My wife has a list of rules and guidelines for sex!
Q. My wife insists on having rules for sex, no oral unless we are freshly out of the shower. No cumming on her face or in her mouth. And no matter what, I have not convinced her even once to swallow. I love her dearly but, I think this kills the s...
A. 12 December 2010: Hi there
Well being clean is understandable, it comes down to personal preferences and your wife prefers not to... yes its making you unhappy but didnt you know this before you got married?
If you already talked about it and she wont budge n... (read in full...)
In love with long term gf's cousin
Q. I have been with my gf now for 3 years. The last few months I have been feeling myself less attracted to my gf and increasingly attracted to her cousin. I love my gf, but it feels as though it is in a sisterly way. I dont want to break my gfs heart, ...
A. 10 December 2010: hi there
If you no longer want to be in a relationship then the fairest thing for both of you would be to break it off... yes ending relationships hurts but time does heal.
As for the cousin you already know the repercussions...... (read in full...)
First time sex, would the next day be too soon to have sex again?
Q. I'm still a virgin and planning a trip to go see my boyfriend up at school for about four days and I was wondering that even though it might hurt having sex the first time is it too soon to like wait the next day to maybe have it again? ...
A. 10 December 2010: hi there
Go with the flow and just see how you feel,if you want to have sex again the next day then do so :)... (read in full...)
Neither of us can move so we can be together!
Q. I have been in a relationship for about a year and half, and everything is perfect between my boyfriend and I. However, we have one problem we live in two different countries. I want him to move to my place, but he wants me to move to his side ...
A. 10 December 2010: hi there
If theres something stopping you from moving to be with your boyfriend... then are you not in the wrong relationship?
If you trully loved him you would move to the moon to be with him and start a new life there :)... (read in full...)
When do I stop a love/sex triangle
Q. Hi, before reading this i can only say its rather long but in the end a pretty good situation that im stuck in and need help from more then one person with. Hi, I am an early 20's male inseek of much advice,When I was 15 I met a girl named Megan...
A. 10 December 2010: Hi there
To be honest you already know the answer... your love triangle has to stop... and choose which one you want to be with if you cant .. well be fairer on all three of you if you finished all contact with both of them and find someone ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my boyfriend watching pornography?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year and we now have an apartment together. On a daily basis our relationship is fantastic and we love each other very much, I even believe (cornily enough) that he is the one. But I have a large in...
A. 10 December 2010: Hi there
He likes it .. you dont... at least he was open and honest to tell you why he likes it ..lots of people hide the fact they watch porn.
Why not a compromise,, he watches it while your not there... if its keeps your good relationship goi... (read in full...)
I have nothing left inside for her, should I end the marriage?
Q. My wife and I have had 20+ years of a rocky, but congenial marriage and the children are grown and successfully out on their own with good jobs or still finishing college. We agreed we would go our separate ways when the children were soundly off ...
A. 10 December 2010: Hi there
You have already decided, theres nothing left for you.
It will be hard for you to leave but what alternative have you got if you are miserable.. no point in staying if its not for you.
You cant have a one sided realtionship its n... (read in full...)
Facebook on verge of ruining an engagement
Q. Hello everyone, I recently got re-engaged with someone whom i had a 5 year on/off relationship from another state. He proposed in September and now its December and he refuses to add me on his Facebook because he feels "he needs his space and he w...
A. 10 December 2010: hi there
Its not facebook,, its your doubts as to why he wont add you.. could be hiding something could be not... you need to decide wether or not you want to be in this realtionship,, having secrets in a relationship isnt good for a long term com... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?
Q. Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...
A. 10 December 2010: hi there
why are you still with a guy that treats you so horribly.. you want to leave and made your mind up hes not for you so leave..Yes it will be hard at first but i think it will be a welcome relief for you once you have done it and will thi... (read in full...)
Confused about this girl...likes me or not?
Q. Confused about this girl...likes me or not? im gonna try to cut some stuff out to make this nice and simple i bumped into this girl i knew from high school about a year ago, she added me on facebook and not much happened as we were both in a relati...
A. 10 December 2010: hi there It sounds like shes scared to take a chance with a relationship as shes been hurt before, all you can do is talk to her and re assure her if you two were to start a relationship that you would be open and honest. If you two are meant to... (read in full...)
Help with mad Girlfiend parents
Q. So the major problem started about a week ago when my girlfriends car broke down, I offered to tow it to her house but she said it was ok. Her grandma and sister then later went and moved it to the gas station just down the street. They called my ...
A. 10 December 2010: Hi there
I agree with you, try explaining to them the events that happened.. if they wont listen then dont worry about it,, your in a relationship with your girlfirnd not the family :)... (read in full...)
He spends all of his free texting his co-worker!
Q. My fiance and I have been having problems. We have talked about going to see a couselor but everytime I go to make an appointment he says we are fine and dont need one. My real concern right now is, I found out today that he has been texting ...
A. 10 December 2010: Hi there
No wonder your feeling hurt he spends most of his time giving his attention to someone else, I think you already know the answer.
It could be that hes just giving his ego a rub or hes moving on either way this cant go on for much long... (read in full...)
My husband smells so bad that it affects our sex life!
Q. im so worried. my husband stinks real bad. though i did not tell him because he might be embarrassed, but i have been buying deodorants for him bt he dosent like using deodorants. this is really affecting our sex life. i dont know what to do....
A. 10 December 2010: Hi there
Difficult to approach someone and tell them about their personal hygiene... find out why he doesnt like using deordarants could be hes sensitive to them, you can buy ones that have less fragrance added etc.
Or how about just pouri... (read in full...)
He seemed to like me, why is he suddenly distant?
Q. There's this guy who I've been sort of hanging out with lately. He's really cool, and we're into a lot of the same things. He's friends with my ex, who I'm still friends with, so that's how we started hanging out. I'm starting to think he might be ...
A. 10 December 2010: Hi there
You havent done anything wrong, you two sound like you had a good time. You say hes your ex's friend, this can be a difficult situation, they are ex's for a reason and your ex might not like the fact you two are getting on so well, or... (read in full...)
I sense it is not over between us but what do I do now?
Q. So the issue with us is commitment. We know each other for a long time. We used to be friends until things gradually started to change. After months of flirting and dating without a label (no sex but some kissing always him pursuing me, trying to be ...
A. 9 December 2010: Hi there
It does sound like at this time that he doesnt want to make a committment to anybody but play the field, and you dont want to be just another name on his list..why sell yourself short.. if you 2 are truely friends... then friends you will... (read in full...)
How do I make a straight guy love me?
Q. what do i have to do ??? i am a 16 years old guy,i am a gay and i really love a guy in my school. unfortunately he is straight he is even horny and pervert when it comes to girls...... the problem that i think that he hates me...he only calls m...
A. 9 December 2010: hi there
Sounds like you have a crush on this guy, but wishing this guy was gay will not make it happen.. unfortunately you will have to admire him from a distance any close relationship to this guy is truly not going to happen.. so why risk tel... (read in full...)
If he is genuinely interested in me, then why doesn't he ever call me?
Q. I met this guy online and have been talking to him for about 4 months now. We've gone on 1 date a few days ago, and it went pretty well: met up for a casual dinner. Then he pleaded with me to come back to my place which I agreed, and we made out ...
A. 9 December 2010: I think you have already answered your own question "I kinda feel he is stringing me along ".
They say actions speak louder than words, and in this case what actions has he done... lets look at what he has not done...replyed to your messages... (read in full...)
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