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My girlfriend broke up with me, and I am absolutely heartbroken. What can I do to move on?

Q.   i feel like crap right now!!!!! im in a terrible situattion!! so i've been going out with my gf for a little over a year and i absolutely adore..i cant live without her, we do every single thing together a we get along so great....we're p...

A.   3 March 2009: you just gotta accept it and move on.. relationships will come and go and you just have to deal with what ever happens happens. it'll take time.. trust me. but you can do it. there's other girls out there that you will share this same feeling with. ... (read in full...)

We broke up, he says he loves me, but I hear he is trying to be with at least three girls, should I forget him?

Q.   my boyfriend just broke up with me on the 3rd because of so much stress and hes depressed and things like that but says he still has feelings for me. its only been a few days i know but we have only talked one time sence then through text.......

A.   7 February 2009: you gotta get over him... obviously he didn't want to be with you enough to keep the relationship going and make up some excuse then go and try to get 3 other girls. thats bs. don't deal with that. move on, i know its hard, trust me i thought i'd ... (read in full...)

Any suggestions on how I can find a guy, please?

Q.   WHY IS IT SO HARD TO GET A GUY? I NEED A MAN PLEASE HELP ...

A.   7 February 2009: this makes me mad that everyone thinks they need a man in their life. you have to be independent sometimes. even though i always use to think i needed a man to be happy. a man can sometimes cause you more stress in your life and sometimes being on ... (read in full...)

She's talking to her ex and I'm uncomfortable with it, what should I do?

Q.   hi, well im dating this girl and we have been going out for a really long time like 2 or 3 years, and i know im only 15 but i love this girl. but in the last couple of days she has been talking to her ex and ill be like "who are you talking to?" and ...

A.   7 February 2009: alright so me and my boyfriend (well ex now) had this problem. i would text a lot of guys and some were exes and he got mad and he told me how he felt and i respected it.. so just tell her how you feel and she'll probably feel bad about it and ... (read in full...)

No affection this week

Q.   so me and my man are going through a hard time right now. i am thinking about ending it with him, but i really truly want to contuine 'us', but aparently this week wasnt are week. he was sick, so maybe that has to do with it, but in the whole we...

A.   7 February 2009: just relax. don't be on his back all the time and get clingy. guys don't like that. let him come to you if you're gonna text. don't annoy him especially while he's sick. things could be changing but you never know.. just give it time and hopefully ... (read in full...)

What can I do to help them with their problem?

Q.   Hi i need some help ASAP my friend and his GF had sex today and the condom broke they are only 15 and dont have access to any contraceptive pills they ar freaking out what should they do Thanks in advance for your help ...

A.   7 February 2009: hm, this has happened with me and my ex. but any more details? did any cum get in her or did they stop when it popped or kept going? you never know.. just have the girl wait till her next period and if it doesn't come when it's supposed to tell her ... (read in full...)

What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out?

Q.   What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out? I have a few but others would be appreciated :D ...

A.   30 December 2008: haha awh thats so cute. me and my boyfriend have a game. one person lays down and moves their head to the left and right and the other person tries to catch them in the middle and kiss them. it's really cute. if you get what i'm saying?... (read in full...)

What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out?

Q.   What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out? I have a few but others would be appreciated :D ...

A.   30 December 2008: haha awh thats so cute. me and my boyfriend have a game. one person lays down and moves their head to the left and right and the other person tries to catch them in the middle and kiss them. it's really cute. if you get what i'm saying?... (read in full...)

What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out?

Q.   What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out? I have a few but others would be appreciated :D ...

A.   30 December 2008: what do you mean... games?... (read in full...)

Do I wait a week then ask her again?

Q.   I like this girl and was unsure whether she liked me or not. We had kissed on a couple of occasions, but it didn't necessarily mean she liked me as we were both drunk and as most will know these things happen. Anyway, I was at a party and she was ...

A.   7 December 2008: I would just wait a little while.. maybe let her come to you? Did you ever tell her that you were unsure if she liked you so that's why you slept with someone else.. If you don't want to wait just say hey can we talk? and start the conversation. ... (read in full...)

He wanted to cum in my eye!!!

Q.   I was having sex with a guy I've been seeing for a while the other night, when he said he wanted to do something. He didn't want to say what but I made him tell me and he said he wanted to come in my eye! I thought it was a joke at first so I ...

A.   7 December 2008: That does not sound too pleasant. Make sure he doesn't have any diseases if you do decide to let him because you can get diseases in your eye and you really don't want that. If you don't want him to do this then tell him it's a little too much. take ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and ready for sex!

Q.   Heyy :)x What it is, I'm 15 and I feel I'm ready to have sex .. but I'm really quite scared I dunno what to do :( I really like the boy I'm with and I feel I wanna lose it. A lot of boys have asked me for sex before but I didn't feel ready, I a...

A.   7 December 2008: hey, are you 100% positive you're ready? because when you do it you can't be scared.. you just have to relax. it's going to hurt no matter what, although it doesn't hurt for some people. but for me it hurt a lot. and i was 14. i'm 15 now. but you ... (read in full...)

How do I get over this girl?

Q.   Okay well I have recently been tricked into liking this girl at my school. She says she is bisexual but I don't believe that because she wasn't being serious about going out with me. She tricked me twice. The First time I had no idea until everyone ...

A.   6 December 2008: she's a tease. you don't wanna mess around with someone like this. she's just messing with your head. you just gotta realize that and realize that it's wrong and that's not the kind of person you want to be with.. don't give this girl any more ... (read in full...)

