He is complicated...drinks a lot and ignores me for days! What can I do?
Q. Since the beggining he messed up. Stood me up, would make plans and ended up getting drunk, getting drunk all time,even once when we argued and i left,he spent the night with hes ex (but this happened in the first week we met, not a relationship ...
A. 11 November 2009: good for you!!! That is a really tough thing to do, and drifting away long distance is a great way to do it. Stay strong, and enjoy life! There's so many wonderful people out there to live for!
Good luck with it all 3... (read in full...)
Is Reiters Syndrom the cause of my sexual difficulties?
Q. When I masturbate, or have sex with my partner, it takes an extremely long time to cum. Is there anyway to make me cum easier. I really need also to really give it a good thrusting before I manage to cum? Also , I have noticed little hard spot...
A. 11 November 2009: hmmm... this sounds like a question a doctor should be answering. But I had a bf that had weird bits in his cum. I've had a lot of men since then, and never seen it since, so I don't know what it was. But I think it was normal. Then again, I'm not ... (read in full...)
He is complicated...drinks a lot and ignores me for days! What can I do?
Q. Since the beggining he messed up. Stood me up, would make plans and ended up getting drunk, getting drunk all time,even once when we argued and i left,he spent the night with hes ex (but this happened in the first week we met, not a relationship ...
A. 11 November 2009: oh gosh, it looks like you have "I have to save him" syndrome. I think the hardest thing to learn when you're thinking this way, is that you can't change anyone but yourself!!! People only treat you how you let them treat you. You taking him back ... (read in full...)
Regret and worry over one night in hotel room
Q. I tend to be OCD and I worry over everything. A year ago I met a guy online who seemed pretty cool. We got into some sexy talk and talked a couple times via instant message. He sent me a picture of himself straight away and usually that bugs me,...
A. 22 April 2009: np...don't be so hard on urself, you did nothing wrong! :)... (read in full...)
My best friend is trying to steal my man!
Q. i liked this guy before that me and my friend were gonna meet up with and i showed her a picture of him and she was like oo hes nice i hope you two get together. When we were out she was getting in the middle of us dancing and kept whispering things ...
A. 22 April 2009: the cheek of her is right. She's no friend at all! Who says they can have any man they want? She's clearly got issues. I'd stay away from her if I were you. I knew a girl that did the same thing to me, but she wasn't a friend, that's for damn sure!... (read in full...)
My best friend is trying to steal my man!
Q. i liked this guy before that me and my friend were gonna meet up with and i showed her a picture of him and she was like oo hes nice i hope you two get together. When we were out she was getting in the middle of us dancing and kept whispering things ...
A. 15 April 2009: well, you are handling it really well because if it were me, I'd blow up...regardless of her long trip to see me. Geez, just hearing about it irritates me to no end! I can't STAND girls like that!! I'm not sure if my advice would be the greatest ... (read in full...)
B/f wants to have threesome
Q. I am currently in a relationship and my boyfriend is 10 years older then I am! So he's experienced a lot! just about every girl that he has been with he has had a threesome.. and it hurts my heart knowing that he wants to bring this type of stuf...
A. 15 April 2009: Is is never ok for someone to pressure you to do anything that you don't want to do. If he feels this strongly about something that you are uncomfortable with, then you need to be the strong one to say, "hey, take it or leave it, because I'm better ... (read in full...)
I keep going back and forth with him and don't know what to do for the best. Help!
Q. I have been with this guy for 8 months now. Since the first month I have been back and forth about whether I should be with him or not, despite the fact that we got along really well, he treated me well, etc. I found him to be really needy and I ...
A. 15 April 2009: yes, it did. Thank you, I was so concerned that I wasn't going to get a reply at all!
And you are right, I'm absolutely terrified of commitment. It always seems as though I'm looking for excuses not to be with him, and I have a tendancy to sluff... (read in full...)
Trust issues with girlfriend
Q. So basically I have known this girl for around 7 Months since the start of my University school year. (Im 18 shes 19) She is from across the country and moved here for school while already having a boyfriend and was trying the long distance...
A. 15 April 2009: If it was only three months, then you are going to have how many months of knowing her, and getting her to care about you more and more, that the other clingy guy clearly didn't have. You've obviously been playing your cards right and I really d... (read in full...)
Trust issues with girlfriend
Q. So basically I have known this girl for around 7 Months since the start of my University school year. (Im 18 shes 19) She is from across the country and moved here for school while already having a boyfriend and was trying the long distance...
A. 14 April 2009: ok, my first question is, how long was she going out with the long distance guy before she met you? The reason I ask this is because my thinking is, that if you let the 2 months with her continue, she will fall for you more and more. She sounds lik... (read in full...)
Why would he be putting me off like this?
Q. My man is 31 years older than me. We used to have great sex before I had our son. Its been 3 months and im always horny. We couldn't when I was preggo cuz of complications. We have has sex once since after the baby. I let him know when I want it and ...
A. 14 April 2009: I hate to be a downer, but that is not good news! It sounds like there is a huge lack of communication in your relationship and the fact that this has been going on for three months is NOT a good sign. You need to sit him down, and have a BIG t... (read in full...)
