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writes:ok so my boyfriend and i are on a break for a little bit, yeah i already know the chances of us breaking up already but we really do love eachother, this break is just so we can focus on school for a bit. and we act like we're not even on a break, except the fact we dont talk on the phone as much. but yeah anyways, he said that their are no rules to breaks. but i always thought there was? or boundries at least. but i dont know, i mean i dont want him seeing other girls though, and im pretty sure he doesnt want me seeing other guys. because everytime i joke around with him about other guys he flips out saying how he should be the only guy in my life right now, but he said there are no rules. so i mean what do i do? do i ask him to put boundries up for us? or are there really no boundries to being on a break with someone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): this has happened to me and some of my mates.quick answer - just cancel the break and go back out.
theres only one type of break for guys and thats no rules, its to go out with other woman, have sex with other women if it gets to that and vice versa for you, tis to see if staying to gether is what you better for you.
going on break and saying its about concntrating on exams and you dont want you seeing other people sounds very bad to a guy.to him it just sounds like your just picking and choosing when you want to be together and have no real feeling for him, sounds harsh but us guys see black and white, no grey.
so cancel the break so its easier for him and he knows you still like him - but just spend a bit less time together and tell him you gotta concentrate on exams
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): yes thats worrying if he says theres no rules, it kinda implies that he wants to go do stuff with other girls. Whereas usually wehn you love someone and your on a break, it isnt like that, and you can't go with someone else.
Ask him what he'd do if you kissed a guy? while on your break
anyways i hope you stay together after the break
xxxx
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reader, n00dl35 +, writes (17 August 2008):
 no, there's no rules. it is as if you two are still going out but you're just chill for now. so just act as if you're still together [which you are] and i'm sure it will be fine. good luck xx
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