He's throwing his life to drugs - how can I get through to him?

Q.   my best friend is the best thing that happened to me in years. a while ago he promised me he would never touch drugs, i believed him. then he did the unthinkable and turned to drugs. he knows i dont agree with it, he knows i get angry at him, im ...

A.   6 December 2008: get him help. contact a doctor/therapist and let them know whats going on. do his parents know about this? he needs serious help.... (read in full...)

My parents are splitting up! What can I do to stop them?

Q.   My parents are going to split up! :( i don't know how to keep them together ...... please i need help........ x ...

A.   9 November 2008: you can't do anything but be there for them and support them when they need it. things happen. you just have to learn to deal with it.. and i know it sucks, but you just gotta. my parents got divorced when i was really little, so i can't even ... (read in full...)

I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING BUT KISS A GIRL BEFORE, NOW IM GOING TO DO ORAL FOR THE FIRST TIME, I NEED ADVICE!

Q.   ive been with my girlfriend over a couple of months now, and we are both ready to do oral sex. i've never done anything but kiss before. and im really nervous about showing my dick. im scared i might be too hairy, too small, and the main reason im ...

A.   9 November 2008: yo, if you're not ready then don't do it yet. you're self conscious and if you and your girlfriend grow closer over time then you will lose that and you will be comfortable with each other. just tell her you don't think you're ready yet.. that it's ... (read in full...)

What will happen to the relashionship if I kiss him and he doesn't want to be kissed?

Q.   I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months now, and we haven't even kissed yet. He recently admitted that he was frigid, but I would like to kiss him. I feel confused. I would kiss him, but I don't have the confidence to just do ...

A.   31 October 2008: just try it. when you feel it's right to kiss him then go ahead. if he looks at you funny or something like that then just appologize and tell him you thought it was necessary. or you could talk to him about it and figure it out? good luck babe... (read in full...)

What's he hiding???

Q.   My boyfriend and me had sex but for some reason he kept his boxers on. When I tried to pull them down it he would jerk away. Why? ...

A.   25 September 2008: have you ever had sex with him? if not, he could be self conscious about "down there". if you have had sex and he's taken them off then maybe you need to ask him. ... (read in full...)

I really don't want to break up with my boyfriend but I'd love a shot with this other guy.

Q.   Right, i'm 14, and really, really confused. i have this amazing boyfriend who lives in the town next to me, he's 15. i see him on weekends, but recently i've developed a loving for a boy at my school, and i love them the same amount. i really dont...

A.   23 September 2008: well if you really like your boyfriend then stay with him. but if you're going to go and like this other boy then break up with your boyfriend because you're only hurting him by liking another boy, but if you continued to be with him and still liked ... (read in full...)

I'm unsure about losing my virginity. I love my boyfriend, but I promised myself I would wait until marriage.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 month and 15 days (( Yes, I counted the days, shoot me )) and we've been talking about sex latley. We played the nervous game one time and he was suppose to go in my pants, but he went in my underwear by ...

A.   18 September 2008: please don't do this. you're definetly not ready if you're unsure. 1 month is not a long time and you can say that you're going to be together forever, but you're young, and you don't know that. stay true to your promise and wait till marriage. ... (read in full...)

Should I date him to prove to my Mum he isn't bad??

Q.   hi. So, im a freshman and im fourteen and i like this senior whos seventeen and will be turning eighteen shortly. He likes me back and he wants to start hanging out with me outside of school. We talk alot and we text message non stop. but i brou...

A.   14 September 2008: hmm, why would a senior want a freshman? think about it. usually older guys think that little girls are easy and just go for them to get in their pants. you know, your mother could be right and she's just trying to look out for you. i don't think ... (read in full...)

Preteen girl troubles

Q.   Hi, I'm twelve years old. Six months ago I saw one most beatiful and intelligent girls on earth. She is(in my opinion) out of my league. It got to the point that I paid some of my friends to convince her that I was a good choice for her. During ...

A.   17 August 2008: why don't you just tell her how you feel.. and find out how she feels. well at least ask her what's going on in her life. but seriously, you're too young to be worrying so much about this stuff. good luck xx ... (read in full...)

Is it ok for us to masturbate together?

Q.   Hi, I've been wandering whether it would be alright for me(male and my cousin(female) to masturbate together? We're both the same age and are really close. Please reply, Thanks...

A.   17 August 2008: uhm... why would you want to do that? that seems really wrong. and you may be tempted to do something together and remember it is your cousin. please be smart. take care xx... (read in full...)

He said that there are no rules to breaks. but I always thought there was?

Q.   ok so my boyfriend and i are on a break for a little bit, yeah i already know the chances of us breaking up already but we really do love eachother, this break is just so we can focus on school for a bit. and we act like we're not even on a break, ...

A.   17 August 2008: no, there's no rules. it is as if you two are still going out but you're just chill for now. so just act as if you're still together [which you are] and i'm sure it will be fine. good luck xx... (read in full...)

I can't deep throat likew his ex did. What do I do?

Q.   ok this is sorta embarrassing but i give my boyfriend blowjobs alot right, but like i cant completely have his penis in my mouth...i can deepthroat, but it'll make me want to vomit if i do. but me and my boyfriend were talking about what he did with ...

A.   17 August 2008: hun, don't compare yourself to his ex. he's with you now and that's all that matters. everyone's different so don't stress. i'm sure it still feels good for him. just relax. take care xx... (read in full...)

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