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writes:My fiance mother hates me and my fiance love me and wanted to marry should i go on with marriage plan?
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reader, Ngyzee +, writes (14 September 2011):
Hi dear, to be honest with u, its slightly normal in our country, ofcourse u know wat i mean. If u love dis guy, n u r completely respectful to his mother, i suggest u go ahead! But secondly, how does ur fiance see d situation? Does he want to go ahead even without his mothers consent? If yes, have a beautiful married life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2011): You marry a man, but you effectively marry into his family... so the question is whether or not you can deal with this situation.
Is the mother close by? Can you move away? Could he be away from his mother if you needed to?
Just remember that this woman is going to be in your life if you are with this man and she's not going to just change overnight, so it likely will impact on your relationship. If you can't move away, maybe go see her and see if you can talk to her about what her concerns are with you and what you can do to repair the relationship.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (13 September 2011):
 As long as you have the support of this guy and he won't let his mother walk all over you then I would marry him if you love him. His mom will just have to accept that you are part of the family and if she can't do that you don't have to deal with her. You are marrying her son not her and should follow your heart.
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