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writes: I've been in a relationship for 4 years and we have a 16 month old son together, he keeps thinkin that hes not his. Year ago got a email on these internet phones from this cupid dating agencies, every time i mention it he keeps saying that there just junk mail. As he just registered phone, could this be true Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (11 May 2006):
I am a little unclear as to the connection with the phone. Its certainly possible that it's junk mail because even after you cancel membership or in some cases never apply for these things they continue to spam you. I have even had emails saying i have messages on sites I have never created a profile on.
Personally I would say you need something a little more concrete to go on to suspect infidelity or even attempted infidelity. If you are desperate to find out then when you can check out the site and see if you can find a profile for him and if so see if it says when he last logged on. It seems to me the issue here is not whether you beleive him or not it seems whichever way to have made you feel a little insecure and you need to resolve that. Hope that helps. Take care.
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reader, NG +, writes (11 May 2006):
I don't know anything about internet phones but I see the baby issue more important than anything. Today DNA tests can be done at home and they are quite cheap...and you just have to send them to a lab...why don't you go for it...at least he removes all suspicions!
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