Regret and worry over one night in hotel room
Q. I tend to be OCD and I worry over everything. A year ago I met a guy online who seemed pretty cool. We got into some sexy talk and talked a couple times via instant message. He sent me a picture of himself straight away and usually that bugs me,...
A. 14 April 2009: Well, I have a lot of anxiety over silly things too and what usually works for me is just recognizing that you DON'T KNOW, and accepting it. You DON'T KNOW that he's a jerk, you DON'T KNOW that he filmed you, or that he's anything bad at all. You ... (read in full...)
Ideas on twin boys' names please.
Q. I know this site is mainly for relationship advice but this is my last resort. I am being induces in the morning and my husband and I still can not agree on a name for our twin sons. From the moment we found out we were prenant we agreed on naming ...
A. 14 April 2009: talk to him! It's not fair that he has changed the names last minute after you agreed on something else for so long! Maybe he is just panicking because it's the last minute and he's just acting weird...to change the names at the last week after nine ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to younger teens... is this sick?
Q. Hello, I'm 18 and I'm from the UK. I've suddenly become attracted to younger teens, 13+. Is this normal? I'm scared because I don't want to turn into a paedophile, do I need to seek further advice for this? Has anyone else gone through the same ...
A. 14 April 2009: I want to reply to the anonymous female...he is not attracted to girls that have not yet hit puberty, he is attracted to girls that are in a mid-puberty range! I think that is very different than being attracted to a child! I was fully developed at ... (read in full...)
I like her but I am not attracted to her? Am I trying to change her?
Q. Okay so I'm seeing this girl. She's not usually what I would go for.. Like she's really cute. Maybe a 5.9/10 on my scale. I usually date 7/10's and up... I'm involved with this girl because I'm looking for someone to share my time with and so...
A. 14 April 2009: wow, there have been an awful lot of negative posts since I wrote something earlier today! I'm not going to lie, you do come across as being a little shallow, but at the same time I understand what you are trying to say. Maybe coming out and rati... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to younger teens... is this sick?
Q. Hello, I'm 18 and I'm from the UK. I've suddenly become attracted to younger teens, 13+. Is this normal? I'm scared because I don't want to turn into a paedophile, do I need to seek further advice for this? Has anyone else gone through the same ...
A. 13 April 2009: wow, that's tough!
I'm not sure, because I'll be honest, it does seem a little strange, and I understand your concern!
If you did ask her, maybe you would get lucky and it could be a long lasting relationship and the age difference wont matter s... (read in full...)
I used my best friend's sister for sex and now she's pregnant! What do I do now?
Q. I started messing around with my best friend's little sister, and now she is pregnant. I have been friends with the guy since elementary school and I have a girlfriend who is always in college. I LOVE my g/f and planned on asking her to marry me...
A. 13 April 2009: well, it looks like you're in Canada too, so yes, she can have an abortion without consent, that's the good news!
http://womenscareclinic.ca/
I don't think you will sound like a dick if you just say, "have you thought about what you are going to... (read in full...)
Why do I hate my boyfriend masturbating?
Q. This may be a very unusual query but ANY advice would be helpful! My long-term boyfriend (known each other for 5 years) has a rather strange view on sexual matters. When he gets very depressed (for instance, when we have a big argument), he sees mas...
A. 13 April 2009: I can understand why you would feel upset, because it would make me upset too.
Have you tried asking him if maybe once in awhile you did the masterbating for him? Ask him while you're giving him a backrub or something, ask him sensually if you coul... (read in full...)
I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity.
Q. I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity. My mates go on about sex all the time. They say how good it is and how much they enjoy it. When I'm thinking about loosing my virginity I feel confident but when I nearly did it with ...
A. 13 April 2009: seriously...sex is overrated. Yes, it's good but really...it's no more exciting than never having tried chocolate before. It's great, and delicious, but once you eat a whole chocolate bar every day, you've had enough.
Besides, you can always sati... (read in full...)
Silent treatment and no answer. What do do ...
Q. I have currently developed feelings for this guy that I've known for around four years. Things have started to develop with us but we haven't had intercourse with him. Even though we both want to do things, afterwards I feel like he's given me the ...
A. 13 April 2009: Be straight up with him...it's not fair that you are starting to feel for him about physical things that are happening and that he's ignoring you. If he shrugs it off again, forget about him.
It's apparent that you guys aren't that close anyway and ... (read in full...)
I like her but I am not attracted to her? Am I trying to change her?
Q. Okay so I'm seeing this girl. She's not usually what I would go for.. Like she's really cute. Maybe a 5.9/10 on my scale. I usually date 7/10's and up... I'm involved with this girl because I'm looking for someone to share my time with and so...
A. 13 April 2009: I totally understand what you're trying to say!
I think that you should maybe pick and choose your battles. Pick the issue that is the biggest issue for you, the one you really can't deal with...and if I were you, I'd zoom right in on the hygi... (read in full...)
Should I play him at his own game? Tease him and make him chase me?
Q. Me and my friends have been hanging around with this group of lads for quite a while now and basically one of them is what you would call the stereotypical bad boy, good looking but he knows it, cocky and is so persuasive and convincing. The thing ...
A. 13 April 2009: I have been in this situation before!
In the end, either having sex with him or playing him back is just giving you a self-esteem boost, which will only be temporary. It feels good to be able to have the bad boy in the palm of your hand, but in the ... (read in full...)
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