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*everGoodEnough
writes:Iv recently split from a long-term relationship and have been getting to know a girl who lives in my building, she used to smile at me and Id always catch her looking at me when I was with my girlfriend, then after I split with my girlfriend she would make hints, ie. "why arnt all men like you?" etc we have been texting eachother and shes strongly hinted that she likes me. she comes to see me before I go to bed and we always end up kissing. a few nights ago we were in another person's apartment (everybody knows everybody in here) cuddling up watching a film when i left the room to go to the toilet, and whilst in there i can be 100% sure i heard kissing between them to, followed by giggling and quiet talking, when i came out they acted asif nothing had happened and that they were just talking.although this guy has made it clear he doesnt like her in that way.what do i do? do i drop this girl before anything has a chance to happen or do i mention it? if shes that kinda person do i really wanna be getting into anything with her? iv just come out of a really bad relationship that had no trust in it so i dont know what to do
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reader, amyrechel  +, writes (30 January 2009):
I'd drop her likes she hot, life way too short for that kind of stuff. If you got any self esteem, you'd leave her and not look back, Dont' worry about being lonely.... look in the mirror and always remember your better that that trash... never setter for second best and with that your playing with fire... trust me..... i've been there, You don't need her
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reader, shna  +, writes (30 January 2009):
 you should ask her before you get hurt . you arnt techniacally together so if she did kiss him mabye she found no harm in it . if she tells you she kissed this guy it shows shes honest dont let your previous relatioships effect your ones now !!!! theres no time to be worried as life is short enuf as it is . if you really really like this girl mabye you should tink about getting together offically so you both no where you stand ..
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reader, NeverGoodEnough +, writes (30 January 2009):
NeverGoodEnough is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yes that is as far as its gone, she is still a virgin from what i know.Thank you for you reply, I do agree with that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): I can't tell you what to do about this girl...if something she did uset you and you aren't sure about it, the best thing to do is to ask her what happened and if she likes that other guy....ask in a non judgemental way, though.
My feeling is that you have recently broke up a long term relationship and you aren't really ready to take on another relationship....you need to give yourself time to heal even if the breakup was your idea.
Date several girls casually and have fun and be a friend first and in time you will find a special girl for you...this one may not be the one, so don't put too much into this relationship, just let it be and let it take its own course....don't get hung up on this one girl, she sounds like a flirt, but that is OK, just realize she is not your girlfriend and she doesn't really owe you an explanation.....right now she is just teasing you.....and you apparantly like the attention....but that is as far as it has gone, right?
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