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writes:I have a really "BIG" problem. Ok I'm 18...I started dating this guy in august 07'...we broke up in feb 08'...we were so in love....I never knew I could love someone that much. I broke up with him in feb 08'...for what reason? I wish I knew...i guess i just wanted to see what else was out there...well within a month he had another girlfriend and I had another boyfriend...well we still loved eachother...at school it would "KILL" me when I passed him in the hallways. It crushed me so bad. I could just see it on his face that he wanted so badly to just be able to come up and talk to me. We wanted to be with eachother again so bad. Well about a month and 1/2 later I found out I was pregnant. It was my new boyfriends baby....I was so hurt..I just knew there was no chance in hell that me and my ex would ever get back together. It hurt me so bad I just wanted to die. Well that next month...my exs new girlfriend found out she was pregnant. It hurt me so bad...I never wanted to end my life so bad. We were perfect for eachother....everyone knew us as the cute couple that has been together so long. Rumors flew fast at school when we broke up. Anyways, I just had my baby boy March 27, 2010.....he had his baby girl April 3, 2010. Both babies were born on saturdays...exactly a week apart. It really hurts. I love my baby boy to death. I just don't have any feelings for his daddy. I can't bring myself to fall in love agian, because I'm still in love with my ex. This is so much for me right now. I need help...I need answers..I wish I could just move on, but I've tried so very hard.
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reader, Nitru  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 Ok.. that headline was wrong...Erm.. don't go into forced marriage or something cos that tends to turn out bad and a big waste of time and money. Just try and get along, if you can't love your babys father then be friends with him or have a good relationship. If I was in your shues my first priority would be the baby and his quality of life and his future. I would hate him to be in a family where parents keep fighting and i wouldn't like it if his parents didn't get along. And I would never ever lie to him about his dad or not let him see him or anything like that. I supose you just got to wait and see what time brings..
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