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*itru
writes:I've live in Spain for 8 years and last year I moved back to Estonia and went to school. I live with my dad and every other week my brother's here too. At school I met my now boyfriend and we've been a couple for 2 months. We seem a perfectly good couple compared to my friends or my previous relationships. Also last year I met my dad's new girlfrien (my dad's had 2 wifes and both devorced, this is the third) and her daughter who I pretty much hate. Firstly because she's russian though I'd be able to look past that, but she doesn't speak any other language apart from russian and she lives here! Also she's 10 years old and almosta teenager and winges and wines at everything. Even my mum doesn't like her. About a month into the relationship with my bf, them two russians moved into our 2 bedroomed flat without any notice or asking anything from me. And on 30th december I found out from my mum that my dad's gf is pregnant. I should be happy I supose cos I'd get another sister or brother but I'm just not able to feel anything for it. I feel rather strangled in this little apartment with 4-5 soon to be 5-6 people living here. My boyfriend lives in his own house. The house is his and his mum's gonna move out in some time. I am allways welcome there and already i spend more time there than at home. And I've already been asked to move there. But I can't just leave this place yet can I? I know I haven't been very long with my boyfriend but seriosly. I hate being home. Should I have to suffer here for long?
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reader, Nitru +, writes (16 January 2010):
Nitru is verified as being by the original poster of the question Oh yeh another thing I forgot to mention.. In Spain I lived with my mum and in Estonia I just moved into my dads..
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (16 January 2010):
 live with your boyfriend. Give it a shot. If you like him and he likes you, try it out.
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reader, Nitru +, writes (15 January 2010):
Nitru is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo my boyfriends really nice, though he might not seem like it at first, but to me he's very sweet and I just can't stop but wonder how did I manage to basically just stumble on a person like him.
Though I don't live in Spain, I live in Estonia and my bf lives about 7 km from my dads house.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (15 January 2010):
I would say stay with your boyfriend. Don't do it to be more committed. Do it because you don't want to leave spain.
I think you should stay with your boyfriend (IF HE IS NOT ABUSIVE).
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