I'm hesitant about approaching girls. How do I build the confidence to talk to girls?
Q. I have found I have no drive to approach girls. I am 23 and never had a gf or been with a girl. I complain and get upset about it but I have no drive to really DO anything about it and I don't know why. The saying goes: if you really care abou...
A. 27 October 2014: Alright dear, then I guess its perfectly normal and ok, who knows? Maybe you haven't met the right girl that will spring you off your feet, But you sincerely need to sum up courage and approach atleast one girl, they don't bite, all they can do is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me twice so I ended things but now he's begging to come back!
Q. Dear cupid, I'm here again, but I must first thank you all for your tremendous help, I'm glad to be a part of this forum. Pls I seek your advice once again. I've been in a relationship for 7years, and I've lived with him for 2years, my boyfriend is ...
A. 27 October 2014: Thank you so much friends. I'll do as you've said, I'll stick with my decision and be strong and firm with it. I know it will hurt for a while, but I'll get over him, and I hope he accepts d situation. Thanks again.... (read in full...)
I'm hesitant about approaching girls. How do I build the confidence to talk to girls?
Q. I have found I have no drive to approach girls. I am 23 and never had a gf or been with a girl. I complain and get upset about it but I have no drive to really DO anything about it and I don't know why. The saying goes: if you really care abou...
A. 26 October 2014: I guess the first question you should ask yourself is if you're attracted to girls. How do you see them? Do you actually like girls? Do you imagine kissing or having sex with a girl? But no courage to approach them? Pls answer these questions and ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend of 7 years but have fallen for another man!
Q. Dear cupid,my heart is torn in two and I sincerely don't know what to do.I'm 28 years old and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7years now(I've been totally faithful to him) along the line he cheated twice but I forgave him, and ...
A. 1 October 2014: Thanks again my wonderful friends for your avice. I have always loved and appreciated my boyfriend, I forgave him because of his constant pleas, including the pleas of his friends and family, and the fact that we've been dating for 7 long years, ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend of 7 years but have fallen for another man!
Q. Dear cupid,my heart is torn in two and I sincerely don't know what to do.I'm 28 years old and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7years now(I've been totally faithful to him) along the line he cheated twice but I forgave him, and ...
A. 30 September 2014: Aidan and Wiseowl, you guys are just so amazing. I sincerely appreciate your advice. Presently, I live with my boyfriend, perhaps I'll just take a break and move back to my place to sort out myself. Thank u so much guys.... (read in full...)
I took him back when he cheated but I just cant trust him anymore.
Q. Dear cupid, you've indeed been of great help to me, and I do appreciate everything. Pls I need your advice on an issue bothering my heart. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend who loves me so much for 7yrs now(we've lived together for 2yrs ...
A. 25 July 2014: Thanks a million for ur advice. U guys have been so helpful. I sat him down and I told him, I couldn't go on this way, dat I've tried to trust him once again, but its so difficult if not impossible and dat we need to move on with our lives apart. ... (read in full...)
He calls me his 'wife' when talking to his friends, but has never met my parents or even suggested marriage to me! Am I wasting my time with him?
Q. Hi everyone, my bf and i, have been dating for 4years now, we love, respect and understand each other totally. He is 32, i'm 25. He introduces me to friends as his wife, although he has never met wit my parents or even suggested it. He talks abt us ...
A. 13 May 2012: Thank u so much for your helpful response...No one 300 and Starlights...i'll do just that. Tnx again.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me! he's invited me for his birthday, should I go or not?
Q. My boyfriend finished with me today. I am so upset and to finish off he says to me, i'm still welcome to go to his 21st at the end of this month. Is this a good idea? all his family will be there as well. Any suggestion how I get over him or wheth...
A. 9 January 2012: Don't go to the party, but if u must, then go with a really cute guy, and look absolutely stunning! U know what? Just forget him, don't go!... (read in full...)
He loves me, his mother hates me. Should we get married?
Q. My fiance mother hates me and my fiance love me and wanted to marry should i go on with marriage plan?...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi dear, to be honest with u, its slightly normal in our country, ofcourse u know wat i mean. If u love dis guy, n u r completely respectful to his mother, i suggest u go ahead! But secondly, how does ur fiance see d situation? Does he want to go ... (read in full...)
We talk on phone but never on facebook. Why?
Q. Hi everyone, i appreciate u guys alot. Just have a quick question i need answers to. My boyfriend and i are very much in love with each other, we are both on facebook, but he never posts on my wall or say anything to me on facebook, he talks to ...
A. 3 May 2011: thanks alot for ur posts Ampersand, Deirdre and Odds. I sincerely appreciate u guys. Thanks.... (read in full...)
Does it really hurt that much to have sex the 1st time?
