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writes: MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE LIVED TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 6 YEARS. WHEN HE FIRST MOVED IN WE SPEND A LOT OF TIME TOGETHER AND HAD GREAT SEX ALMOST EVERY NIGHT. OUR TROUBLE STARTED WHEN HE BOUGHT A COMPUTER AND THE INTERNET. HE STARTED STAYING UP TO 2 OR 3 AM IN THE MORNINGS INSTEAD OF GOING TO BED WITH ME. I STARTED CATCHING HIM LOOKING AT PORN AND MASTERBATING ALL THE TIME. THIS HURT. I FELT CHEATED ON AND BETRAYED AND PUT ASIDE FOR PORN OF ALL THINGS. I EXPRESSED MY FEELINGS. IT DID NOT HELP. I HAD 2 TEENAGE DAUGHTERS LIVING AT HOME WHO WOULD ALSO SEE THIS GOING ON AND WOULD CONFRONT ME. THAT HURT EVEN WORSE. WE HAD SEVERAL ARGUMENTS ON THE SUBJECT. IT WAS LEFT AT THAT HE WAS TO WATCH NO PORN WHILE MY CHILDREN WERE IN THE HOUSE. YEAH RIGHT...I STILL WOULD CATCH HIM. I GOT WHERE I DIDN'T CARE ANYMORE, JUST NUMB. WHEN WE DO HAVE SEX, HE CAN NOT EJACULATE. I AM REAL TIRED OF THIS. I LOVE HIM, BUT HE IS DESTROYING OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH MASTERBATING TO INTERNET PORN. WE WENT FROM SEX EVERY NIGHT TO LUCKY IF I GET IT ONCE A MONTH. WHAT IS A WOMAN TO DO. HELP...
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reader, needinganswers +, writes (19 May 2006):
I just asked the same question, basically, on Wondir!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2006): What he is doing is hurtful to you and definitly irresponsible around kids and should be tackled for everybodys sake. He may be unhappy in the relationship and is dealing with it in the wrong way, but have you thought that he may be addicted? If so, mabe he needs some help.
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reader, lca +, writes (11 May 2006):
a computer can be a great thing but it can also make you regret having one'i know i feel just like you but my man atleast makes an effort not to do it while im home
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reader, NG +, writes (11 May 2006):
Hey girl!
You've got to act. Your guys is definately going out of boundaries and it's not good for you and even more for your daughters. It's a shame that he can do that infront of them. I know that you love him and it's a hard situation for you but I would give him a choice. STOP OR LEAVE. You don't have to stay watching him get horny for some stupid bitch on pc. It's downgrading you, and a result is affecting your sexlife too. Don't let him downgrade you like that...you have a self-esteem to keep and 2 daughters to look after and give good example.
i would suggest to give him a choice or go counselling. It depends the kind of woman you are. If it was me, I would prefer going out and show him that he's losing me over his crap. You have to show him that you're serious.
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