be so pessimistic. Ofcourse there's a possibility he's just a pig and needs the attention. I wouldn't advise you to start writing him every day or running up to him if you see him on the street. Let him like your pictures and maybe like a few ... (read in full...)
How can I keep both my best friend and boyfriend?
Q. My ex and I were together, on and off, for about a year. During this time we were basically inseparable. However. both of us had some major health issues and he had depression issues and it eventually we broke up. Neither of us was happy about it ...
A. 19 June 2010: I've had tonnes of problems that are something like that and I've learned that a TRUE friend would definetly not tell you that if you're with him, I'm not your friend anymore. For hells sake its like kindergarden!! "If you dont give me that shovel I ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble sleeping, among other things..
Q. Heys. I been having a few problems down there. The skin between the bigger lips is rather sensitive and it itches sometimes, even inside the vagina. I scratch it when im asleep and when i do i cant stop either. Now I have my period but before t...
A. 19 June 2010: Also the thing is I've never had sex with anyone other then my boyfriend and my boyfriend also has only had sex with me so I have absolutely no idea where I could get an STI from???... (read in full...)
Bleeding during pregnancy
Q. Heys. I read that during pregnancy you can have bleeding that is similar to menstruation bleeding. But are there also pains in that case and if there are, are they the same kind of pains or do they feel diferent? Basically is there anything that ...
A. 14 April 2010: Right... I am not pregnant. Atleast I hope im not. But since you can obviolsy bleed during pregnancy then obviosly i cant be sure if its menstruation or just bleeding during pregnancy. So theres no way to be sure without a pregnancy test. I know ... (read in full...)
He does not even speak to me when we cross paths, ... so how should I tell him he got me pregnant?
Q. A few weeks ago my friend introduced me to the guy she's dating bestfriend. The 4 of us ended up chillen together. Drinking, playing games, just enjoying ourselves. At the end of the night me and the friend ended up sleeping together, ...
A. 14 April 2010: I read the answers here, there are good reasons why you shouldn't tell him, but i recommend you do tell him. Not because he will want to know hes a dad but because if you keep the child, he/she WILL want to know who the dad is so dont hide it if ... (read in full...)
I always dream of being with my teacher
Q. i have fallen in love with a teacher at school , he's french and he will not probably be here the next year because he is not from egypy, he has got to go back to his country,right?(i live in egypt)he teaches the big girls ( 15-18) maybe, he ...
A. 14 April 2010: Trust me, it is crush, or maybe lust but definetly not love. And you do not want a long distance relationship and also a 26 year-old man and a 13-15 year-old girl is illegal pretty much everywhere isn't it? I used to like my guitar teacher who ... (read in full...)
Still in love with my baby's father!
Q. I have a really "BIG" problem. Ok I'm 18...I started dating this guy in august 07'...we broke up in feb 08'...we were so in love....I never knew I could love someone that much. I broke up with him in feb 08'...for what reason? I wish I knew...i ...
A. 14 April 2010: Ok.. that headline was wrong... Erm.. don't go into forced marriage or something cos that tends to turn out bad and a big waste of time and money. Just try and get along, if you can't love your babys father then be friends with him or have a g... (read in full...)
Will she ever trust me and stop punishing me for the actions of her old boyfriends?
Q. Dear Cupid, I’m having problems with my girlfriend. Let me start by saying that I love her very much and can’t imagine living my life without her. However, she has a lack of trust in me that I find very upsetting and hard to tolerate. In ...
A. 14 April 2010: Hi. Your girlfriend seems to be too jealos. Having arguments about women who aren't her, seems like she wants to be the only women you ever see or talk to in the world in your whole life. However she has to understand that that is impossible because ... (read in full...)
Period during pregnancy?
Q. Heys.. I heard from my realative that her friend only found out that she was pregnant on the sixth month cos shed been having periods. Then again your not suposed to have periods while pregnant. Is this possible and why would it happen?...
A. 5 April 2010: Ok :)
But do the pains come aswell or are they different or are the pains the same aswell?... (read in full...)
I left my boyfriend of 9 years because he is not affectionate, although we had a great sex life. Help!
