He still finds me attractive but he doesn't want sex! What can I do?
Q. im 32 married 11 years 4 kids my husband and i both work lately he doesnt want sex in two months we have tried to make love but he cant keep his erection he says he loves me and still finds me attractive wot can i do...
A. 11 May 2006: seek medical advice for his erection problems... (read in full...)
I'm upset that my friends don't tell me everything!
Q. Heya. I'm not sure how to say this but I'm really upset that my friends don't tell me anything. I mean, recently, I found out by accident that my 'best mate' was bi-sexual, and hadn't told me, but all my other friends knew. I was upset and ...
A. 11 May 2006: Maybe becayse they're all bi...and you're not! Joking! Well did you do anything in your life for them to mistrust you?... (read in full...)
Worried about my girlfriend's reaction when I tell her I dated a man last year!
Q. If anyone can help me with this, I'd appreciate it. I'm 19, my girlfriend's 21. I dated a guy for 5 months last year, and I feel embarrassed to tell her about it and worry about her reaction. How can I broach this sensitive issue?? Jonath...
A. 11 May 2006: it depends how long you've been with her. I would like my man to tell me if he's bi or not after some time. If you feel for her, you should let her know.... (read in full...)
She doesn't return my calls, and now she wants space to reorganize her life! What's going on?
Q. I am in a relationship where both of us are recently divorced. The relationship has been long distance for them most part I has been on active duty in a different state than her. Every thing was going fine until about two months ago. She has a very ...
A. 11 May 2006: What I would do is to send her another email telling her how i feel about this situation (don't put too much pressure on her), tell her your plans and ask her if she like them and if she really wants to keep planning ahead things with you. If she ... (read in full...)
He got an email from a dating site, but he says it's just junk mail. Do I believe him?
Q. I've been in a relationship for 4 years and we have a 16 month old son together, he keeps thinkin that hes not his. Year ago got a email on these internet phones from this cupid dating agencies, every time i mention it he keeps saying that there ...
A. 11 May 2006: I don't know anything about internet phones but I see the baby issue more important than anything. Today DNA tests can be done at home and they are quite cheap...and you just have to send them to a lab...why don't you go for it...at least he removes ... (read in full...)
We went from sex every night to sex once per month..all due to his porn viewing. What can I do?
Q. MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE LIVED TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 6 YEARS. WHEN HE FIRST MOVED IN WE SPEND A LOT OF TIME TOGETHER AND HAD GREAT SEX ALMOST EVERY NIGHT. OUR TROUBLE STARTED WHEN HE BOUGHT A COMPUTER AND THE INTERNET. HE STARTED STAYING UP TO 2 OR 3 AM ...
A. 11 May 2006: Hey girl!
You've got to act. Your guys is definately going out of boundaries and it's not good for you and even more for your daughters. It's a shame that he can do that infront of them. I know that you love him and it's a hard situation for you ... (read in full...)
I may be pregnant. How much for an abortion.... And would I need to tell my mom?
Q. I'm 14 and the weekend just gone me and my boyfriend both had sex for the first time, Stupidly we didnt use a condom but he said he pulled out in time. We went to a clinic the next day and got an after morning pill, Its been 2 days and im late for ...
A. 10 May 2006: I'm sorry to tell you that the way you think and what you are doing is a result of your immaturity....first you shouldn't have had sex at this stage....you're too young!!! Second, not using a condom. Third....going for a morning after pill....don't ... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair??
Q. I met a man at work when he came from an agency to cover shifts, we went for a drink after work and had a kiss in his car the only thing is he's married and wants us to have an affair. Should i because i don't want anyone full time and it would su...
A. 10 May 2006: hello caddy, I really don't want to judge you, I know that one thing leads to another. I am in your situation...and I'm hurting. They are married, and beleive it or not, if he has to choose where he wants to stay he will stay with his family f... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair??
Q. I met a man at work when he came from an agency to cover shifts, we went for a drink after work and had a kiss in his car the only thing is he's married and wants us to have an affair. Should i because i don't want anyone full time and it would su...
A. 8 May 2006: hello caddy. I have a question for you! Why r u asking if you should go for it when you have already decided about it. these people are giving you advice but you don't want to listen.
let me tell you one thing, I'm not judging you....not at all.... (read in full...)
My mother said she heard people in our bedroom when she came home. Should I believe her?
Q. My name is "Sue". i have been dating an older man, "Bob" for a year and a half. My mother recently moved in with us because of some money issues. She hates us dating, because he is older than i am. I love him more than anything and would trust him ...
A. 8 May 2006: Well, people on the bedroom? that could be his mates isn't it? What could have happened is that he was with his mates or was talking on the phone, and your mama wants to put it as if it was a woman.
Personally, I would stick to my man....but be o... (read in full...)
We live in different cities, we can't find time together... and I worry about our future!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. We met through work and have never lived together. I live in London and she lives in Birmingham. We are both very career orientated people, as an actor I need to be in London for my work and she ...
A. 8 June 2005: Well, it's a difficult situation but you have to face reality. You can't hurt this lady, because you love her so you've got to think about what you want. If you don't want to get married in the future and she does, don't waste her time before it's ... (read in full...)
Caught him making out with my friend and ditched him, but now he wants another chance...
Q. I am 25 years old and I live in England had a wonderful relationship with a guy but I caught him making out with a friend of mine so I ditched him. He keeps saying he wants me back and I don't know what to do. Please help!!!...
A. 8 June 2005: Forget him girl!!!!! He cheated on you in a cruel way...with a friend! I wouldn't even think about it! I'm sure you deserve better!... (read in full...)
English girl plus French guy. Could it work out?
Q. Hi, My problem is that I really like a guy that I work with. He is nice and great looking, the problem is that I am English and he is French. My French is lousy, so could it ever work, and if so, how?...
A. 8 June 2005: I guess if you work together, there must be a language that you both speak. Doesn't he speaks English? I know many couples who come from different backgrounds and languages, and they still make it. After some time you'll be improving your French and ... (read in full...)
I like my boyfriend's daughter... but worry about why I'm jealous of their relationship!
Q. I have been dating my b/f for about 3 years now. He has a daughter from a previous relationship who lives with us. I never thought I would be a stepmom, I hate it! Don't get me wrong, I love this girl so much. I'm 23, she is 8. We talk all the ...
A. 8 June 2005: You know what??? You are very lucky:) You can see the way your future husband relates to his children. You are making sure that he gives them attention and love. You shouldn't be jealous, because that's how it's going to be for your own children. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't understand what it's like to be a poor student and in debt!
Q. Me and my girlfriend have lived pretty seperate lifestyles before we met. I come from an extremely poor family and never have had money or really lots of things besides school and work since i had to help my mom pay the bills..ect... Anyway...
A. 8 June 2005: I was in that kind of situation but it was the opposite:) I was the spoilt one and my bf was the less-fortunate. It was a bit hard for both of us to adapt with each other...especially when he started mixing up with my family. He used to speak about ... (read in full...)
He was separated when we first went out; now his wife is back!
Q. Dear Cupid, a few months ago I met this guy who truly loves me, and the problem is he was once married and has a child. When I met him he was separated from his wife and child, so I went out with him with no problem. Now she is back, I don't know ...
A. 7 June 2005: Well, I would like to help you, but you didn't give enough information about your situation. You didn't say how long you've been going out or in what way his wife is back. Is she back with him...or she's just back in the picture?? Are they living ... (read in full...)
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