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writes: I am 25 years old and I live in England had a wonderful relationship with a guy but I caught him making out with a friend of mine so I ditched him. He keeps saying he wants me back and I don't know what to do. Please help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (9 June 2005):
 You were right to ditch the guy. And I certainly hope you ditched that "friend" too. Ignore your ex's attempts to get you back. He did it once and he'll do it again. Imagine all the stuff he might have done when you weren't around! Do you really want to go back to that heartache? Of course you don't! Tell him to move on; he had his chance and he blew it big time.
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reader, lucy +, writes (8 June 2005):
Totally agree with 'just a friend'. If you actually caught him, god knows what he does when you're not looking! I suggest totally forgetting this guy and the friend. You deserve better. x
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (8 June 2005):
 Unfortunately, you discovered the ultimate betrayal. You need to stick to your guns and find someone worthy of your love. If they cheat, that's it, game over. Not all men are like that. Move on; its best for you as the relationship would never be the same again and you would always be doubting him, and that's not healthy... would be ungood for the both of you. It's a shame when men do this, but at least you know now that he's not worth more time and effort. Find someone out there that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Take care
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reader, NG +, writes (8 June 2005):
Forget him girl!!!!! He cheated on you in a cruel way...with a friend! I wouldn't even think about it! I'm sure you deserve better!
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reader, justAfriend +, writes (8 June 2005):
You Absolutly did the right thing by ditching this guy who cheated on you. I dont care what his reason is but i wouldnt even think of getting back with his if i were you.
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reader, StressFree +, writes (8 June 2005):
Once a cheater, always a cheater! What kind of friend was this anyway to be kissing on your man? I would forget about both of them if i were you. Good luck!
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reader, rabbit +, writes (8 June 2005):
That's a tricky one, if it was a simple kiss, then it may have been a spur of the moment thing and you just walked in at the wrong time.If you've already ditched him, then think carefully about taking him back.Remembering a wonderful relationship with a decision to end it on your terms would definately be preferable to being dumped because he found a better catch or being cheated on.
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