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writes: Heya. I'm not sure how to say this but I'm really upset that my friends don't tell me anything. I mean, recently, I found out by accident that my 'best mate' was bi-sexual, and hadn't told me, but all my other friends knew. I was upset and disapointed that she had told everyone except me when I'm supposed to be her 'best mate'. Another of my friends is bi-sexual, and she didn't tell me either. I don't know why this is as I think I am fairly approachable and easy to talk to, I wouldn't laugh at my mates. Please tell me why my friends aren't telling me stuff. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006): mabey some things are better kept secrets-ask yourself why they might not have told-do you gossip?-can you keep secrets?-mabey your friends think that you just cant take a secret, look I am sure that you dont tell them everything right?-because if everyone told everyone everyone's secret, the world would be filled with caos-secrets are a delicate thing and if one says something that should only be kept with friend than that could ruin a friendship. Have you ever spilled a secret before?-mabey at a time you did and your friends remember this. The only thing that I would do would be confront them and ask them why they didnt come to you about this, It wont be easy but that will definatley help
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reader, NG +, writes (11 May 2006):
Maybe becayse they're all bi...and you're not! Joking! Well did you do anything in your life for them to mistrust you?
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