Asked by my lover to visit him in Turkey....is it safe to go?
Q. I am American Black female who is in Love with a Turkish Man. We meet while working together, he was on a visa working in the States for a year. He has invited me to come and visit Turkey. I have never left home and would like to know if it is safe ...
A. 21 May 2009: Ok I think Turkey in general is a safe enough country and it is meant to be great for a holiday. I will say one thing however, Turkish men are FAMOUS for preying on foreign females.
I watched a tv show that showed how they pretty much just tak... (read in full...)
This is not some two-bit affair.....but I'm wondering if he actually loves me?
Q. Some advice please,I am in a relationship with a man who is married and I have been on and off for 30yrs,and i know a lot of you out there are going to be critical of me.but maybe some of you will understand.This man has been married for over 40yrs ...
A. 30 April 2009: That's a heartbreaking story.
I think it is perfectly possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time however he has never told you he loves you, that is the heartbreaking part.
I don't want to tell you that you have wasted your life... (read in full...)
What's it like the first time you see your boyfriend naked?
Q. Girls respond… I have a good relationship with my bf. What is it like to see your boyfriend naked for the first time? What is it like to have your boyfriend see you naked for the first time? How can it be a good experience? What can be ...
A. 13 April 2009: You know I think it all depends on how you feel about your boyfriend. I think if the feelings you have are genuine then your man could have the body of an elephant and the little 'man' of a mouse and it won't matter to you in the slightest. I happen ... (read in full...)
I'm lost on what to do, does anyone out there have any advice?
Q. My wife and I have been married for about a year and a half. We have no kids, and I am 27 she is 24. It has been rough financially on both of us, for most of the marriage, and even before the wedding when we were both in college, with us living on ...
A. 13 February 2009: First and foremost - congrats on the new job, sounds like a good deal and it was clearly the right decision for you to make under your financial circumstances. I am 24 have been married for a year and a half to my husband of 29. The first year o... (read in full...)
What's the difference between teenager love and adult love?
Q. Well i'd love to know the difference. i know adult love is more complicated but teenager love is also complicated and emotional too. but it's about ages and i don't know what's really the difference ? can anyone explain it to me please ?...
A. 4 February 2009: Don't listen to anyone who says that there is a a difference. I think it is more a case of being emotionally mature enough to handle the situation and that doesn't automatically come with age!
Sometimes I think love is just love. It doesn't ... (read in full...)
I feel my husband and I have drifted apart even though he treats me well!
Q. I have been with married for 1 year and together for 5 years with my husband and I don`t think I`m in love with him anymore. He is a great guy and treats me good most of the time, its just I don`t really feel it for him anymore. I just feel that ...
A. 10 September 2008: Oh my goodness it's like we are the same person! I'm exactly the same,, together for 5 and married for 1 and I feel like its the biggest mistake I ever made. I want out and I know that I'm going to have to break his heart to do it. You CAN'T stay... (read in full...)
Do you think I can make things work? Or should I just come clean to my hubby? What to do? Help?
Q. Hi everyone This might turn out to be a bit long so bear with me. Here´s my dilemma: I have no idea how to save my marriage. I´m 32, my hubby is 40. We´ve been married for 9 years now. Our marriage has been a bumpy ride but we´ve always had a str...
A. 9 September 2008: I feel for you I really do. I realise that this situation must be extremely hard on you. You are judging yourself in the worst possible way and while although you have hurt people throughout this past year, it doesn't make you a bad person.
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I'm engaged, but seem to have no other social life or friends.
Q. Its taken a bit of courage to write this. I am 19, and have been with my fiancee for 3 years. Is it wierd that i dont have any friends? When i was in school and particulary college, i was very left out and it was rare that i was asked to go out to ...
A. 5 September 2008: I feel so sorry for you just now. I don't know where I'd be without my girlies. Its not always been like this for me though. When I got engaged to my husband (who has always been a bit of a snob when it comes to other people) I almost gave up my ... (read in full...)
What do you do when you love someone who doesn't love you back?
Q. okay i having a REAL hard time but can anyone PLEASE help....here goes. what do you do when you love someone that 1-you cant have 2-is not your age 3-doesnt love you back yet,you feel like they are lying you feel as if hes/shes yours and if you...
A. 4 September 2008: Oh no! You must be struggling so much right now - its such a horrible feeling but its one that so many people have to deal with at one point or another. I think the best thing you can do in this situation is act like you don't really care. It may ... (read in full...)
What do I do to get over my first love?
Q. I need help, I started dating a guy that was a childhood friend, and stuff started happening to fast and we fell for each other, but things got bad when we started putting our hands on each other and saying mean and hateful things to each other, and ...
A. 4 September 2008: Sometimes these first loves just stay with you forever and you never really get past them. It does get easier though, especially if there is distance involoved. If you think that he isn't right for you then he probabbly isn't, at least not at this ... (read in full...)
Married a year ago but have been with my partner for 5. The passion seems to have completely drained out of our relationship and I'm contemplating divorce!
Q. Help! I got married 1 year ago but have been with my partner for 5. This year has been very up and down and I know that everyone says that the 1st year is hardest but I think this is different. The passion seems to have completely drained out of ...
A. 4 September 2008: Thanks guys for all your advice! The only problem with your suggestions is that he seems to have become very career and money focused. We both have pretty good jobs and good Degrees but he doesn't like spending money so a weekend away would only ... (read in full...)
I have fallen out of love with him but I don't know if I should continue to be with him
Q. I am married to a man who is a wonderful provider for me and my children, but I feel that I'm falling out of love with him. He's just two years older than me and he acts so settled down and old all the time. I like to get out and do things, but ...
A. 3 September 2008: Oh my goodness I feel like I'm in the exact same situation as you but without the children. Why should you stay if you are not going to be happy. So many preach on and on about what is the 'right thing to do' but you only have one life and what is ... (read in full...)
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