Q. My mom told me this "since you are now 14 and have a boyfriend I want you to be more careful with your actions. Don't do it it with him. It hurts to have sex for the first time and it hurts even worse to have a baby" is that true??? Does it rea...
A. 3 May 2011: Your mum is right, you are not ready for sex yet. You are still very young to be saddled with such experience. When you are older you'll enjoy it better. Just have a little patience. It could tear you apart if you get involved now. Pls listen to ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my cousin!!!
Q. I have a real problem here , I think I love my cousin, he is totally fit and everything , I think about him all the tome and I don't stop , I remember even actually having a sexual dream about us two having sex and it keeps getting worse and worse ...
A. 26 April 2011: My dear, where i come from its totally unacceptable. They r lots of guys out there u can choose from. It doesnt really matter if he feels the same way, ur parents might not even agree to that. Pls do well to have a rethink of the situation. ... (read in full...)
I told him I thought the decreasing intimacy in our relationship was a problem and he said I was moaning. Was I wrong?
Q. hi, i've been dating a guy for the past nine months and we get on well, both love each other but every other month our work patterns go out of sync for a month and then return into sync again because his shifts fall back in line with my weekends...
A. 17 April 2011: To be honest with u, wat u two have is rather strange. From wat u said, it doesnt seem as if u both are dating, u're not spending quality time together, he's not into u, but u're into him. Seriously dat guy doesnt know wat he wants. Pls help urself, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend masturbates while I'm sleeping!
Q. Recently i have been waking up to my boyfriend masturbating beside me in bed, he obviously thinks im asleep, and if i move he quickly stops and waits, checks to see if im still sleeping then carries on, and at the end im not sure if he is completely ...
A. 29 March 2011: hi dear, this is really sad, its annoying and irritating. Its obvious he doesn't enjoy making love to u anymore and prefers masturbating. It all depends on what u want. Its not wise to to hang in there, talk to him extensively about it, if it ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of the spots and bumps caused by shaving my private area?
Q. I urgently need solutions to this pressing problem, i have this very dark spots and bumps on my private part as a result of shaving. I'm fair in complexion and the area is so dark, i feel very uncomfortable naked. What can i use to get rid of those ...
A. 16 May 2010: Thank u so much. You've all been very helpful. Bless you.... (read in full...)
I want to ask my cousin to give me a bj!
Q. i think im in love with my second cousin. we talk all the time and i think shes drop dead goergoes. they come over 2 times a year or more and i had a fanisy she gave me a blowjob when my mom and hers and all my cousins and brother went shopping. we ...
A. 15 May 2010: I wish i could see you now, would have given u a spank that will send u to a coma. She's ur cousin! And its quite obvious u're just interested in BJ. Dont ever talk to her about it or u'll be sorry. ... (read in full...)
He wants me to abort the other man's baby but then he wants me to accept his stealing son! I don't think these conditions are fair....
Q. My husband and I have separated due to financial issues, his disrespectful stealing son, and his disrespectful self. Anyway I became pregnant, he want to reconcile but cant see himself raising another mans baby. So in other words he want me to ...
A. 13 May 2010: I absolutely agree with Caringguy, u mus'nt go back to him, what is your gain in that relationship? You take care of him, the bills and his wayward son! Except u want to keep doing that for the rest of ur life. U deserve better, move on with ur life ... (read in full...)
I always have to ask for gifts, why does he never surprise me?
Q. Hi all, it feels good to a part of this forum. Just a quick one! My boyfriend and i have dating for 3yrs now. He's really sweet, but he rarely gives me gifts or anything unless i ask. And i dont feel comfortable asking, as soon as i ask about ...
A. 7 May 2010: YES! as i matter of fact i do, on several occasions i've suprised him with lots of gifts, that is why it bothers me.... (read in full...)
What can I do to help my sister in her unhappy marriage?
Q. Hi, i sincerely need your help. Its concerning my eldest sister, she's been married for almost 2years now, but marriage for her has been hell. On several occasions due to quarrels, he throws her belongings outside and changes the locks of the house, ...
A. 5 May 2010: Honeygirl Thank you so much, u've been helpful. And Bruce Lee, i think i'll go with yours. And i'm a Nigerian. Thank you... (read in full...)
Now he wants to leave a change of clothes at my house! What does this mean?
Q. Been involved with a man now for more than 3 yrs and just recently when he came over to see me asked if he could leave a change of clothes at my house and even asked me if would wash them for him. This something totally out of the blue because the...
A. 4 May 2010: U hav'nt really given a full description of what ur relationship is like, if u're seriously involved, then it should be normal for him to leave a few clothes in your house. Maybe u cld tell more about u two.... (read in full...)
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