Q. I been with my boyfriend ( yeah not even married ) for almost 9 yrs and we have 3 kids together... Weve been thru so much and I still love him alot. but he is so different now, he changed completly after HE was unfaithfull..... hes never ...
A. 18 February 2010: I don't know. I'm not a very good expert on long relationships with kids involved but I'd probably speak on behalf of the kids.
I grew up in a basically broken marriage and my parents got devorced when I was 7. I don't like the fact that my pare... (read in full...)
Hair removal creams...
Q. My wife has seen ads about hair removal creams and wants to know if any are safe to use on her vagina. I have heard some bad reports about it. Your opinions would be greatly appreciated. ...
A. 11 February 2010: Ive tried hair removal creams around there and to be honest I prefer that to shaving. I haven't had any complaints or reactions. Only she shouldn't get it on the inside of the lips where the thinner and more sensitive skin is. And she should ... (read in full...)
I am letting my jealousy ruin our marriage
Q. Im a jelous person and i dont want it to ruin my marriage. Well i get upset and jelous if my husband give attention or talks alot to other women! I do not know why i do it... Please can someone give me advise what could i do to make it better. ...
A. 10 February 2010: I haven't been married ofcourse but I've had boyfriends and I've seen jealosy in my friends. Jealousy isn't bad, it's natural. The problem starts when theres too much of it. You can be a little jealous but most of the time you should try not to s... (read in full...)
Preventing pregnancy
Q. Am I right that it's possible to get pregnant without penetration? What should I look out for to prevent these little accidents? What time about during the menstuation cycle is it least likely to get pregnant?...
A. 8 February 2010: I know that. But how good are sperms at going towards the goal?... (read in full...)
She says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour!
Q. I have been dating my girl for 10 months and she still refuses to give me a blow job, I mean she says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour. ...
A. 8 February 2010: If my bf told me that he won't give me oral if I wont return the favour, I'd be seriosly mad at him. So definetly do NOT say that.
So very possibly she's too scared ro embarrased to do it or she just isn't one of those who would do such a thin... (read in full...)
I hate it here and home and my boyfriends offered me space at his place!
Q. I've live in Spain for 8 years and last year I moved back to Estonia and went to school. I live with my dad and every other week my brother's here too. At school I met my now boyfriend and we've been a couple for 2 months. We seem a perfectly good ...
A. 16 January 2010: Oh yeh another thing I forgot to mention.. In Spain I lived with my mum and in Estonia I just moved into my dads..... (read in full...)
I hate it here and home and my boyfriends offered me space at his place!
Q. I've live in Spain for 8 years and last year I moved back to Estonia and went to school. I live with my dad and every other week my brother's here too. At school I met my now boyfriend and we've been a couple for 2 months. We seem a perfectly good ...
A. 15 January 2010: No my boyfriends really nice, though he might not seem like it at first, but to me he's very sweet and I just can't stop but wonder how did I manage to basically just stumble on a person like him.
Though I don't live in Spain, I live in Estonia ... (read in full...)
Should I wait longer for him, or should I move on?
Q. I am at college at the moment, and met this guy on my course in the first few weeks, we seemed to hit it off, flirted and texted a lot. He told me he likes me a lot and I told him the same. Recently we have been seeing each other outside of class, ...
A. 14 January 2010: When ever I fell into that kind of situations, I just flirted with lots of boys until one of them anwered with same feelings and then told the others that sorry you were too late. Not once regretted my choices :) Maybe he'll respond to some ... (read in full...)
Which position is the best for the man's lasting longer but isn't boring?
Q. What sex position is the most longlasting for guys but isn't boring for neither of the sides? Doesn't have to be intimate just good :)...
A. 7 December 2009: I mean how do I get the guy to last longer? Any position that will help in that or is it all in his mind and that?... (read in full...)
If you're not dating a guy, how far is too far?
Q. If you and a guy start talking and yournot going out yet, how far is tooo far? Are you aloud to make out with him or go farther? Or should you wait until your going out. Should you hold of to give a blowjob or have sex? HELP!...
A. 7 December 2009: Agree with CaringGuy. If you want commitment then a kiss is allright but don't go further. But if your looking for fun and exitment then you can do whatever you feel like.... (read in full...)
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